Hey Girls~
What did u give to ur bf for his birthday? Do u have any suggestions for suitable gift?
Guys? What would u like to receive for ur birthday?

And would it be appropriate to gift a stuffed doll to ur bf?
Just want some opinions.. Hope u guys can share..

Hi,

A watch?? Wallet?? Pen?? Mobile phone?? Big Soft toy?? Flowers???

A nice candlelight dinner??

Cheers

Stuffed doll? Erm i dont think so...
How about shirt? A jersey of his fav team?
Or something that he told you that he want it very badly but he did not manage to get it?
If you need stuffed dolls you can click on my siggy XD

Candlelight dinner.. But he's kinda far away from me now.. and busy too.. So that will just have to wait.. Just wanted to giv him something i guess.. Thanks for the suggestions! Got some ideas now..

If he did that i wouldn't be out of ideas..
Hmm.. Jersey i dont know.. He dont watch football.. Or stuff like that..

ooo ok sorry not really contributing

buy him a camaro that can transform

A cute little teddy.

Seriously.

Nooo!!!....buy him a camaro that can transform

Does he has any hobby? Maybe you could get something that has to do with it for him? Or if you are good with handicraft, you make things for him?

Is softtoy a yes, or a no?
If yes, what kind? x)

my bf wouldn't want a stuff toy.he wants a pda

electronic gadgets always works best as gifts for the males....

a electronics gadget

But those can be a tad heavy on the pockets. I wouldn't mind receiving a soft toy by my girl. But dont be too generous on the size, just something that he can cherish

always have headache thinking abt this every yr..hahaha

guys usually want electronic stuffs like games,handphones,etc..
depends on wat ur bf like?

Your own hand-made gifts are the best birthday gift. Paint a picture and frame it or knit a handphone beg etc... there's many way to express your feeling to him in the present. Of course this does take time for you to make.

Soft toy will be your alternative. If you going to get him a soft toy. choose the one which you think suit his/her the best.

Anyway, this is just my opinion. Hope it helps.

seriously?... they appreciate?



owh i think if its love.. it doesnt matter kan

little teddy i think ok kua. in the least they can keep it out of sight somewhere when he and his friends have a manly gathering at his place...............then take it out later to hug hahahahaha.big sized one difficult to hide kakakakka

i know what.
get a bed that can transform.

*eck eck eck eck TRANSFORMERS*

Uhuh... i think i'd rather have a transformers helmet with a voice changer in that case..

watch,perfume?
dinner.....

Good suggestions, but dinner isn't something you can really give. I think a gift would be more memorable. But then thats just me.

For me,i would prefer an original copy of a game or maybe a model car.I prefer something that can be keep as collection than something that can be used like shirt.

I dont mind to have a stuffed doll.I kinda like those stuffed dolls that are cute.Doesnt look too girly lah.

well, if you give him a doll, the reaction mostly u'll got is
"oh wow. thanks a lot. i love it! "

but remember, it will be sitting there in his room collecting dust and he wont be even bother to have a look at it. unless he's a doll collector. doh

I asked, he said he wouldn't mind getting soft toys as present. Thing is, what type of soft toys?

As for me, i wouldn't mind. I mean, as long as its from my girl, i wouldn't mind if she gave me thrash! Okay thats just a figure of speech xD

What type? Oh, just about any type. We guys, we feel the same about any type i guess. But i'd suggest one that you both have a special memory with or one that he recognises.

Nono.. Its ok.. What i really want to talk about are the gifts that u received before and actually really liked that gift!
I can get ideas from there aswell..

I like this idea! But seriously, i wouldn't even be able to even buy myself a drink after that..

Yes, true. Hand-made gifts are the best. But i'm not good at making things..
Maybe i'll try to knit something..
And he's a designer who draws better.. I cant draw.. Seriously.. >_<

I know what u mean.. Im afraid that would happen.. But i cant stop thinking about those stuff toys.. Or maybe im being selfish and just want them for myself..
The stuff toys i meant were Monokuro Boo.. I wonder if u guys heard about it.. We both like them very much! Piggies!
But i'll think about that..

Thanks all for sharing!

u bf into games and stuff tak?
get him some games and action figure?

i used to give my old bf stuff like that.. action figure, comics, cd...

aha... u can compile a cd of his fave song... <-- its nice...

how bout cooking dinner for him?or bake him a cake?at same time take vid of u doing it and show it to him hehehehe show him the effort that you placed in so that he knows that this isn't just another dinner or just another cake. its a dinner or cake that is made with love .......ewwwww......i sound corny...wat's gotten into me

yes for me i dun like gifts .
i love the effort my gf knitting cloth to me. or do me some my fav dishes.

Everyone has different preferances. Well if you both love monokuro boo i think thats okay to get him one of that. Lol. Then u can always use that as an excuse to get into his room, say u miss that soft toy. But i've never heard a guy who loves monokuro boo o.O

Wow! So very sweet lerh u..

Like i said.. Maybe he just pretends to like it to make me feel happy about it..
There's a reason for it.. Coz we're both pigs who sleeps alot..

if he dont mind, try those soft toys thats related to anime or stuffs like that boys like....

i prefer i romantic candle light dinner well..not in those fancy fancy place. It would be nice if he cook me something nice..efford~ i wanna c efford!

give card that express your appreciation, n candle light dinner 2 cikai pon ok asal ade

soft toy could work =)

especially u put in his car n everytime he fetches u, u can hug it besdie him xD

LAst time i recieve a birthday KISS at my age of 17 from my GF...first kiss ko tim...till now still can remember how she kiss me...hehe

That is so sweeeet!

Seems like the best gift dont really have to be material.. Just something meaningful to remember for the rest of ur life..
Now thats hard to come up with coz it comes naturally..

I decided to make a big frame and compile all the pictures of our favorite moments together..

Wadya think?

P/s: Im still gonna get him the soft toy too.. Put in his car like wad saintelers said..

hurm....if ur bf likes to hear music, maybe u can gave him an ipod/mp4/mp3....?

about compiling the pic, u have a good nice idea thou...

hehe can i borrow ur thread..? can lah~
i would like to buy my girl a watch, any idea which watch i shuld buy as a present?

hmm..i dun think so.males like electronics,no doubt, but a gift from a gal makes it some kinda plain thing you see.after all, sooner or later it'll be broken

soft-toys,cute ones with built-in recorder say "i love you" gets my vote

Thats sweet.I also want one from the girl i like.

What kind of birthday gifts that girls might like,other than soft toys?

my gf give away virgin to others (before together with her)....

Hey there!
He likes music, but ipod/mp4 he already owns it.. I cant give him something he already has.. And he kinda has everything..

Sure~ After all this thread is to generally talk about what type of gifts u should give to ur loved one or gifts that u have received from ur loved one..

Hmm.. Watch ah.. Maybe u should get those silver/gold coloured watches for her.. For me, the simplest looking one is best..
Or u could customize the watch like this..

Or put a picture of both of u together like this..


Or just modify the watch strap and put ur name and hers on it..
Hahax.. Juz an idea..

i'm not sweet.......dun call me that those are things that i wish a girl would do for me........................but no chance of getting a girl..........................

@cskeong: Be patient.. She will come to u when the time is right.. I always believe that if u have patience, in the end will always get rewarded..
Well whoever she is, sure is lucky..

ooooooooo be patient heheheheeh i've been patient for more than 7 years already since i broke up with my ex heehheehehehehe whether she lucky or not i duno lah. hmmm just thought of sumthing regarding the gift. your bf likes cars?bikes?planes?robots?

if he likes either one of them u can go buy model kits of whatever he likes. assemble it and paint it and giv it to him. that would be nice hehehe. main point is its not the $$$ value of the items but the effort that u taken

totally... i tink if ur budget low wan leh, buy an mp3 player can d la... if u willing to spend alot, mayb u can get him his dream pda...

i'm getting my bf a juice blender
LOL

watch , hp, pda, perfume i think ok. If he love football, jersey is ideal gift. Buy a gold class cinema ticket at GSC can be cool.It's around RM28 per person.
For me the best gift is spend the whole day with him.Start with lunch, cinema, bowling or game, dinner.

brand new subwoofer?

That wouldn't do it, as it's just a subwoofer, it's better if you give him the whole speaker set what?

walauuuuuuu
so demand la u shawty
ur gf sure marah wan if she find out

Manada demand.
I always put my GF first in everything.
I love her so much sometimes i put out what i've always wanted aside.
It's because i can never love a woman beside her.
She the best thing in my life that ever happen.

if ur an artist, draw her a t-shirt..

i hav bought my bf a wallet, watch, shirt even a guitar for his 21 bday gift......

so act im out of idea now...but i wil pay more attention on him, check up wat he need recently.....no matter the stuff is cheap or expenses, it is jus a gift from us, his loved one.....

Thats right, dont have to be expensive.. Its the thought that counts..
@cskeong: I did kinda think about buying those model robots and assembling it but i just dont know how and which one to choose..

This post has been edited by EiK0: Jul 30 2007, 03:14 PM

hmmm very easy to choose. usually he spends his time watching wat anime or shows???check his collection and see which one he doesn't have. ask around in the forum if u dunno wat the robot or watever thingy name is. i can help you if your bf is interested in gundam kits coz i myself am a gundam fan but i'm not much of an expert.

Something personal.

Bake a cake from scratch + frosting. Then a present, something he needs / wants.

Well, just here to chip in an idea. Not every guy will enjoy this but.. my bf did

So there was this one time I was out of cash lol. Had no money to buy any presents for bf's birthday.

After thinking about it for weeks, I decided to plan out a Wheel of Fortune game for him - where I'm the host and he is the player.

PREPARATIONS:

The wheel is filled with random things like "surprise kiss" or "hugs" or "mamak treat", "mini quiz - if answer correctly get a small prize", "ice cream", "trip to arcade" etc (be creative). Of course, it is also fun to have a "bankrupt" equivalent to make it more exciting. Eg. If he bankrupts he has to give you 5 kisses as punishment.. or anything else you can come up with..

The phrase that he has to guess during the game can be either something simple, something suggestive, or even a silly quote that the both of you use often. "i love you" or "happy birthday" is okay but it's too easy... so just use your imagination and come up with something personal..

Maybe you can start off the first round with an easy phrase, and subsequent rounds get more complicated.

I created a total of 2 normal rounds and 1 bonus round (with a grand prize). Each round had a different "wheel" - so that it's more interesting and he could win different things at different rounds.

It took me a few hours to plan it all out and do a little bit of practice - but both of us totally enjoyed the experience. I was really scared at first because I wasn't sure whether he would play along but in the end the two of us were laughing so much and having lots of fun

He was really happy to win all those little random surprise kisses and stuff

Interesting..wah...like tat both oso get the benefits leh..nice nice..

to bladegirl:

at the moment i'm filled with jealously at your devotion to your bf and praises for your creativity

haha thanks for the compliment! yar.. it's great fun as long as both parties are open to the idea maybe you can try it on your gf one day

lol.. no reason to be jealous at all hopefully it'll spark off some birthday ideas for other couples

One day lar when i got GF oredi i will definately do it..
make her lam me..

@bladegirl,

Thats an interesting idea.I might try it someday.

A crystal bracelet (there's some for guys), a wallet, clothes, something tat he wan but dint buy

jealous coz i dun have a girl that is willing to do that for me getting bored of this single life

other suggestions for bday gifts hmmmmm my fren took his gf and sponsored her for a facial treatment.maybe u can take your bf out and go to the spa, massage blablabla

This post has been edited by cskeong: Aug 1 2007, 11:01 AM

i suggest u . give ur bf a signature pen like parker ??? or a tie ??? depend if ur bf is office work la.. guys usually didnt hope big present from his gf 1... as long the present can represent ur heart to him then can d.......

can i ask something since the gal tat i plan to chase her.... her birthday goner come soon if i using delivery service sending the present to university during her classtime itzit a good idea ?

imho don't.u'r just chasing her she's not your gf yet.doing that might freak her out.if she's already your gf that's different.but its just my point of view.send home better lah.u've been watching too many movies already hahahahah just my 2 cents

I think it works better if you learnt how to massage, go buy some massage oil and massage the bf I wouldn't want some other woman massaging my bf

Erm.. if she likes you... she might be touched by your idea.. but if she doesn't like you in return.. I think she will feel probably feel really humiliated in front of all her friends and things might turn out for the worse. Good luck!

either way .. i will try myluck.. haha i surely will prepare for the worst... haha because if i use tat method will know the answer faster lo. haha i alreayd know her more then 6 month hardly date her out mostly we communicate wif phone, sms and o9... ^^

haiya be more open minded lah. but then again personally massaging your loved one

why u wanna know the answer faster?take your time. some girls dun like to be pushed and pressured.slow and easy does the magic i think. you're in a better situation than what i'm in at the moment. in the least the girl replies your sms, online and calls................as for me..................yeah she replies.............sms around 12 hours later, sumtimes pick up my calls and sumtimes dun. be patient.

Hi Balde gal, i m gonna steal ur idea for this coming friday . Hope you dont mind and i really cant it resist cos ur idea is dam "COOL!!!" i cant imagine how my bf reaction but i m waiting to see it. GETTING EXCITED!!!! RESPECT:respect:

i'm thinking of a DSLR but i don't know what model and whats good
anyone can suggest? not too expensive la preferably less than 2k...

maybe can list down the models and the pro and cons about it.

Lol. I don't mind at all. Hope it turns out well for you Just PM me if you get stuck at any point. Just make sure you pm it to bladegirl and not "Balde" gal

Maybe it would be better if you asked here ?

yup ....blade gal...and i will share with you after trying ur "COOL B'DAY PRESENT"

This post has been edited by littlebee: Aug 1 2007, 04:36 PM

my situation totally like u la.... lolx. already 6month d.... yeap when wan to invite her for dinner after 1 hour she reply me tat she arleayd having dinner tat why i feel fedup wif her.. d... sometimes we can say tat contact twice a week only . most of her time will reply me tat she busy because exam these and tat... and... if she personal pm me will ask tat weird question tat she show me her wif her roommate picture then say tat which 1 more pretty or wat la.. then after tat she will disapear for 1 week tat without contact u .... after 1 week she will sent me those dedicated love mesej then when u reply her then she will totally ignore..... alreayd carry this kind of situation for 6 month d... !!! dont know she totally got feeling or no feeling at me.. so tat why is time to strike her back to her university .... wif tat kind of action haha....

o_O share your results with us lol. *Kepoh*

aiyo.. these day got alot of weird charactor of gals... even my friend tat which is gal also didnt understand wat tat gal think....

my assumption is that in both of our case, the girls are playing the "EXTREMELY F**KING HARD TO GET" game.

anyways anymore ideas on gifts?some so far are very very nice.

Yes! I agree! Yay~ bladegirl Ur a genius! I'll definately try that out one day..

@briggs86: Erm.. Can u actually send it during classtime? I think i have to agree with cskeong there.. If she doesn't like u then maybe it will freak her out.. But maybe she wont.. Know 6 months de ma.. Does she know that u like her? Try to catch her during her free time and talk to her.. Clear things up a little.. Things like this cannot rush wan.. Anyway, this is just what i think.. All the best!

Ok, back to birthday gifts..

Possible Birthday Gifts for ur Girlfriend
Im just a normal girl.. And my ideas are basically on what i received or things that i think other girls would like to receive as well.. Coz i see some posts are guys wondering what to give for gf.. Hope this helps out a little.. Here goes~

One thing u could do is to write a poem for her.. [Recite it in front of her if brave enough ] Secondly, if u can play instruments anything at all (eg. guitar, piano) Sing her a song.. It could and should be a song that u both know or better yet known as "Our Song" to the both of u.. Get what i mean..? Besides that, like one of the earlier posts (inspired by cskeong ), u could try to cook something for her if baking a cake doesnt work for u.. Like one of the posters said, some effort need to be shown! For those good with drawing, no need to say.. There's tons of things u can do including drawing a picture of her.. Choosing your girlfriend's birthday gift really is the ideal time to show her your romantic side!

Then comes the traditionally 'popular' presents for the ladies have always included flowers, chocolates, jewelry, fragrances and lingerie. Maybe can put this as side dish to ur big surpriese for her..

Thats all for now.. Most of the above is what my bf did for me.. And i really love him for that.. So i thought ur loved one might like it too.. All the best!

Other ideas and suggestions are most welcomed!

P/s: These also work out of a relationship..

game consoles!

i dont have bf but when i have a bf i will gif him my tedy bear

i been kantoi ..... tat day at midnight she notice my blog tat got mention her name because usually i express my feeling into the blog .... suddenly midnight she sms to me mention tat who is tat gal. by the way i already stat her name inside the blog.... but now she also still didnt avoid me lolx.. really need to take time la.. at least now she notice tat i got feeling on her d...

good good,take it slow and easy. dun push too hard. dun send gift to the class. firstly you're gonna disturb her class, annoy her teacher, annoy the bookworms in her class and lastly freak her out and annoy her as well coz her frens will definitely pester her non stop

eoko! just realised u have a thread here.. i feel that most guys love everything/any gift from their partner.. dont think so much, he'll be happy!

all the best

my bf just got me an Angora mixed rabbit !!! hehe so cuteee but smelly
she poo poo and wee wee so much. need to change almost the bedding almost every 2 days...

Hi CcMisHungry!
cskeong really can become a relationship phsychologist..

Rabbit! Yea hor.. didnt think of pets as a gift.. ^__^

cskeong know alot . like i usually manage to solve alot of my friend problem like match making or misunderstanding couple ... but own problem cant be solve

Hie all...
Jus an experience i wud like 2 share...
Me n my ex used to love jigsaw puzzle...
So, when we have time...we will look out for new jigsaw puzzles in Mid V's Puzzle World...
We wud then spend our free time completing the jigsaw puzzle together...
If we ain't so bz...it wud take dayz or weekz to finish...
If we r extremely bz...it wud take weekz or monthz...
Haha...aniwayz, we have so much fun completing it...
We wud frame it and hang it up to enjoy the fruit of our labor...
I personally prefer those glow in the dark ones...

In a way...we can spend more time together...enjoying each other's company...
Secondly, we use our combine effort to complete somthing we realli love...
I miss those dayz...

Aniwayz...jus an idea

i duno alot lah.just my opinion leh. me myself have never been in a serious relationship before. only have a gf years ago that lasted just a couple of months........ currently having headache about a girl oso......... expert i'm not

hmm indeed jigsaw puzzle an excellent gift. pets can also make good gifts but u must make sure that the person u're giving the pet to is able to commit to a pet. pet is a living thing u know. it needs your care and your time and oso $$$$$$ dun simply giv pets that later gonna die coz they can't care for it properly.

Hie EiK0,
Jus Wondering...
Where can u get Monokuro Boo plush?
Memory Lane?
Toys'R'Us?
...
Thinking of getting it for a friend's bday...

Or mayb u can suggest something to me?
She likes eeyore from Disney's Winnie the Pooh
But I dunno wat's her current collection...
Sked buying something she already hav...haha
tat wud b awkward...
Any suggestion?
Thanks in advance

Well.. Im not so sure about where to find it at ur place coz at my place (Sabah,KK) Monokuro Boo products are not found in toy shops.. Usually they are in gift shops.. There's alot there.. Plushies & dolls, etc..
Does she like Monokuro Boo? If u think she prefers Eeyore then i suggest u get that for her bday.. But like u said, it would be awkward if u get her something she already has.. Maybe u can check out her collection first.. :wink:
U can also try and get her other Eeyore merchandise besides a plushie.. Coz she might already have an Eeyore plushie.. Just a suggestion.. >_<
Hope it helps..

...insurance policy as gift befor.

Thanks EiK0...Appreciate the help
I think u r rite...better check out her collection 1st...
at the same time i think i will go to check out Monokuro Boo plushies also...