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post Mar 22 2020, 01:34 PM, updated 6y ago

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My relationship with my wife is getting worse as we argue a lot, and we can’t seem to see eye to eye on some matters, such as sex.

She is 34 and I am 44. We used to have a good relationship. We are staying apart as she is from Indonesia and I am from Malaysia. She has a seven-year-old daughter.

At present, my financial situation is not good.

The problem started when she asked for phone sex all the time or talked about sex, saying I’m not sensitive to her needs and cannot fulfil her sexual desire.

I work from morning till late at night. I get too tired and stressed.

She always blames me for not giving her what she wants, and our relationship is not getting any better.

I tried to explain to her my situation as I worry about our future and I don’t think about sex as my stress is all about how to solve my problems and trying to make ends meet.

She says I don’t understand her.

I’m already mentally stressed about money, and how to give her and her kid a better life, to get them to come over and live with me.

But her impatience makes me more stressed although I’ve tried my best to explain things to her. She knows my situation well but says I am giving excuses. She feels upset each time we talk.

I do love her very much, but she doesn’t seem to understand how stressed out I am, and that I can’t give her what she wants. i.e. sex and romance.

I work every single day, to pay the bills and debts. She works too but she has her family to take care of, since she’s the sole provider in her family.

I am tired. By the time I come home from work, it’s late – and she wants phone sex. If I say I’m tired, she gets angry and hangs up.

Her daughter feels I’m a bad stepdad, an unloving person who doesn’t understand her mum. I feel sad.

I don’t know what to do now, as she keeps blaming me for even small things.

I suggested that we get help from a counsellor, but she refuses.

I hope she can change, and be understanding and patient. I’m trying to build a family by working hard but, at the moment, I’m struggling. That makes me stressed out every day.

This post has been edited by annoymous1234: Mar 22 2020, 01:35 PM
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post Mar 22 2020, 01:36 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 01:36 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 01:37 PM

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>financial situation is not good

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post Mar 22 2020, 01:37 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 01:37 PM

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its ok if financial not good.. i am here to provide help, for free, with one condition: no landwhale
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post Mar 22 2020, 01:38 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 01:38 PM

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you have financial responsibilty to the family. but you also have other responsibility. ive been there. plan you working hours. start taking more rest. spend time more at home. start by having half an hour more and try to increase more in time.
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post Mar 22 2020, 01:38 PM

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Something isn’t right. He mentioned that she has a daughter.

Does that mean the daughter isn’t his?
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post Mar 22 2020, 01:39 PM

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Depends on how her wife looks like . Maybe I could help...
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post Mar 22 2020, 01:41 PM

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QUOTE(Slowpokeking @ Mar 22 2020, 01:38 PM)
Something isn’t right. He mentioned that she has a daughter.

Does that mean the daughter isn’t his?
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Ya. This fella is a stepdad
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post Mar 22 2020, 01:44 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 01:44 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 01:47 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 01:47 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 01:48 PM

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QUOTE(annoymous1234 @ Mar 22 2020, 01:34 PM)
https://www.thestar.com.my/lifestyle/family...satisfy-my-wife

My relationship with my wife is getting worse as we argue a lot, and we can’t seem to see eye to eye on some matters, such as sex.

She is 34 and I am 44. We used to have a good relationship. We are staying apart as she is from Indonesia and I am from Malaysia. She has a seven-year-old daughter.

At present, my financial situation is not good.

The problem started when she asked for phone sex all the time or talked about sex, saying I’m not sensitive to her needs and cannot fulfil her sexual desire.

I work from morning till late at night. I get too tired and stressed.

She always blames me for not giving her what she wants, and our relationship is not getting any better.

I tried to explain to her my situation as I worry about our future and I don’t think about sex as my stress is all about how to solve my problems and trying to make ends meet.

She says I don’t understand her.

I’m already mentally stressed about money, and how to give her and her kid a better life, to get them to come over and live with me.

But her impatience makes me more stressed although I’ve tried my best to explain things to her. She knows my situation well but says I am giving excuses. She feels upset each time we talk.

I do love her very much, but she doesn’t seem to understand how stressed out I am, and that I can’t give her what she wants. i.e. sex and romance.

I work every single day, to pay the bills and debts. She works too but she has her family to take care of, since she’s the sole provider in her family.

I am tired. By the time I come home from work, it’s late – and she wants phone sex. If I say I’m tired, she gets angry and hangs up.

Her daughter feels I’m a bad stepdad, an unloving person who doesn’t understand her mum. I feel sad.

I don’t know what to do now, as she keeps blaming me for even small things.

I suggested that we get help from a counsellor, but she refuses.

I hope she can change, and be understanding and patient. I’m trying to build a family by working hard but, at the moment, I’m struggling. That makes me stressed out every day.
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post Mar 22 2020, 01:52 PM

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You do phone sex before go to work loh
This simple solution also cant think
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post Mar 22 2020, 01:53 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 01:56 PM

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Phone sex might be good if never do before.. after already had sex before some more do phone sex for what?
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post Mar 22 2020, 01:58 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 02:03 PM

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many /ktard lining up to help his wife brows.gif brows.gif

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post Mar 22 2020, 02:05 PM

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plot twist, the girl is landwhale that why the hubby not interested
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post Mar 22 2020, 02:05 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 02:06 PM

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Indons girls have high sexual drive.. If can't handle better don't date one
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QUOTE(6996 @ Mar 22 2020, 01:58 PM)
Ask Stigonboard

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IN THIS SITUATION STILL WANNA GATAL?

PLS DIVORCE,BABOON
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post Mar 22 2020, 02:13 PM

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Bro...take magnesium....or Himalaya speman...confirm nafsu buas
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Wth Phone sex? Watch porn better
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Bersetubuh je apa yg susah sangat
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post Mar 22 2020, 02:36 PM

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post Mar 22 2020, 03:06 PM

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When the woman is more hamsap than the man...
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post Mar 22 2020, 06:02 PM

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That's why only go into a relationship when you're financially sound.

So that you can piap-piap all day long don't have to worry about no money to buy food.
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post Mar 22 2020, 06:04 PM

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34 yo female phone sex can satisfy ke?
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Phone sex apa susah?
Instruct her to switch on vibrate mode and shove her phone under there lah.
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post Mar 22 2020, 06:16 PM

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Don't waste women's time with bunch of excuses if you aren't able and willing to please them in the bedroom
Kek you think they are only good to reproduce and cook for you izzit?
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some times, these people don;t think. they don;t want a better life, they want him to treat them better, in the way she want.
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QUOTE(thefryingfox @ Mar 22 2020, 02:13 PM)
Bro...take magnesium....or Himalaya speman...confirm nafsu buas
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Himalaya speman work? is it a supplement increase sperm count?
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His 'wife' got weird phone sex fetish. Not the man can't perform on bed but the man had no idea how to make his wife aroused through the phone.

Can some /k phone sex expert educate us, how does it work? Talk dirty till she climax doh.gif ? All imagination doh.gif ? Better just masturbate to porn lel.
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post Sep 29 2020, 06:28 AM

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QUOTE(weiseang72 @ Sep 28 2020, 11:03 PM)
Himalaya speman work? is it a supplement increase sperm count?
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Sperm count , sperm motility and your stamina. But you got to take it daily for a week to see any real benefit
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QUOTE(suikod3n @ Sep 28 2020, 11:07 PM)
His 'wife' got weird phone sex fetish. Not the man can't perform on bed but the man had no idea how to make his wife aroused through the phone.

Can some /k phone sex expert educate us, how does it work? Talk dirty till she climax  doh.gif ? All imagination  doh.gif ? Better just masturbate to porn lel.
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women wire different than men la deyyy

they tend to be more on the emotion side

while we men on the visual side.. thats why men prefer to watch porn, look at sexy girls and whatnots

for women... idk, cant understand, wont understand and will never understand what they want
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QUOTE(ry8128 @ Mar 22 2020, 01:37 PM)
its ok if financial not good.. i am here to provide help, for free, with one condition: no landwhale
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Hardly indonesia are landwhale. Some she got only 1daughter. Surely the body very solid. Indon women lovw to eat jamu
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Himalaya speman work? is it a supplement increase sperm count?
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Why u so dry go necro old post.
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