The whole story is very distasteful, TS.

All I can see if young people busy leeching off older people's money - and it's not even a lot! We are talking about 100k-400k. If they can't even work hard to save such money, they need to work harder.

Living in DPC but could only drive GRAB and can't afford renovation? Where's the priority here???

To that daughter who want to give birth, please make sure you are able to be independent and not keep leeching off others for money.

I am sure they are all able-bodied young adults. Hence, go out and make some money, instead of bickering of a few k's here.

Getting divorce between the 2 and this loan matter are two DIFFERENT thing. Things become confusing because people start to mix things up.

The best you can do is wake your FIL up. Your MIL defends rightfully and correctly - it's during their divorce then the court will decide how to split the property.

Shameful!