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chilicandy
post Jul 13 2007, 06:26 PM

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QUOTE(r i k h a i @ Jul 13 2007, 06:08 PM)
I love this girl, X since 4 months ago. X is very hardworking and she's good in sports too.. I am a fat, not handsome and I feel shy everytime I talk to a girl. I changed a lot because of X. I have been on diet for the past few weeks. I eat as little as possible and I ended up sick. Recently, I heard from my friend that X fall in love with my best friend, Y. Y is a new student in my school and I only knew him this year. Our relationship are very good. Yesterday night, I asked Y whether he has feeling towards X and he said no. I was so happy at that moment but X would get hurts if she knew about it. What should I do?
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Before Y starts to have any feelings for X, you gotta make your move man....
You dont have to express your feelings for X yet, but you try spending more time with X, let her know your existence. Giver her a chance to get to know you better. Probably that would change her mind about falling in love with Y. biggrin.gif

good luck.
chilicandy
post Jul 13 2007, 06:51 PM

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QUOTE(r i k h a i @ Jul 13 2007, 06:35 PM)
But even if she does not love Y anymore. Will she loves me? I am trying really hard d. But it just seems to go the other way. Now I seldom talk to her. I remember days before I express my feeling towards her, we were good friend. But now everything has changed.
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oh darn... you just commited the first mistake, that is expressing your feelings towards her before she has any good feelings toward you.
Thats a big taboo man..... you just burnt your own bridges.
You should try to be good friends with her, but not 'express' your love for her before she's ready.
Usually a girl ( who is considerate enough ) would turns down a man, if she doesnt have any feel. She doesnt want to waste your time. And you just give her a chance to end the possibilities of her having to consider you. haihhh...
chilicandy
post Jul 13 2007, 08:12 PM

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you will eventually move on in this life, and meet more girls...
Dont spend too much time wallowing over this love issues.
Concentrate on your studies, and embark on a good career.
Trust me, once your career more stables, better income, you can pick the kind of girls you want.

 

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