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Q on in-laws situation (Updates), Updated.
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mini orchard
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 Nov 14 2019, 09:47 AM
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QUOTE(lurkingaround @ Nov 14 2019, 09:45 AM) BillCollectorWow.! ... The 1st wife had RM730k in FD savings. No wonder your ex-FIL went back to her, ie for her money. So, the sale of Team B's birth-surname-right for RM300k to youe ex-FIL was likely a ruse, to break up the marriage of your ex-FIL and MIL and reunite their mother/1st-wife with your ex-FIL. Now the daughters of Team B regret taking your ex-FIL back because he has "scammed" their mother's RM520k(the RM210k was needed to get rid of your MIL). Team B are stuck with your ex-FIL, for good or for bad. ....... Sometimes, being rich can make a person over-confident. "A rich mind is the devil's playground". "Manusia boleh merancang tetapi Tuhan yang menentukan." Please update us on what your ex-FIL is doing with the RM520k, the sale of his mistress's condo, Team B and Team A, ie the post-divorce situation. Seems like now BillCollector has become the "Chinese patriarch" of Team A.  . So all the while you were saying ......? MONEY > FIL Agreed? This post has been edited by mini orchard: Nov 14 2019, 09:50 AM |
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mini orchard
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Nov 14 2019, 02:49 PM
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QUOTE(jojolicia @ Nov 14 2019, 02:34 PM) Finally done 7pgs over lunch. One thing I don't understand, why would the FIL offer 210k and gave up 50% share of the condo to TS's MIL, if FIL intends to cheat. FIL can just pocket all 730k from his swing at 1st wife, full stop. Further retain his 50% share of the condo thru divorce division, right? Lunch must be too delicious if you are not able to pick up what was said by TS. Nevermind, let TS answer you. |
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mini orchard
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Nov 15 2019, 07:06 AM
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QUOTE(BillCollector @ Nov 15 2019, 12:49 AM) Please stick to the topic as this isn't /k. Got carried away by the wind and playing the 'victim' card. Too emotional when 'handling' divorce case. Not sure how quoting bible verses can convince a sitting judge to deliver a favourable judgement to his client's favour. This is to solve current issues and NOT thereafter. This post has been edited by mini orchard: Nov 15 2019, 07:07 AM |
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mini orchard
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Nov 15 2019, 04:19 PM
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QUOTE(lurkingaround @ Nov 15 2019, 04:16 PM) BillCollectorWith this kind of history ( https://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/category/...-hulu-selangor/ - Abandoned projects cry for attention in Hulu Selangor - 2017) behind housing projects in Rawang, many housebuyers are wary of buying such new 'sell-and-build' houses in Rawang which can be similarly abandoned by the housing developers, eg if a world recession suddenly hits in 2020 or 2021= many housebuyers prefer to buy already-completed new houses or 2nd-hand houses even though they have to pay a bit more = "pound wise, penny foolish." = safer to lose RM30k than losing RM300k if a housing project suddenly gets abandoned for whatever reason. What happens if your FIL could only sell 30% of the housing project.? Without sufficient funds for holding costs, he will likely be forced to abandon the project. "Beggars can't be choosers" - this aptly describes your FIL's present financial situation = he is in no position to be a capable housing developer like he was 20 years ago = he should just sell the land for a small profit to a capable and well-funded housing developer. . Apply for consultant position. |
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mini orchard
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Nov 25 2019, 03:43 PM
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QUOTE(BillCollector @ Nov 25 2019, 03:22 PM) An update to those following this :- » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «
-I got my phone back last week after the wife had been holding on to it very firmly.
-The transfer of the condo to the 2 Team A daughters has been completed. Some "donations" along the way did help to expedite the situation.
-MIL is now living in our house, what was supposed to be temporary has become a permanent arrangement something my wife and me decided in view that she is carrying twins. Thus far everything is working out well other than it does piss me off the house constantly stinks of garlic, oyster sauce and grease from their extensive daily Chinese cooking.
-MIL is mostly a happy woman. She generally views it that she won all the battles as well as the war. She has started spending time with this Tzu Chi group.
-The condo will undergo its repairs and maintenance. After that it will be rented out.
-FIL decided not to pursue developing that land as it turned out he needed closer to RM5,000,000 on hand and returned the money he still had to his 1st wife.
-Team B + the old lady on receiving the money abandoned the house and him. The eldest daughter did inform me on the situation and said it was a big mistake to take their father back. She told me they were disowning their father and didn't want to have anything to do with him again.
-He was living with his nephew and brother, yesterday I was informed by his nephew that he had a heart attack induced stroke.
-I went to see the nephew and FIL this morning (without anyone from Team A knowing), the stroke has paralysed him waist down, he is conscious but not too coherent.
 Leave him alone and let him have peace within him. In the quiet moment, he can also reflect his past actions. |
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mini orchard
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Nov 26 2019, 12:53 PM
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I know Astro oredi so many repetition. Didnt know Lowyat also.
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mini orchard
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Nov 29 2019, 08:36 AM
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QUOTE(Liamness @ Nov 29 2019, 08:17 AM) There's a duty and responsibility to raise your child to adulthood. Since you, the parent brought the child to this world. So again, no, i dont believe the resources spent by your parents during your upbringing counts as a drain. Responsible parents would know about the costs associated in bringing kids to this world and have budgeted accordingly. But once your child reaches adulthood (around 17 or 18), they start becoming less dependent on their parents and should begin supporting themselves.. My conscience is clear. And I have helped my parents tremendously by not draining their resources once i have turned 18. My university education was fully funded by myself. Do you realise how much that helps your old folks? They bought two additional properties and now they are worth hundreds of thousands if not a million each. They can sell that and pay for the remainder of their lives. They dont have to depend on me whatsoever. You see.. this is why it is so important to be self reliant. You are wanted here ... https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=4870248&hl= |
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mini orchard
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Nov 29 2019, 10:16 AM
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QUOTE(Liamness @ Nov 29 2019, 10:12 AM) why? Seems like the kid has got a good head on his shoulders and is willing to make his own way in life. Buying a PC on your own is a great first start for a teen. I know I did the same thing too when I was 15. I managed a small business selling toys and flowers during valentines week at my high school, I was also the go to person for catering as my Mum at that time was running a cafeteria. My mum shared a % of the profit with me. I made enough money that year to afford my own electric guitar, and a 2nd hand gaming PC. As a parent myself, I don't believe in 'buying' whatever the kid wants.. That's robbing them of critical life skills. You should teach your kids skills and lessons that build their resilience, resourcefulness and character. Not just use your money to buy them a victory.. that's called plow-parenting and why we have so many weak snow-flakes in the world today.. You should post this reply there as majority of the 'kids' replied otherwise. My opinion is also closed to yours. |
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mini orchard
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Nov 30 2019, 11:02 AM
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QUOTE(kluseng @ Nov 30 2019, 10:51 AM) I think your comment is too harsh. They were kids, they behaved as kids who did not understand the situation between TS, their mother and the American woman. Even if they were aware that their parents had separated how else do you expect kids to behave? Do you expect them to say "Hi Daddy, best wishes to your new girlfriend?" I don't understand your comment about TS's "selfish ego" either. He was concerned about his kids, what selfish ego were you talking about? A great man wears many hats ... A pastor, lawyer, taiko, disciplinarian, taosim master..... This post has been edited by mini orchard: Nov 30 2019, 11:58 AM |
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