During my wedding about 2 years ago.. I let my guests know it is not needed to write their name on the angbao if they wish to give. Whatever amount is appreciated, what is most important is their presence and time. My ji mui x need to record or write down who gives what.. just accept and put it aside in a box and that's it. More focus on giving guests the doorgifts and be ready to makan frm buffet selection.

Honestly, me and hubby x expect anything as we kept it to a simple small affair. We both had prepared financially for it. Guests are not there to fund your wedding but to celebrate and capture beautiful memories together.