Hi all, i am not too sure how and where to start. Appreciate those that can read through what I am about to write and shed some light?

I have a mentally and verbal abusive brother who is 12 years older than me. He is the way he is partly due to his upbringing. My parents were poor and naive back then, but when I was born, they are just starting to do ok. My parents are like any typical asian parents, high ego, dont bother to understand, bad communication, conservative and high pride.

My brother used to work in the family business. His temper is so bad that any hired staff will leave within a month. No one can work with him. Out of options, my father made him leave the business by building another business for him in which he lateron failed it.

Years ago, on and off he takes drugs.He also went thru a bad breakup which involves suicidal, police and psychiatrist. He was put into the mental ward.

Then things got bad again, his temper return again, each time worse than before. When things are bad, he would say all sorts if nasty things, he would shout at us, scold us, destroying anything within his reach.

He would find fault with anybody who he's not happy with like destroying their property.

Then, he moved out of the house because my father threaten him by saying the police are looking for him for the things he destroy.

He stayed from rented room to rented room because couldnt get along with anyone. Not working afraid that police will look for him. My parents have been paying for his living expenses so far.

I got an offer to leave Malaysia for work (not to singapore) and he is my only brother. So i asked him to come back to stay with my parents after all these years. Because i needed someone to look afyer my parents when im not around.

Few days moving in everything was fine. Few days later everything is back to the same temper, same abusive character and destroying and throwing things.

Its been few peaceful years and i have invited the him to ruin the peace at home.

I meam, what should i do? What can i do? I needed his help to look after my parents. But the mental abuse my parents needa to go through is not something anyone needs when they are in their old age.

He really needs help but i do not know who to reach and how to do it. I tried googling rehab centers but mostly cater to alcohol and drugs which is not applicable now.

Anyone knows any center i can reach out that can help him? Im really out of options i do not know what to do anymore.