12. Peniaga buah buahan.
Even I scared to jaga that many if I know I can't afford.
Kesian la kat budak. Later they grown up u expect them to "balas jasa" ke
Terpaksa ke sekolah tanpa uniform kerana miskin
Terpaksa ke sekolah tanpa uniform kerana miskin
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Jan 14 2020, 10:11 PM
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12. Peniaga buah buahan.
Even I scared to jaga that many if I know I can't afford. Kesian la kat budak. Later they grown up u expect them to "balas jasa" ke |
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Jan 15 2020, 08:25 AM
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QUOTE(palankon @ Jan 15 2020, 12:34 AM) kau ni kurang pemahaman agama ni. Nyawa tu pemberian Allah. Tanggungjawab tu pada manusia. Kalau sampai ada anak tak sekolah, tak diberikan hak untuk belajar, macam mana dia nak jadi pemimpin masa depan untuk kemajuan dan kemaslahatan ummah? Kebajikan tu nombor satu, dari sekecil kecik pengurusan keluarga hinggalah sebesar besar pentadbiran negara. Tapi aku tengok kebajikan ni la semua tak reti jaga. Semua fokus kat benda benda lain.itulah namanya rezeki. kenapa nak salahkan nyawa kalau isunya kemiskinan ? nyawa tu pemberian Allah. hanya kerana sebab2 material, kau nak salahkan nyawa yang dianugerahkan Allah ? sebab tu lima kali sehari diucapkan di azan, hayya alal falah (marilah menuju kejayaan). perkataan ni sentiasa keluar dari corong masjid setiap hari, sampailah kiamat. kalau kau tak amik pengajaran dari panggilan azan ni, jangan salahkan Allah pulak. akidah kau lemah ni. |
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Jan 15 2020, 08:40 AM
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Jan 15 2020, 08:41 AM
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Jan 15 2020, 09:20 AM
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QUOTE(palankon @ Jan 15 2020, 09:09 AM) betul. so usaha lah. Kita tak salahkan anak ramaikenapa nak salahkan anak ramai pulak? banyak je orang anak ramai tapi takde masalah pun. isunya kemiskinan, bukan anak ramai. orang yang akidah kuat akan faham maksud ni. konsep takdir, rezeki, tawakal dan syukur ni berbeza bagi orang islam. Kita salahkan ibu bapa yang tak reti bertanggungjawab bila buat sesuatu Kalau anak ramai pun, kalau semua sekolah semua pakai elok elok tak kisah Usaha ada, kebajikan terjaga, semua gembira Bila dah tau tak mampu, bersederhanalah. Jangan ikut nafsu. Macam berpoligami, dah tau diri tak adil, tak mampu, jangan berpoligami. |
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Jan 15 2020, 09:39 AM
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QUOTE(palankon @ Jan 15 2020, 09:24 AM) pernah dengar ayat Quran yang kata "Allah takkan uji seseorang tu melebihi dari kemampuannya" ? Allah dah uji mereka dengan kemiskinan, mereka hidup susah. inilah satu contohnya. kalau pun mereka hidup susah, kita semua diwajibkan berusaha untuk mencari jalan keluar. menafikan hak setiap nyawa untuk wujud adalah melawan fitrah manusia itu sendiri. setiap kekurangan yang diujii Allah akan diberi kemenangan jika ada istiqamah. itu janji Allah. dan itulah juga erti kehidupan. Salah satu jalan keluar adalah perancangan keluarga, dan ia dibenarkan di dalam Islam untuk tujuan ekonomi dan kesihatan. Bila mereka dah stabil dari segi kewangan, baru lah boleh buat anak lagi. Islam sangat mementingkan strategi dan perancangan dalam membuat apa apa. Takkan bab perang boleh ada strategi tapi bab keluarga main lanyak je. |
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Jan 15 2020, 11:29 AM
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QUOTE(palankon @ Jan 15 2020, 11:26 AM) simple je aku tanya, tak faham point aku niorang anak ramai je ke yang miskin ? orang anak sikit tak miskin? berapa ramai anak bukan penyebab kemiskinan. mana kajian antarabangsa yang mengatakan bilangan anak penyebab kemiskinan ? kita tak fokus kepada anak, kita fokus kepada ibu bapak dia anak tu bukan penyebab kemiskinan, tapi kalau dah miskin sampai aniaya anak, jangan la buat banyak2 anak naikkan kualiti hidup dulu, lainlah kalau memang dah sedia kaya, dah ramai anak, tiba tiba jatuh miskin tu baru la ujian |
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QUOTE(saikia2046 @ Jan 15 2020, 11:48 AM) I mau tanya bro, itu condom memang haram as far as I dengar cakap org. Macam mana dengan pancut luar atau pergi buat sebarang child birth control punya operation? Adakah haram juga? hukum kondom ada banyak pendapat sebenarnyatapi family planning tak haram for the sake of economics and health so you can do it except abortion, that's entirely different thing to discuss This post has been edited by ZerOne01: Jan 15 2020, 11:59 AM |
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Jan 15 2020, 12:08 PM
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QUOTE(M4A1 @ Jan 15 2020, 12:03 PM) to be fair, he's not entirely wrongwe believe in rezeki as well, cos things can come without expectation and sometimes outside our logic i dunno about him, but for me i believe in perancangan together with rezeki instead of just entirely believe in rezeki after all, God can't do much about you if u dun wanna change own fate |
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QUOTE(M4A1 @ Jan 15 2020, 12:09 PM) Yea that's why u need to plan a bit to avoid being unfair to the childrenThey also need a decent life with enough love from parents, altho kenot spoonfeed too much later spoil |
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Jan 15 2020, 01:44 PM
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QUOTE(genecode @ Jan 15 2020, 01:39 PM) Setuju. Tapi banyak tak tahu bro. kondom 3 keping baru rm1 takmau beli, tapi rokok rm20 boleh je beli pulak. Mungkin kurang pendidikan, mungkin memang taknak jaga, kita tak tauInfo kondom 3 keping RM1. http://www.lppkn.gov.my/index.php/perkhidm...arga-lppkn.html Harap harap lepas ni boleh la banteras kes macam ni |
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Jan 15 2020, 07:01 PM
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Jan 15 2020, 07:32 PM
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QUOTE(Pipopipo @ Jan 15 2020, 07:26 PM) "Yang yang, malam ni kita cuba lagi eh?? Abang nak cuba lagi buat last time. The age gap is not that far so I doubt the dialogue is like this "Abang pasti kalau jadi nanti anak yg ke-9 kita ni pasti akan berjaya dan akan dapat menjaga kita berdua kelak." "Tapi bang, sebelum ni pun abang cakap gitu juga. Tapi tengok yg anak kita semua tu skrg??" "Xpe yang, abang pasti yg anak ke-9 ni pasti akan berjaya dalam hidup kelak. Abang pasti." |
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QUOTE(Pipopipo @ Jan 15 2020, 07:38 PM) Lol. We'll never know. Maybe kahwin awal?? Like my staff. Kahwin umur 15. Now baru umur 31 eldest dotter already 16yrs old. So that's certainly a possibility. But what I'm trying to say is, x kan lah betul2 wanna cuba sampai berjaya?? Cuba sampai kena jackpot?? Instead of planning well for the everyone future, here they r treating beranak like main 4d saja. Yeah I dunno what's in their mind reallyMaybe last time can la beranak sampai 10 cos can still afford Now need to think a lot of stuff |
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