guys, i thk i have PE issue. When doing it with partner, after about 20 strokes, i feel like cumming ad. hence, everytime 10+ times of stroke i will pause a while and playing v her. But this is upset as the fun is not there where u can keep it for at least few minutes before it finished.
(will be better if she is on top and moving herself, compared to missionary when i move myself)

i did masturbate to release few hours before the intercourse. Yes it did prolong a little bit but not that much. And i end up with dissapoint again. Feel useless in front gf. Guilty for unable to satisfy her, need to use finger to continue till she came.

i wont cum fast when masturbate. i tried to use sex toy to "exercise", but it does not help at all. the sex toy made me even faster to cum. i thk is bcz it is really tight and the wave in it.

just wondering if this is normal among guys. PE really made me nt wanting to have sex. while the sex toy didnt help. i believe most ppl able to sustain long with sex toy rite? and at least 5mins of stroking ur another half without the needs of pausing in the middle..

pls advice...

I can make myself cum in 5min or 45min by controlling my breathing/heartbeat.. keep calm..

its ur mind bro, u think too much, try not to think anything, just enjoy the entire process, try to off your mind on ur penis, try to concentrate on foreplay and to relax ur penis, once both hit the point (hard to discribe) then only start to intercourse, remember do not concentrate on ur penis at all, free your mind

Use gambir emas can help to reduce your sensitivity.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/322338.php

Another way is to use extra time condom....may have some side effect thou

https://www.durexindia.com/collections/perf...a-time-10-units

lu banyak tengok udang,
tu tipu,
lakun semua,
lagi banyak buat,
lagi lama boleh tahan,

For me, I can tahan last around 20 minutes and she satisfy with my performance.

Cerita dulu. Huehuehue.

This may need alot of practices.

After that your penis will numb a bit and helps prolong the ejaculation.

But this one depends on your partner also, did she complain that you are being too fast?

have you gauge your performance when you masturbate and then making love with your partner compare to time you DID NOT masturbate at all?
when you have PE, try not to cramp masturbation and sex in the same day..

Just relax, if you cum, then just calm down, normally if you cum too fast, you are able to get another erection, relax bro

Why can't this post reported? Very explicit sexually

why would u report this post ? TS asking for help and we're here to help.

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Joking only. I just find it ironic when the warning says no sexually explicit post.

hmm use condom with very thick skin haha

no need flavored one but if want , just take rendang hahahahha

kiding2

Treat first round as warm up. Use tongue & finger.

second round will last real long. Get her on top to ride you.

But if you only capable of one round then.....

This post has been edited by epsilon_chinwk86: Sep 4 2019, 05:02 PM

your gf must be very hot...
you can try to use thick condom to last longer.

Try counting. 9 shallow, 1 deep thrust. Then 8 shallow, and 2 deep. And so on. After the initial sensation is gone, probably can last longer.

Of course sex will be different than masturbate. The physical body will heighten your pre-sex senses and meter. My first few times were much shorter as well when compared to porn.

Instead of masturbating yourself, ask her to do it for you. Once you come, then you can focus on her. Since you're sensitive to woman, I'm pretty sure you will be able to get it up soon. Just play with her slowly to make sure she don't come first before you get it up for 2nd time.

Don't rely on porn as measurement for how long men should last. A good 5-10 minutes penetration is good enough with enough foreplay.

This post has been edited by andrekua2: Sep 5 2019, 07:37 AM

Control your breathing. once in a while take a deep deep breath & slowly. It will alter your focus on your small head.

Another method is mind to view those things that you don't like. Sure it will last another few minutes 2-5 minutes max...

Usually after fap, will last longer. How many hours after you fap & go to action?

it is all in your mind, i can last up to 1 hour++ if i want to, and sometimes was my gf that came and made me stop. but if i need it to be quickie, can get it done within 5 minutes.

Try use gambir

Nakal juga tuan speaker dulu dulu. Ingatkan forever alone.

Sekarang foreveralone. Sunyi liao tak ada awek.

goncang sendiri

Kegel exercise

You can also try using double condom

you use condom or not? maybe because you use condom. i think theres something in women vaginal fluid that make men last longer or its just me

let her blowjob first...if u cant resist it, control ur breath. if u can resist during bj, then u can try hold it when u in real game. once u start a real game, she started feeling it, it might hurt her if u PE.

if u got too sensitive skin, can try sunat

Your partner has a tight pussy.. Hence very pleasurable for you.

20 strokes before coming is okay if you can go for round 2.

If you can't, have more foreplay before you start the final activity

How old are you.

Spot on.. Tight pussy is the main reason.. Hence mind control etc just doesn't work because the sensation is coming from the grip..

For me lubricant helps alot.. Until I have difficulty to ejaculate

after having sex with her many times...slowly you can improve.

she sometimes joke abt this issue. no big deal but i felt bad. end up using finger to finish her.

without masturbate will come faster.

normaly after 1 round, ad lost interest in doing it anymore.


am using close fit durex

sometimes evening fap, and night action.
1 time tried fap b4 action, but i thk more worse

yes am using.. nvr try raw. scared pregnant

ad done that

30

i jz use condom, with its stock lube. nvr apply additional lube thou.. lube can delay ejac? i tot the smoother the penetration, the faster it cum

tbh, i dont do much with her.. just occasionally. probably the PE issue stopping me in doing that

This is more related to the aspect of sexual health, so it's going into the H&F section

Premature ejeculation also sexual health?

Is it not? go Google it first

No trolling guys, strict moderation and serious discussion only.

Are those gambir and magic tissue really works?

Short term way to improve PE

1. use long lasting condom, may have chemical side effect. use with caution
2. have more sex, practice make perfect
3. 9 soft push, 1 hard thrust penetration technique. Slowly change to 8:1,7:1 to 1:1.
4. cowgirl position
5. Cunnilingus, another way to make her reached orgasm

Here are the video for those who understand cantonese

Yes, but i dulled the sense.
kalau nak tunjuk power ok la.

but in a long run, kalau salah pakai, kau kebas, dia pun kebas..

last2 jadi lari berganti-ganti je la.

There are condoms that can make you cum late...

Shoot Delay..can get it at 7 eleven also...

Not really. Its helps to some degree, but its not solution.

never let she drives u. u need to drive her lel. take it slowly until u adapt with the feels. then increase the pace. dont focus 100% on ur pleasure feeling. let 50% to other thing.

Several tips that could be of help and support to you:
# Practice masturbate abstinence (for a period of time)
# Breath deeply during sex
# Go for woman on top position so that the stimulation for you is not that heavy hence you could control better
# Do more Kegel Exercise

Wishing you a good and happy sex life.

Communicate with her your concern and insecurities, seek her support and improve the quality of sex life together, it helps a great deal.
Also, tell her that you are sincere and serious about improving your performance and you really wanted to satisfy her needs.

Wishing you a happier sex life.

I would advise you to stay away from unregulated products that claim to help to "prolong" the session or "cure" your PE problems. Instead, if the non-pharmacological options (e.g calm yourself down, communicare with partner, etc) do not work, I think you should seek help from a urologist, and discuss whether there is a need to start using dapoxetine. It's a rather safe (if used correctly as prescribed) and commonly used medication for this health problem, and hopefully you will have a better experience using it.

2nd this. I have one friend even became erectile dysfunction after using so called 'delayed' ejeculation product