If you haven't married and have kids, your stupidity will kill you soon.
I even heard some parent can't afford to provide nutritional food and just provide them sugary water.
I hope you won't do that to kids by making them char siew in the 1st place.

How many high siblings family still enjoy close knit relationship.
My mom side no.
My mum is number 8 out of 10.
We have issue with the 1st three uncle and aunt coz their life is in b40 while me in m40. When my grandma passed away they make havoc for not receiving any inheritance. My mom said my grandma only leave few thousands and the funeral cost my mom about 10k++ (that luckily the burial land already brought in early 70s)
Well big family will have this issue bound to happen.