I love this girl, X since 4 months ago. X is very hardworking and she's good in sports too.. I am a fat, not handsome and I feel shy everytime I talk to a girl. I changed a lot because of X. I have been on diet for the past few weeks. I eat as little as possible and I ended up sick. Recently, I heard from my friend that X fall in love with my best friend, Y. Y is a new student in my school and I only knew him this year. Our relationship are very good. Yesterday night, I asked Y whether he has feeling towards X and he said no. I was so happy at that moment but X would get hurts if she knew about it. What should I do?

you can either ask her or Y to express his feeling to her if Y dun like her. So you no need to headache yourself.

here's a question for u...pop X's cherry or y's?

for everything else, there's


BUNNY WITH PANCAKE ON TOP!

How old are you and X?

make moves

start with the pawn

Before Y starts to have any feelings for X, you gotta make your move man....
You dont have to express your feelings for X yet, but you try spending more time with X, let her know your existence. Giver her a chance to get to know you better. Probably that would change her mind about falling in love with Y.

good luck.

Here's something to help you with.

Ladder Theory

But even if she does not love Y anymore. Will she loves me? I am trying really hard d. But it just seems to go the other way. Now I seldom talk to her. I remember days before I express my feeling towards her, we were good friend. But now everything has changed.

Should I continue?

No.

We are both 15

here's another one game theory

Oh yeah,.. what should you do?! Nothing to do with you, right?!

Yes, it does. One is my best friend, and the other one is someone I love. I think I need to do something before it's too late. Any idea what should I do?

oh darn... you just commited the first mistake, that is expressing your feelings towards her before she has any good feelings toward you.
Thats a big taboo man..... you just burnt your own bridges.
You should try to be good friends with her, but not 'express' your love for her before she's ready.
Usually a girl ( who is considerate enough ) would turns down a man, if she doesnt have any feel. She doesnt want to waste your time. And you just give her a chance to end the possibilities of her having to consider you. haihhh...

dude just go ahead,
don think so much
the more u think the more u worried
we still young ma so don scare to lose
try once cannot then try again lo

you got nothing to lose, just go for it. haev a little confidence in yourself.

I dun understand lah... you 15 years old only... know how to love someone already?!
By right, you should take good care for yourself. Not like dun eat, slimming for a girl?! You are still growing up, ya know?! Food is important, not her, him or love loh...

Family & studies as well.

This post has been edited by jdreamer: Jul 13 2007, 07:32 PM

True. I am still young but I not sure whether I can stop all this. Maybe I should not push myself that hard.

hey dude!

u frm smk usj 12??

Growing well case: from 15 till 18 years old... you may be can grow till 185 cm(yeah, taller than those F4 boys, ^^ ). Dun you think it's so wonderful?!

you will eventually move on in this life, and meet more girls...
Dont spend too much time wallowing over this love issues.
Concentrate on your studies, and embark on a good career.
Trust me, once your career more stables, better income, you can pick the kind of girls you want.

You are 15. So, concentrate on your studies and don't worry about losing all the weight that fast. I used to be fat as well, but over the years with intensive training and discipline, I managed to lose all the weight healthily and gained muscles as well. As for the girl, there will be plenty of girls out there. Don't put all your energy on the one girl that you think you will be with forever. Move on and start taking care of yourself properly. You yourself are the most important person in your life.

Ya. I am from SMK USJ 12. I think I know what to do d. Thanks for evevryone advice.

im also frm yr school la..

school reunion. heh heh. anyway, 15 still young and just 4 months of relationship. still can 'cabut lari' one.

So?! You are the another boy-boy?! ~~~~

hahah ..ex boy boy.. now young man d lo... cheh...

How come you know his location correctly?! You 2 old buddies?

Yea, buddies.

aiya,... time's up!!! Talk to you next time...
nite-nite, ^^

Omg, you stalk him even in the forum.

Are you ghey?

I think you've got the wrong person.

I'm not his schoolmate, classmate, gay partner or whatsoever. I said that they're buddies, and I'm not one of them.

hey TS machae....u very young la....anyway dun diet la....mayb u havnt reach ur growth spurt....when uve done that phase.....u can walk past those gurl whu rejo u n say......wanna date mr brad pitt now?? sorry i dont take 2nds....

aiya....sound so emo lar u.....at bout ur age...better exercise....take up a sport....master it...then bcome the hunk of the school...recommended sports....football or basketball...usually can get alot of gurl spectators....think bout it...u the hunk of the school....she watching from the stands....

kekkekee

Pool, okie?

Yeah, try some push ups on the bed Practise makes perfect!

so you like X

X like Y

Y likes you lawl

year 15
wat was i doing back than?
haha , i know , being the punk in the school , lawl(actually me from A class , but hate being there, those nerds~~~geez)


but anyway
15 years , still early
dont do things until gastric
not good
no gal like a guy who got illness , rite?

i also kena rejected(speculation for the moment , but still dunno)
get a life , a target , work for it
cmon , still young maa

Let everything be natural.
It still will happen no matter what you did. To be, its to be.

study 1st. That's most important for now.
Just go with the flow and let everything take its own course.