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post Jan 14 2020, 03:03 PM, updated 5y ago

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There's this local chinese girl knew from dating app.

We have chemistry on conversation just few days on chatting. Its been a week moved out from the app. The girl then indirectly confessed by texting that she wants start relationship with me.

I was actually into dating app to looking for frens and of course soulmate if the match is meant to be as theres not much girl frens around me. I was tot to know more frens til im financially stable enough to get gf.

But currently i'm a 28 yo guy with ten thousand credit card debt, just few thousand cash in bank account with a debtless myvi. Staying with parents. I like her, but i felt like i need another 2 years to be financially stable enough.

So guys, i shud accept or no? whats ur thoughts? Just to hear some opinion from u guys. Thanks mates
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post Jan 14 2020, 03:07 PM

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are you gonna marry her next month? no right, so why think so much about financial stable. just go along with the flow, maybe this is the one, if she understand your situation, she wont ask about your financial standings
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post Jan 14 2020, 03:08 PM

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QUOTE(Bambeeboo @ Jan 14 2020, 03:03 PM)
There's this local chinese girl knew from dating app.

We have chemistry on conversation just few days on chatting. Its been a week moved out from the app. The girl then indirectly confessed by texting that she wants start relationship with me.

I was actually into dating app to looking for frens and of course soulmate if the match is meant to be as theres not much girl frens around me. I was tot to know more frens til im financially stable enough to get gf.

But currently i'm a 28 yo guy with ten thousand credit card debt, just few thousand cash in bank account with a debtless myvi. Staying with parents. I like her, but i felt like i need another 2 years to be financially  stable enough.

So guys, i shud accept or no? whats ur thoughts? Just to hear some opinion from u guys. Thanks mates
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First, text her this and tell her your financial situation. See if she still accepts you.

If yes, then come back here for advice on how to proceed.
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post Jan 14 2020, 03:11 PM

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QUOTE(palgo47 @ Jan 14 2020, 03:08 PM)
First, text her this and tell her your financial situation. See if she still accepts you.

If yes, then come back here for advice on how to proceed.
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This method is to get rid of gold diggers if she is one of them.

If she doesn't mind, then she's the one.
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post Jan 14 2020, 03:13 PM

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QUOTE(palgo47 @ Jan 14 2020, 03:08 PM)
First, text her this and tell her your financial situation. See if she still accepts you.

If yes, then come back here for advice on how to proceed.
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Definitely she will say ok..
Continue the romance but ask her can go Dutch or not since you also in watery financial.

But then as a gentlement....Try your best to foot the bill at every outing...
Good luck....


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post Jan 14 2020, 03:15 PM

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QUOTE(Bambeeboo @ Jan 14 2020, 03:03 PM)
Its been a week moved out from the app. The girl then indirectly confessed by texting that she wants start relationship with me.

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always a red flag. Is she chubby or fat.
how old is she?
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post Jan 14 2020, 03:52 PM

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Just accept it first but tell her clearly your situation and your thinking as you dont want to rush the relation
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post Jan 14 2020, 04:07 PM

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QUOTE(-Dread- @ Jan 14 2020, 03:15 PM)
always a red flag. Is she chubby or fat.
how old is she?
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hahahahahaha

seriously?

is your list really that short and/or basic?

cannot be, right?
QUOTE(Bambeeboo @ Jan 14 2020, 03:03 PM)
There's this local chinese girl knew from dating app.

We have chemistry on conversation just few days on chatting. Its been a week moved out from the app. The girl then indirectly confessed by texting that she wants start relationship with me.

I was actually into dating app to looking for frens and of course soulmate if the match is meant to be as theres not much girl frens around me. I was tot to know more frens til im financially stable enough to get gf.

But currently i'm a 28 yo guy with ten thousand credit card debt, just few thousand cash in bank account with a debtless myvi. Staying with parents. I like her, but i felt like i need another 2 years to be financially  stable enough.

So guys, i shud accept or no? whats ur thoughts? Just to hear some opinion from u guys. Thanks mates
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Just like what others are saying, just be transparent with her.

Everyone has to start out somewhere.

This post has been edited by ViktorJ: Jan 14 2020, 04:08 PM
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post Jan 14 2020, 04:12 PM

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QUOTE(-Dread- @ Jan 14 2020, 01:45 PM)
always a red flag. Is she chubby or fat.
how old is she?
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Lol
Must be desperate to get marry

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post Jan 14 2020, 04:22 PM

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how did she indirectly tell you?
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post Jan 14 2020, 04:43 PM

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QUOTE(Captain89 @ Jan 14 2020, 04:12 PM)
Lol
Must be desperate to get marry
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maybe she's HB4 ts is HG7
the further the difference of rating, one party is going to be desperate
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post Jan 14 2020, 04:47 PM

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Striving financial stability is a no-end task
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post Jan 14 2020, 04:48 PM

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You can start as friends....i dont think you are gonna marry the girl in the next few weeks dont you?

Just go for it!
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post Jan 14 2020, 05:21 PM

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you'll never know if you've met the right one. sometimes they only come once in a lifetime so just do it. if she founds out and dump u, u know its for the better cos u managed to uncover a gold digger
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post Jan 14 2020, 05:41 PM

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QUOTE(hightechgadgets8 @ Jan 14 2020, 03:07 PM)
are you gonna marry her next month? no right, so why think so much about financial stable. just go along with the flow, maybe this is the one, if she understand your situation, she wont ask about your financial standings
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+1 to this ^

being in a relationship sometimes does not need lots of financial capabilities if both parties are understanding and knows how to save money
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post Jan 15 2020, 12:01 PM

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QUOTE(Bambeeboo @ Jan 14 2020, 03:03 PM)
There's this local chinese girl knew from dating app.

We have chemistry on conversation just few days on chatting. Its been a week moved out from the app. The girl then indirectly confessed by texting that she wants start relationship with me.

I was actually into dating app to looking for frens and of course soulmate if the match is meant to be as theres not much girl frens around me. I was tot to know more frens til im financially stable enough to get gf.

But currently i'm a 28 yo guy with ten thousand credit card debt, just few thousand cash in bank account with a debtless myvi. Staying with parents. I like her, but i felt like i need another 2 years to be financially  stable enough.

So guys, i shud accept or no? whats ur thoughts? Just to hear some opinion from u guys. Thanks mates
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why you got so many debts? stay with parents still got debts?
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post Jan 15 2020, 02:07 PM

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No issue to start a relationship while having financial issues. Unless she is a gold digger & expect everything sponsor by you.

If such, dump her. Who knows later she is doesn't care on your financial standing. Go for it bro!!!
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post Jan 15 2020, 02:19 PM

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QUOTE(Bambeeboo @ Jan 14 2020, 03:03 PM)
There's this local chinese girl knew from dating app.

We have chemistry on conversation just few days on chatting. Its been a week moved out from the app. The girl then indirectly confessed by texting that she wants start relationship with me.

I was actually into dating app to looking for frens and of course soulmate if the match is meant to be as theres not much girl frens around me. I was tot to know more frens til im financially stable enough to get gf.

But currently i'm a 28 yo guy with ten thousand credit card debt, just few thousand cash in bank account with a debtless myvi. Staying with parents. I like her, but i felt like i need another 2 years to be financially  stable enough.

So guys, i shud accept or no? whats ur thoughts? Just to hear some opinion from u guys. Thanks mates
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Judging by your financial insecurity concerns, I would say go for it.
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post Jan 15 2020, 05:22 PM

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QUOTE(Bambeeboo @ Jan 14 2020, 03:03 PM)
There's this local chinese girl knew from dating app.

We have chemistry on conversation just few days on chatting. Its been a week moved out from the app. The girl then indirectly confessed by texting that she wants start relationship with me.

I was actually into dating app to looking for frens and of course soulmate if the match is meant to be as theres not much girl frens around me. I was tot to know more frens til im financially stable enough to get gf.

But currently i'm a 28 yo guy with ten thousand credit card debt, just few thousand cash in bank account with a debtless myvi. Staying with parents. I like her, but i felt like i need another 2 years to be financially  stable enough.

So guys, i shud accept or no? whats ur thoughts? Just to hear some opinion from u guys. Thanks mates
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28 yr old
big debt
myvi
no house no condo
no saving
stay with parents

i'll focus on my career and financial first before i even think of relationship

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post Jan 15 2020, 08:21 PM

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QUOTE(-Dread- @ Jan 14 2020, 03:15 PM)
always a red flag. Is she chubby or fat.
how old is she?
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Eh tot she is ur type? rclxs0.gif
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