my 6 month old baby

the cost;

hospital delivery bills rm4,324.85


baby cribs, carrier, car seats
( some bought used) rm 568.80

clothing rm176.65

free stuff by family and friends (baby products, toys, clothings etc values rm1,500

play pen, toys rm157.10

baby formula rm1,490.65
(3-4 brands trys till found suitable to baby)
*mom not lactating

diapers rm378.05
abouts 700-800 pieces so far ( some do get thrown away / changes without used)

baby wipes rm123.05

baby care (baby bath, lotions, shampoo etc) rm134.80

baby stuff (feeding bottles, pacifiers, sanitizers, electric blenders, mom breast pump, others) rm1,250.00

miscellaneous ( documents, e-hailing, laundry, photo prints etc) rm160

live in nanny for first 3 month rm1500

day-care (7-5 / monday to friday) monthly rm2,250

doctors visits / medications rm229.30

total so far as at today RM14,013.95

......





after being married for 13 years my wife and i finally gotten a baby girl

i know parents will say their babies are cute and pretty, but..

this baby of ours is dude i really have to tell you that she is seriously so nice to look at,

there is not a moment in my life since that i so wonder how a person can be this beautiful..

with her translucent skin, that pink cheeks, her always smiling red lips, beautiful bright black round eyes with that long eyelashes of hers, and her soft brownish hair,

she is so pretty she lights up the rooms and fills your heart with so much love

more days than not i just stayed home just to be with her all day

i loves my baby


sekian

gratz on ur baby girl!
but wow the cost of having a baby...must rethink this and plan properly...

Spent that much only for few brands?

Lol, count to the dot to the closet sen

wow after 13 years?

unplanned or wat? lol

Congrats on your new born.

Normal delivery or Caesarean? Which Hospital?

That RM229.30 bill is 1st time see Paeds after delivery?

Congratulations on the new baby!

Just you don't hisap wife tetek until kering lah. Bagi baby jugak.

Woh 13 years still chasing

And 14k made me sweat

congra ...

Congratulations!!

congrats brah

the way you describe your baby damn 7 cute



This post has been edited by persona93: Sep 20 2019, 01:12 PM

later schooling fund how much pulak

Why so culculative

tat amount for now....wait till she hits puberty

Cool story bro

my wife c-section at SJMC aldy rm14k 5 years ago

Mum not lactating.
You have to make an effort dude.
If you don't persist, then of course it wont happen.

Btw, I'm guessing normal delivery?

4k is pretty cheap
I spent around 12k for cesarean and a private room.

Prior to delivery, doctor visitations was around 200+ each time. Never missed any appointments for 9 months.

2x Crib was Graco, around 1.9k each
Stroller 1.6k
Milk pump 700
Bottles around 200
And other God knows what I spent but I reckon total bill was around 25k ~ 30k at least

This post has been edited by masamura: Sep 20 2019, 01:17 PM

Wow your daycare is super expensive wei. 5 star hotel is it?

When u plan to go out cheong

Congratulations ts

i noticed that as well

This post has been edited by karwaidotnet: Sep 20 2019, 01:21 PM

lol standard price for baby 500/month

I'll wait 15 and half years more.

average of around rm220-250/month

considered quite cheap compared to some parents i know bought that gold type formula at rm150-rm200/900gm cans

the older she gets the more she needs feeding,

like on her 5th month she goes with 4.8kg of formula (ofcourse half way feeding she dozzes off and the rest of milk got thrown away)

doctors recomends changing the formula whenever she constipated

when we first married i did talk with my wife if we really should have babies straight away, i was thinking maybe wait 2-3year first


sekali langsung tidak dapat until now, ha-ha

LMAO!! I almost spraypainted the monitor with a mouthful of coffee!

u see wrong bo?

Mine first week of life already spent 15k due to jaundice.

sorry thats the total so far, monthly fee is rm550

7am till 5pm

including daily log book, makan bubur and bath

y u no buy insurance ?

But then again, insurance also dont cover everything.. mostly just lumpsum 3K or 5K or higher, depending on your premium.

Congrats bro! Life changing!

Btw, how did you get a live in for that much?

Ohh that is cheap... mind to disclose where u found it?
Is it a commercial day care centre or part-time babysitter like that?

Time to create a dupe call FirstGirl

Gratzz!!


I want a baby too 😫


Share gambar oreo dlu

see ts already give pencerahan

Congrats on your baby girl.

This is how much it cost me just to give birth to my son via C-section.

But congrats, enjoy your moments while you can ... They grow up so fast

This post has been edited by dares: Sep 20 2019, 01:36 PM

with that amount of money spent, u should able get a high end char

maybe too early since the level is low but what build u making and what class/job gonna make

stroller mana stroller?

and damn ur car seat is cheap..mine was RM1.3k..then bought another one coz the 1st one like not very comfy...another RM1.8k..cabai

but everytime he sits happily and dozed of..damn..worth every single fucking pennies

c-section really not cheap indeed

i remember someone laffing at why so expensive for 90 per 900gram milk powder...
some more told me ya he got children also

wonder which ktard

Then its considered as cheap. Chinese nanny nowadays charge around 1200 to 1500 per month depending on the area.

yea man.

Before that we ask the gynae estimate how much, he ask me to prepare blank cheque

Too bad mom not lactating.
Best milk for babies.

since born till now, thats private clinics, monthly med check up we go join the rest of kambing at the gov klinik ibu & anak

yup

thanks

live in maid from my mom place, we just add to the allowance, only for first 2 half month

day care so expensive ? mind to pm where and what they cover ?

Giving birth in Malaysia murah, syukur Bijan and BN!

My wife just csec in singapore 2 wks ago n our bill was sgd17.2k.

sweat
luckily my wifu didnt kena
only need epidural though

wow that's bad...but maybe they give extra servis?

Some may think car seat is not as important so they buy cheap ones or 2nd hand ones..
Heck some even didnt use car seat at all.

Mahal sial
.

i still think buy cheap one better than no use at all. the impact will throw the child around

cheap one without side impat protection, so long not serious crash, still ok can save life

those not using..i cringe everytime i saw

no add optional vaccination at paed?

During that time never thought that my baby will be admitted. So only took insurance after he discharged from kpj. Not sure if i take insurance during pregnancy it will cover neonatal jaundice.

congrats for you and your family

congrats but becareful of hamsap pedophile too

live in nanny for first 3 month rm1500
=> how to be so cheap?

Yup it covers jaundice but as mentioned normally cant cover the total sum also.. insurance company very smart nowadays

congrats

and thanks for the costing sheet

all the best to u

we got the stroller for free , its a hand-me-down from my big brother, also with the car seat (not used yet since too big for her)

got a good deal a used quality one with that isofix type

TS over.

gaji aku rm2000. isteri tak keje.

elok je boleh besarkan anak aku.

if you have a lot of excuses, you will never success in anything.

nice! i love hand me down also whenever possible

good planning there bro

those extra money, sure will need in future

btw, my baby's 3 month older than yours

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=4796362&hl=

Congrats TS.

congratulations TS

Congrats and this is only the beginning :|

all of k is 20k a month standard. 14k is chump change.

congratulation TS

quality > quantity

thumbs UP

congrats, baby girl is always very special

Thats just one

How about 4 children

congratulations!

How do you manage your financial?

Congrats

Now I wonder how can poor people have so many babies.

They're not really poor issit

i 2k a month jer

Not shocked by the total amount, but im more amazed you kept track of every single sen. The discipline fuhh

Worth it la, baru 14k for a cute baby..

By the way , live in nanny for first 3 month rm1500? Rm500 only per month?

whats so hard.

diapers buy from shopee.

stroller buy from shopee.

toileteries buy from shopee.

toys buy from shopee.

birth and scheduled checkup at government hospital.

whats the problem?

Dont mind me asking, how old ish are you?

Congrats btw, hopefully your child turns out to be a good one.

This post has been edited by simmarjit: Sep 20 2019, 02:17 PM

I'm sorry for your loss.

No more holiday spending
No more men’s shopping
No more girlfriend
Start planing expenses

Congratulations !!

Lama tu bro 13 tahun, hope the perjuangan its all paid off yeah.

All natural ka?

No insurance? U know these babies are really prone to sickness, u might opt for a private care as we know how good our gov is, nevertheless we re on saame page tho, but yeaa its all worth it, what else we work our ass off? These babies r reason to it

Your day care why so expensive??

No insurance? U know these babies are really prone to sickness, u might opt for a private care as we know how good our gov is, nevertheless we re on saame page tho, but yeaa its all worth it, what else we work our ass off? These babies r reason to it

my previous life i have a very frivolous attitude towards money, spends most on clubbings and drinks

after losing our family run business and death of my dad due to cancer each of us siblings have to starts all over again

nowadays keeps tracks by simply key in all spending on the phone calendars

since staying with my mom the live in nanny we just add towards her allowance, monthly wages of rm1.2k paid by mom

now the maid just come in 3 times weekly

Congrats bro

Elite daycare in elite neighborhood maybe

Why wife no milk? Flat?

Husband tak bagi protein

new dad syndrome spotted...hahahah.....congrats btw

So expensive

Congrats TS..

Losing your dad.. And now you became a dad..

Definitely mean a lot to you..

Appreciate your baby and wifey.. Love them more 😘😘

This is just the beginning.... Long way to go.. 😅
All the best to you! 👍

Tips dari aku..hang kena banyak hisap tetek bini bagi keluarkan banyak susu

Shushu ibu adalah makanan terbaik untuk bayi

This post has been edited by Gendude: Sep 20 2019, 02:59 PM

Congratulations! Aww