QUOTE(prelude23 @ Nov 7 2019, 10:08 PM)
Set a date for next week movie might be a little too early. I know she won't go. My plan is just to call her talk on the phone about what she has been doing as simple as this. Just doing little by little to reconnect.
Well, its totally your call, you're the one who know her most here, we can only advise how u should think and act, the details you can keep it for yourself

But also 1 thing do keep in mind is the intimacy that she don't feel comfortable giving you, are you ok with that for the future to come?
I've seen many people like her seeking help as they can't stop feeling guilt when she having the intimacy even after marriage, not gonna judge anything
but I'm pretty sure if she can't get through the very surface intimacy part, it will be harder for her to go through the following stage,
and marriage is not the key to open her up to intimacy, then the lust might get u again, we're human after all.
Not discouraging you, but it's something worth thinking... we often thinks marriage is where we can bind us together, but its actually where the real test begun.