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chilicandy
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Jul 13 2007, 06:26 PM
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QUOTE(r i k h a i @ Jul 13 2007, 06:08 PM) I love this girl, X since 4 months ago. X is very hardworking and she's good in sports too.. I am a fat, not handsome and I feel shy everytime I talk to a girl. I changed a lot because of X. I have been on diet for the past few weeks. I eat as little as possible and I ended up sick. Recently, I heard from my friend that X fall in love with my best friend, Y. Y is a new student in my school and I only knew him this year. Our relationship are very good. Yesterday night, I asked Y whether he has feeling towards X and he said no. I was so happy at that moment but X would get hurts if she knew about it. What should I do? Before Y starts to have any feelings for X, you gotta make your move man.... You dont have to express your feelings for X yet, but you try spending more time with X, let her know your existence. Giver her a chance to get to know you better. Probably that would change her mind about falling in love with Y.  good luck.
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chilicandy
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Jul 13 2007, 06:51 PM
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QUOTE(r i k h a i @ Jul 13 2007, 06:35 PM) But even if she does not love Y anymore. Will she loves me? I am trying really hard d. But it just seems to go the other way. Now I seldom talk to her. I remember days before I express my feeling towards her, we were good friend. But now everything has changed. oh darn... you just commited the first mistake, that is expressing your feelings towards her before she has any good feelings toward you. Thats a big taboo man..... you just burnt your own bridges. You should try to be good friends with her, but not 'express' your love for her before she's ready. Usually a girl ( who is considerate enough ) would turns down a man, if she doesnt have any feel. She doesnt want to waste your time. And you just give her a chance to end the possibilities of her having to consider you. haihhh...
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chilicandy
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Jul 13 2007, 08:12 PM
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you will eventually move on in this life, and meet more girls... Dont spend too much time wallowing over this love issues. Concentrate on your studies, and embark on a good career. Trust me, once your career more stables, better income, you can pick the kind of girls you want.
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