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 Does this woman exist? If she does, intro please.

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TSBLKH3
post Nov 4 2019, 05:42 PM, updated 5y ago

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For reference, I posted this in classified.


Gender: male

Location: Ipoh

Born in the year: 1982

Weight: 70kg

Height: 168cm

Religion/Race: chinese christian

Occupation: teacher

Hobbies and interests: gaming on PS4

Other description (u may write a short essay about yourself, to show your personality): Well, I am a man with an established job at an established company in Ipoh, I am not looking for ONS, FWB or FUBU. I am looking for something long term. I have a house and a car and a stable job (earning way a handsome amount). I am not filthy rich but I live very very comfortably with my salary and don't have any debt (except my house, I can pay that off easily but I just choose not to) I invest my disposable income in unit trust and very responsible with my money. I don't smoke, gamble nor drink alcohol and definitely don't do drugs. I am taking care of my mom and have a close relationship with her but that does not mean I am a mama's boy.

Requirements / preferences: I am looking for a woman age 25-30 with an equally established career at the very, very least RM3k in salary (to establish a marriage on solid financial foundation, yes, I am looking long term, no time to waste), looks presentable not necessarily hot model, dressed elegantly and not an attention seeking woman with duck selfies, have little debt (maybe RM10k in education loan still possible).
I ask a lot because I am worth a lot.


What are you waiting for? PM me.

Does this woman exist?


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post Nov 4 2019, 05:54 PM

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U teacher ke salaryman? occupation put teacher then put work at company in description.
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post Nov 4 2019, 05:57 PM

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Typical scammer into
beeMay
post Nov 4 2019, 07:53 PM

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I am 25 and fit your description, here's my honest opinion (if i were single and looking fr bf in CC, but I have a bf)

wow this guys is super rush and cant take things slowly.
i mean i get that you want to have long term. I also want long term. But this guy sounds like he is expecting a smooth and flawless relationship.

I mean, relationship is full of flaw, pain and suffering, no matter how much both of you earn.

The energy and feel iget from your post is that you are in a rush, in a hurry, does not tolerate mistakes, and is a cocky and shallow person.

Sorry that the truth is bad but if you are not the person I just described, maybe try to alter your post.
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post Nov 4 2019, 10:38 PM

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TS, you can write better description and be less self-centred/ more modest in your tone.

This sentence "I ask a lot because I am worth a lot." shows your pride.
Your worth is in the eye of the beholder.

Also, avoid using wealth to impress women. Financial stability is important, but doesn't mean you have to brag on it. You'll attract gold diggers and repel good women.


& to answer your question about whether such women exist, the answer is a firm yes.
royalben
post Nov 4 2019, 11:18 PM

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QUOTE(beeMay @ Nov 4 2019, 07:53 PM)
I am 25 and fit your description, here's my honest opinion (if i were single and looking fr bf in CC, but I have a bf)

wow this guys is super rush and cant take things slowly.
i mean i get that you want to have long term. I also want long term. But this guy sounds like he is expecting a smooth and flawless relationship.

I mean, relationship is full of flaw, pain and suffering, no matter how much both of you earn.

The energy and feel iget from your post is that you are in a rush, in a hurry, does not tolerate mistakes, and is a cocky and shallow person. 

Sorry that the truth is bad but if you are not the person I just described, maybe try to alter your post.
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Can I date you?

and Wow, you can feel his energy from his post, that's some high level intuitions.
Just kidding.
The feel I get from him is he is just trying too hard, give that guy a break and don't be too harsh on him.
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post Nov 4 2019, 11:34 PM

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QUOTE(Ralna @ Nov 4 2019, 10:38 PM)
TS, you can write better description and be less self-centred/ more modest in your tone.

This sentence "I ask a lot because I am worth a lot." shows your pride.
Your worth is in the eye of the beholder.

Also, avoid using wealth to impress women. Financial stability is important, but doesn't mean you have to brag on it. You'll attract gold diggers and repel good women.
& to answer your question about whether such women exist, the answer is a firm yes.
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Was about to say this... i met this awek (financially stable) , and she doesn't mind riding my fren's motocycle to work.. Be patient, be humble.. good women attract to good guy, jangan risau...
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post Nov 5 2019, 12:11 AM

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that women exist but is your worth that much? if so, why such women didn't choose you? ponder that.
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post Nov 5 2019, 12:16 AM

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Sorry TS your intro is a big turn off.

Although some might be hero enough to really try to know u better
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post Nov 5 2019, 08:10 AM

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QUOTE(ymc2303 @ Nov 5 2019, 12:11 AM)
that women exist but is your worth that much? if so, why such women didn't choose you? ponder that.
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post Nov 5 2019, 08:16 AM

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QUOTE(BLKH3 @ Nov 4 2019, 05:42 PM)

...... I don't smoke, gamble nor drink alcohol and definitely don't do drugs......

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translated: "I'm fucking bored, dunno how to get real girl in life!"
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post Nov 5 2019, 08:41 AM

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TS, such a girl do exist as it quite general, maybe lesser in Ipoh.

But your self-introduction really a big turn-off. If you humbly saying you are just a person with this background, probably make people feel you are nice and a bit more attractive. But when you say you worth a lot... sorry loh.

My sister is in Ipoh, she is under B40 yet also already own an apartment and a car. So, are you sure you worth alot? tongue.gif

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post Nov 5 2019, 09:07 AM

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Sorry TS, in your post it feels like you're just heavily emphasizing on your monetary self-worth, which is not everything when someone is looking for a partner. Perhaps try changing it, especially "I ask a lot because I am worth a lot".
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post Nov 5 2019, 09:19 AM

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usually girls will perceive this "I am not looking for ONS, FWB or FUBU" sentence as the opposite from what I've heard from female friends which means is better for you to leave this out

no = no (male)
no = yes and no (female logic)
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post Nov 5 2019, 09:24 AM

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QUOTE(beeMay @ Nov 4 2019, 07:53 PM)
I am 25 and fit your description, here's my honest opinion (if i were single and looking fr bf in CC, but I have a bf)

wow this guys is super rush and cant take things slowly.
i mean i get that you want to have long term. I also want long term. But this guy sounds like he is expecting a smooth and flawless relationship.

I mean, relationship is full of flaw, pain and suffering, no matter how much both of you earn.

The energy and feel iget from your post is that you are in a rush, in a hurry, does not tolerate mistakes, and is a cocky and shallow person. 

Sorry that the truth is bad but if you are not the person I just described, maybe try to alter your post.
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I do agree on her point.
Plus I do get it that you want to establish a marriage relationship but when it comes to marriages, it not just two individuals getting together to form a bond, it involves family members of both parties as well, don't stress so much on the financial incomes/ ability of the other half, and don't take things too quickly.

by the sentence, "I ask alot because I am worth a lot" shows the cocky side of you, everyone is worthy of a relationship, no one is considered unworthy, your parents love you so does other parents love their children as well. Stay humble, be humble. and the right one will come for you.

not to say I have any rights to comment on how net worthy you are or comment you on your attitude, but its just my personal opinion.

Hope you manage to find the ONE eventually! Jiayou
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post Nov 5 2019, 09:27 AM

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Yes, there's such woman, but not for this man
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post Nov 5 2019, 09:49 AM

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. I don't smoke, gamble nor drink alcohol and definitely don't do drugs. I am taking care of my mom and have a close relationship with her but that does not mean I am a mama's boy.


The fact that you have to put this in, thinking that it is going to attract women shows that you don't socialise with women much.

TSBLKH3
post Nov 5 2019, 10:10 AM

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QUOTE(xtanks5449 @ Nov 5 2019, 08:16 AM)
translated:  "I'm fucking bored, dunno how to get real girl in life!"
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If fucking bored means I am mature, don't need intoxication and know how to take care of myself, then of course I am really, really bored. Thanks for commenting.
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post Nov 5 2019, 10:11 AM

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" I am taking care of my mom and have close relationship"

For many women, this statement means when argument strike between wife and mother, with this "close relationship", the man may side his mom first. Is another drawback. Sorry, women's thinking.

My sister is a divorcee but few years back a man (late 30s, factory owner) court my sister. He sent her bouquet of roses fold by RM100 notes. So caring and loving even knowing she is a divorcee (her hubby cheated on her). Until 1 day he told her how serious he is towards marriage and all he ask for is to stay with his mom and have a kid. My sister turn him down and now she dating a car salesman.

Money is not everything. The man's age, his occupation, his family, his mindset.. all count.
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post Nov 5 2019, 10:13 AM

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post like that...if got also dont want him

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