Income wise, u shd be comparing (assuming rm5k is gross & $3k is net for non-pr)

1) rm5000+16%(employer epf contribution)
2) $3000>rm9000(inclusive of your 11%+16% employer as self contribution of epf)

U do the math here(less cost of living BTW bothside) Do consider career advancement, children education etc etc. No right or wrong here, depending what is your planning