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TSPandreSS
post Mar 22 2020, 05:54 PM, updated 3 months ago

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Reading all the other topics here I noticed most of them concern 20 year olds.
Anybody over 30, single, dating or searching for love? (Or is it just me?)
Share experiences, stories, tips or let's just rant about how it's harder the older you get.
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post Mar 25 2020, 08:38 AM

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QUOTE(PandreSS @ Mar 22 2020, 05:54 PM)
Reading all the other topics here I noticed most of them concern 20 year olds.
Anybody over 30, single, dating or searching for love? (Or is it just me?)
Share experiences, stories, tips or let's just rant about how it's harder the older you get.
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same here... but cant find nowadays.. .hard to find..
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post Mar 25 2020, 11:25 AM

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QUOTE(PandreSS @ Mar 22 2020, 05:54 PM)
Reading all the other topics here I noticed most of them concern 20 year olds.
Anybody over 30, single, dating or searching for love? (Or is it just me?)
Share experiences, stories, tips or let's just rant about how it's harder the older you get.
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me too. still searching
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post Mar 25 2020, 11:33 AM

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First and foremost, be able to enjoy your own company!

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post Mar 25 2020, 11:36 AM

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They resort to Tinder or SugarBabies app?
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post Mar 25 2020, 12:31 PM

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there;s so many in tinder

just dont use a photo of muka langgar lori
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post Mar 26 2020, 11:30 AM

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Just try to use different app to venture more friends & dates. I am also in mid 30's searching for love also. Try to ask friends to intro single ladies, dont pressure too much first can begin as friend. I also getting into fb dating app recently, met a few ladies also.
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post Mar 26 2020, 01:02 PM

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I dated a lot of young girl, early 20’s. Most of them study, some i ghosted them cause not right channel. Some they ghosted me, some obviously gold digger and some sex partner only. I know got few girls have a crush on me but I rejected them cause too high maintain , no thanks

Usually I met them through event, works place and sometime in public place, just says hi and make small conversation then ask number saja. Some rejected or ignore me, some suprisely gave me their number, only young girl. Older girls won’t even give me number and Jual mahal lol
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post Mar 26 2020, 02:20 PM

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QUOTE(PandreSS @ Mar 22 2020, 05:54 PM)
Reading all the other topics here I noticed most of them concern 20 year olds.
Anybody over 30, single, dating or searching for love? (Or is it just me?)
Share experiences, stories, tips or let's just rant about how it's harder the older you get.
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Too hard to find but don't give up yet

QUOTE(Plant @ Mar 26 2020, 01:02 PM)
I dated a lot of young girl, early 20’s.  Most of them study, some i ghosted them cause not right channel. Some they ghosted me, some obviously gold digger and some sex partner only. I know got few girls have a crush on me but I rejected them cause too high maintain  , no thanks

Usually I met them through event, works place and sometime in public place, just says hi and make small conversation then ask number saja. Some rejected or ignore me, some suprisely  gave me their number, only young girl. Older girls won’t even give me number and Jual mahal lol
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Isn't this a dream come through?
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post Mar 26 2020, 03:00 PM

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well, I am nearly to 40's now, so it will be more difficult for me especially I am woman. 30's guys will find their partners more easier than me.
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post Mar 26 2020, 04:57 PM

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QUOTE(Angeline @ Mar 26 2020, 03:00 PM)
well, I am nearly to 40's now, so it will be more difficult for me especially I am woman. 30's guys will find their partners more easier than me.
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Don't give up. Just take good care of yourself and be yourself.

I have a ex-colleague same age as you, who found a bf about 2 years ago and married last year. smile.gif
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post Mar 26 2020, 05:37 PM

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QUOTE(V429 @ Mar 26 2020, 04:57 PM)
Don't give up. Just take good care of yourself and be yourself.

I have a ex-colleague same age as you, who found a bf about 2 years ago and married last year. smile.gif
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Thanks and I will take care of myself and be myself.
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post Mar 26 2020, 06:10 PM

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QUOTE(Angeline @ Mar 26 2020, 03:00 PM)
well, I am nearly to 40's now, so it will be more difficult for me especially I am woman. 30's guys will find their partners more easier than me.
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Well you need to be aggressive of course provided acceptable level. My story. Me 33. I kacau her once ajak kahwin and give phone number. few month later she started calling me a dozens times. More than half i ignore. Few times i accept. First few times not interested as got doubt . Last month i accept her. Next year plan to get marry wub.gif wub.gif

Want more info we can exchanged PM

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Angeline
post Mar 26 2020, 06:25 PM

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QUOTE(kesvani @ Mar 26 2020, 06:10 PM)
Well you need to be aggressive of course provided acceptable level. My story. Me 33. I kacau her once ajak kahwin and give phone number.  few month later she started calling me a dozens times. More than half i ignore. Few times i accept. First few times not interested as got doubt  . Last month i accept her. Next year plan to get marry wub.gif  wub.gif

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So, you act aggressive first to make her act aggressive later? How old is she then? Just by calling each other, or dating as usual? But my case is different as i do not live in KL, so LDR first before anything else.
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post Mar 26 2020, 06:26 PM

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QUOTE(Angeline @ Mar 26 2020, 06:25 PM)
So, you act aggressive first to make her act aggressive later? How old is she then? Just by calling each other, or dating as usual? But my case is different as i do not live in KL, so LDR first before anything else.
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More detail i dont want share in public. Too risky. I can write cronology if you want hahaha

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post Mar 26 2020, 06:31 PM

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QUOTE(PandreSS @ Mar 22 2020, 05:54 PM)
Reading all the other topics here I noticed most of them concern 20 year olds.
Anybody over 30, single, dating or searching for love? (Or is it just me?)
Share experiences, stories, tips or let's just rant about how it's harder the older you get.
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Last year i told myself last year would be the year. But i guess never happened and now already starting 30's.
I did not grab opportunity when it was right there.
Also sometimes i think being alone is not that bad, until you start stay alone.

Anyway, surprisingly a few of my friends broke up last year. Guess many people are single in their 30's nowdays.

This post has been edited by windvind: Mar 26 2020, 06:37 PM
Angeline
post Mar 26 2020, 06:36 PM

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QUOTE(kesvani @ Mar 26 2020, 06:26 PM)
More detail i dont want share in public. Too risky. I can write cronology if you want hahaha
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Maybe you share with me by pm me, if she is ok with it.
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post Mar 26 2020, 06:39 PM

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QUOTE(Angeline @ Mar 26 2020, 06:36 PM)
Maybe you share with me by pm me, if she is ok with it.
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OK. Send you right now. Gonna take a while to write

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post Mar 26 2020, 11:39 PM

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QUOTE(Angeline @ Mar 26 2020, 06:36 PM)
Maybe you share with me by pm me, if she is ok with it.
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A friend of mine mid 40s now. Last year found BF I think is first ever BF. Caucasian around her age too. Western and European are more accepting when it comes to age
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post Mar 29 2020, 11:10 PM

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just out of curiosity, do women prefer guys in their 30s to date + end up marrying?

fyi, im in mid 30s, m, and i'm earning >10k/month so not a loser.

just not that interested in a relationship after a few lousy ones.



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