If can’t commit don’t have to get married then. Better have an open relationship. I still believe that marriage is only for two person. More than that, it’s like a legally low paid pr*stituti*n. Pros at least still got a fair share, fully paid. While the “holy” husband’s goal nowadays find 2nd 3rd 4th who financially independent or agree to get low amount of monthly allowance so they could save in many ways.