QUOTE(Bora Prisoner @ Jan 9 2020, 09:05 AM)
My dad from the ulu kampung received govt scholarship. I received MARA scholarship.
So yes I've benefited from these policies, but on my part I want to break this cycle.
My kids will not be receiving any govt scholarships. I will pay for their studies out of my own pocket.
Thanks for the tongkat, but now that we're out of the kampung, it's time to level the playing field.
Correct, this is the right attitude to hold onto. Some of us have received our share of help, now we have to stand on our own two feet, or better, help those in need. Most of the Bumiputras that are successful today can be traced back down to the kampungs. Opportunities in these areas were limited, their own parents didn't know how to make themselves nor their own children successful. Without any interventions, these villagers would simply spiral down or remain as they are without any social mobility. Might I remind you that most Chinese migrated to Malaysia with a mindset to make something for themselves. No one migrates (berhijrah) just so they would end up worse than their current situation, even refugees - that, by definition are fleeing war, persecution, or natural disaster.
I understand that the Affirmative Action policies in Malaysia is racially-based/biased. But the intention was to level the playing field, without which, the rich-poor gap between two aforementioned racial-groups would only widen. I am not trying to fear-monger the May 13th 1969 incident, but nothing good will come without doing anything to break that cycle of poor/undereducated children coming from poor/undereducated families. The Malay culture at the time simply didn't have the ability to
rid themselves of this monotony; they were under multiple foreign power rules for centuries, these foreign powers do little to uplift, educate, nor train the Malays - as such they have very little abilities nor experience to better themselves. This is why most of the Malay leaders, who were the agents of change for the country at the time hail from the royalties, namely Tunku Abdul Rahman and his closest of entourage - these people were the exceptions as they had the opportunities to learn what the rest of the Malays have not.
Again, might I remind you that when the Chinese came to Tanah Melayu, they brought themselves their collective education systems, schools, and even teachers that are paid by the community. They came in packing, ready to unload
their 4four-centuries of civilization; they had a head start, and now they are calling for "equality", for there to be a level-playing-field between themselves and the natives. There was no level-playing-field to begin with, the advantages were overtly on the Chinese migrants' side and for the time being, calls for "equality" would be disingenuous - because one group started way ahead of the rest
What about Indians you say? Forced labor, enough said.
What about rich Indians? Exactly, they also came packing as travelling merchants who chose settle down here. Advantages on them.
But that is NOT to say that the Malays are incompetent. Just look around your workplace (such as MNC and successful GLCs like Sime Darby), there are professional/executive Malays that are just as good, if not better than their counterparts. And of course, yours truly which is "enough said" but I will say it anyways: I get asked by a lot of people that I meet for the first time for my name, and when I say it was "Faiz Azmi", they would be a little confused. They try to hide their confusion, but if I press on, they would surrender that they thought I was an Indian. Perhaps it was due to the skin color, but my facial-structure do not back that up, and not all dark-skinned Malays would be mistaken for an Indian. If pressed even further, they would say it was due to my command in the English language, which is unusual for a Malay chap.
I am at the level where I get paid to talk. Well to be more specific, I moonlight tutoring Malay executives in improving their conversational English:
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QUOTE(shadow_walker @ Jan 3 2020, 04:25 PM)
sales ASB slow ka bang..need to moonlight jd tutor
Oh no, it is nothing like that. I've always been a tutor in conversational English where I host a series of laid-back discussion sessions meant for professional Malays. Professional Malays that have trouble conversing in English would hire my help
My clients come from all levels of executive positions, from senior executives to C-levels. I get paid hourly rates to have discussions with them on topics of their interests. In general, people love talking about themselves; so I would poke them with questions related to their backgrounds; as they elaborate their lives in English, I would correct them as I see fit. In the following sessions they would talk about their hobbies, families, work, political views etc. I do not care too much about grammar; I just need them to be confident in themselves so they can speak up at work
I am able to do this because, well first of all, I am a very interesting person to talk to. Secondly I have a wide breadth of knowledge and experience due to my job (business) where I meet new people everyday. My rate is RM200/h. Most of my clients are rich and successful Malays that I would also talk into becoming my personal finance clients. Is this considered moonlighting? You tell me.
My dad was raised in a poor family but have received numerous assistance from the government and he retired as the CEO of a Khazanah subsidiary, his children were all successful and professionals - dentists, accountants, engineers, and yours truly - a consultant (who is a professional, Associate RFP from MFPC, a professional body). None of this would have happened if it was not for the NEP. But all of us are fully prepared to roll back the NEP, we do not expect that it would remain longer than necessary
As it is, I see that non-Bumis are just as much to blame for their lack of action as well as self-victimizing - they use this as an excuse to do nothing. They could have done a lot more, such as joining a political party, creating their own NGOs or work with established ones. They should be the agents of change that they want to see, instead of sarcastically
yelling and chiding short, unoriginal, terms like most of them have done in their posts across /k/ all this while
Perhaps some of them are not interested in seeing Malays rise to the same level, which is fine, which also explains their actions and attitudes toward the whole system - they want to yank it right beneath the Malays's feet, putting back years of development. But please, don't piss on me and call it rain. They should just say it out loud that they prefer the Malays to remain backward and removed from participating in the larger economic activities of the nation: Just like how it is in Singapore
Which I would say game on
This post has been edited by wild_card_my: Jan 9 2020, 09:59 AM