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mini orchard
post Oct 28 2019, 09:12 PM

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QUOTE(KennyKB @ Oct 28 2019, 08:35 PM)
What is the reason for the divorce? To kick him out of the condo even though he paid for it? What kind of woman treats her husband this way? Accept his largess in good times but kick him out when he is down? I can't believe TS is thinking of helping this evil woman who is out to destroy her husband when he has been so good to her by he putting a property he paid for in her name.

Don't do it TS and advise your wife not to do it. Karma will come knocking.
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Hope I am wrong ....

If the divorce is not over 'the other one' what other reason can make a woman to take this plan. I am sure no women is happy to share their husband. Is either me or that one.


mini orchard
post Oct 28 2019, 10:49 PM

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With your permission, can I sell your story to TVB? ... But not sure how much can fetch with no ending part. Lol.




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post Oct 28 2019, 11:48 PM

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Wolf in sheep clothing appeared b4 my eyes. Not sure I am reading right.
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post Oct 29 2019, 12:12 AM

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MIL take no action, nothing can be done.

1 slap to keep the house, why not? Else sleep on street when house kena lelong.

Ask your MIL if the house was a gift to her for marrying your FIL? Tell the court then if it goes that far.

Wedding ring FIL wants to take back, ok lor if that can helps.

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post Oct 29 2019, 12:14 AM

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QUOTE(lurkingaround @ Oct 28 2019, 11:55 PM)
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That's quite greedy of you.
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Better than those wolf talking bible verses in sheep clothing lor.

At least I know where I stand.

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post Oct 29 2019, 09:44 PM

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QUOTE(john123x @ Oct 29 2019, 09:30 PM)
i read the whole story, and ahha, i know know whats TS's FIL is thinking.

TS FIL actually wants a son, thats why he marry twice and gets a mistress, but no luck, all girls. rays of hope come through when his first wife last daughter is pregnant (its possible a lie that its a boy, to get 300k from TS FIL).

TS FIL must be thinking, no son nvm, at least got grandson!!!
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post Oct 29 2019, 09:51 PM

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QUOTE(john123x @ Oct 29 2019, 09:47 PM)
TS might as well advice TS FIL to do DNA test on his first wife youngest daughter. if not his child, 300k gone with the wind...[B]
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Who is the child's to be father you are refering?
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post Oct 29 2019, 10:02 PM

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QUOTE(john123x @ Oct 29 2019, 09:53 PM)
mistake, i will edit
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Irrespective who is the father, FIL 's daughter is carrying the child. Ada sendiri punya daging dan tulang.

MIL dont buy that nonense for RM400k. RM100k still can bincang.

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post Oct 29 2019, 10:09 PM

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QUOTE(shuhuan @ Oct 29 2019, 10:06 PM)
sorry i m not here to give advice.
but i want to comment that fil have to wake up, he got a rotten charsiew daughter.
better fil take the baby adopt as own son, than give 300k and dig more money later. can ask for one successful time, more times will come.
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But FIL no money how? Got to do mortgage of 2nd wife property and daughter to pay instalment.

Better the daughter adopt.


How long more can FIL take care of the child?
mini orchard
post Oct 29 2019, 11:05 PM

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NO ACTION BY MIL IS BESTEST.

Have CASH will fight.

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post Oct 29 2019, 11:30 PM

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I can imagine what he will do if he has money now?

For sure he wont trouble existing family.

4th, 5th or even 6th to get what he wants.
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post Oct 30 2019, 08:06 AM

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QUOTE(3DME @ Oct 30 2019, 08:00 AM)
will your wife will do the same to you,like her mother will do to her father after all this? they make you as a guarantor after all..the FIL can issue bankruptcy, and provide the proof of payment of that house, you might be in for fraud if insolvency accept the case, its one of AMLA acts.
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post Oct 30 2019, 08:15 AM

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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ Oct 30 2019, 08:09 AM)
Who is the legal wife here?

1st wife? If so, why give a damn... just walk away.
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To FIL all 3 are 'legal'

Why legality when there is no distribution of assets?
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post Oct 30 2019, 08:20 AM

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QUOTE(3DME @ Oct 30 2019, 08:15 AM)
his FIL=father in law
can file a bankruptcy to himself
when a person being in bankruptcy , all the properties in his name and his spouse name will be investigate .
if he can provide proof of payment of the house he bought earlier even it under his spouse name.
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Declare bankrupt and pass all money to Insolvency Dept?

No creditors to pay, then collect back money?

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post Oct 30 2019, 12:16 PM

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Pastor Money said aint no give a shit. Property in my name, I call the shot.

Hug thy money when alive, let go when dead.
Proton Verse 1.14

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post Oct 31 2019, 06:54 AM

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QUOTE(BillCollector @ Oct 30 2019, 03:34 PM)
Anyway a quick update to this.

After discussing their options with a lawyer.

MIL decided to do the following :-

i) Transfer the condo to both her daughters and will remove her name off the title.
ii) She will move out from that condo.
iii) She will get the 2 daughters to take care of her finances using rental from that condo.
iv) She will initiate divorce proceedings upon settling into a new rented house.
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A decision is made after consultation with a legal expert.

We ktards here are not privilege to have ALL info so let it end season 1 with that.
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post Oct 31 2019, 08:20 AM

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QUOTE(BillCollector @ Oct 31 2019, 01:51 AM)
You sure do feel strongly for him smile.gif
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There are people who dont mind that when their spouse got kiss in the ass by another ... willingly to share things.

Not surprise, there are still nice spouses around.
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post Oct 31 2019, 08:24 AM

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QUOTE(Ginny88 @ Oct 31 2019, 08:18 AM)
The whole problem was caused by the FIL's daughter from 1st wife wanting to sell a surname for RM300,000 when he has no money and no spare property.

Cheating FIL and moving him out of the condo by deceit will create a lot of problems when he cannot get the money he expects. To think he will not to make a fuss is unrealistic. There will probably be war and unintended consequences.

To avoid bigger problems later tell FIL in no uncertain terms that mortgaging the condo to raise money for his 1st wife's daughter is NO-NO. No need to hide. Tell him they know what he wants the money for.

He will make a fuss but that's about it. The condo is in MIL's name so nothing much he can do. But giving him high hopes and then dashing it may have serious consequences.

And tell that daughter to take her offer and shaft it up her's!
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Cant totally blame her either.

"YOU TOOK AWAY MY FATHER" ....if I cant have your love, I have your money.

FIL thought he can control the initial fire he started but the heat got too big that he needed someone now to shield it.

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post Oct 31 2019, 12:07 PM

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'God' should have created less horny mankind.
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post Oct 31 2019, 12:36 PM

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QUOTE(KennyKB @ Oct 31 2019, 12:15 PM)
Don't expect a good outcome from this.

1) Disappointed FIL will become psychologically and physically abusive in rented house so MIL moves out.
2) FIL is unable to pay rent so is evicted by landlord and homeless. 1st wife will not take him in.
3) FIL gets locksmith to open condo and moves back in. No choice or he will have to live on the streets. If there is a tenant FIL will set him running.
4) FIL harrass daughters who are the new condo owners to sell condo and give him half as his share.
5) MIL is unable to get upkeep from condo rental so daughters face financial strain.
6) Finally to resolve the impasse condo is sold and FIL gets half.

So in the end the result will still be the same after a lot of pain to all parties. What MIL should do is to tell FIL "NO" to mortgaging the condo for finance. Situation remains as it is. If FIL cannot accept sell the condo and give him 50%. Deception isn't the way.
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MIL giving 50% or all to FIL is not an issue if uses it for his business and to plough it back to the family later after getting his returns. All sensible wife will die together with the husband but will not die with him because of another woman.

But taking the 50% and pass some of it to buy a surname ? What happens when all money gone? When someone can come up with this reason for money, there will be many more b4 FIL is milked dry. Otherwise scammers wont have good time. If the pregnant daughter knew what the father wants, husband and wife can do it voluntary. If the husband disagreed, a mil dollar cannot even make him change his mind.

Status quo and things will be less complicated. As stated earlier, 1 slap to keep the house, why not?

By the way, me no talk heaven to frighten people.

This post has been edited by mini orchard: Oct 31 2019, 12:56 PM

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