then they thought only asian liddis....kuikui ag moh oso same same lar   

well itulah lumrah jadi husband...taking shiits from the wife....but as a man no need to mellow down and being depress about it lar.....take it on the chin and just rise up to ur big responsibility lar....think about ur cute lovely kid la...ur providing a comfort life to them. there will come a certain level when u provided in term of commitment, money and time to the family when the wife will be reasnably satisfied....unless ur wfe is the rosmah type lar, where even a mountain of gold and diamond still not enough, still hallucinate of owning the arkenstone...where in the end get the arkenstone and lloses their mind, getting suffocated in all their wealth...