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TSrasasayang
post Sep 4 2019, 02:24 PM, updated 7y ago

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guys, i thk i have PE issue. When doing it with partner, after about 20 strokes, i feel like cumming ad. hence, everytime 10+ times of stroke i will pause a while and playing v her. But this is upset as the fun is not there where u can keep it for at least few minutes before it finished.
(will be better if she is on top and moving herself, compared to missionary when i move myself)

i did masturbate to release few hours before the intercourse. Yes it did prolong a little bit but not that much. And i end up with dissapoint again. Feel useless in front gf. Guilty for unable to satisfy her, need to use finger to continue till she came.

i wont cum fast when masturbate. i tried to use sex toy to "exercise", but it does not help at all. the sex toy made me even faster to cum. i thk is bcz it is really tight and the wave in it.

just wondering if this is normal among guys. PE really made me nt wanting to have sex. while the sex toy didnt help. i believe most ppl able to sustain long with sex toy rite? and at least 5mins of stroking ur another half without the needs of pausing in the middle..

pls advice...
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post Sep 4 2019, 02:28 PM

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I can make myself cum in 5min or 45min by controlling my breathing/heartbeat.. keep calm..
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post Sep 4 2019, 02:30 PM

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its ur mind bro, u think too much, try not to think anything, just enjoy the entire process, try to off your mind on ur penis, try to concentrate on foreplay and to relax ur penis, once both hit the point (hard to discribe) then only start to intercourse, remember do not concentrate on ur penis at all, free your mind


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post Sep 4 2019, 02:35 PM

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Use gambir emas can help to reduce your sensitivity.
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post Sep 4 2019, 02:35 PM

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https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/322338.php

Another way is to use extra time condom....may have some side effect thou

https://www.durexindia.com/collections/perf...a-time-10-units
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post Sep 4 2019, 02:36 PM

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QUOTE(rasasayang @ Sep 4 2019, 02:24 PM)
guys, i thk i have PE issue.  When doing it with partner, after about 20 strokes, i feel like cumming ad. hence, everytime 10+ times of stroke i will pause a while and playing v her.  But this is upset as the fun is not there where u can keep it for at least few minutes before it finished.
(will be better if she is on top and moving herself, compared to missionary when i move myself)

i did masturbate to release few hours before the intercourse. Yes it did prolong a little bit but not that much. And i end up with dissapoint again. Feel useless in front gf. Guilty for unable to satisfy her, need to use finger to continue till she came.

i wont cum fast when masturbate. i tried to use sex toy to "exercise", but it does not help at all. the sex toy made me even faster to cum. i thk is bcz it is really tight and the wave in it.

just wondering if this is normal among guys.  PE really made me nt wanting to have sex. while the sex toy didnt help.  i believe most ppl able to sustain long with sex toy rite? and at least 5mins of stroking ur another half without the needs of pausing in the middle..

pls advice...
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post Sep 4 2019, 02:41 PM

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For me, I can tahan last around 20 minutes and she satisfy with my performance.

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post Sep 4 2019, 02:46 PM

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This may need alot of practices.

After that your penis will numb a bit and helps prolong the ejaculation.

But this one depends on your partner also, did she complain that you are being too fast?
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post Sep 4 2019, 03:03 PM

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have you gauge your performance when you masturbate and then making love with your partner compare to time you DID NOT masturbate at all?
when you have PE, try not to cramp masturbation and sex in the same day..
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post Sep 4 2019, 03:06 PM

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Just relax, if you cum, then just calm down, normally if you cum too fast, you are able to get another erection, relax bro
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post Sep 4 2019, 04:03 PM

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Why can't this post reported? Very explicit sexually
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post Sep 4 2019, 04:06 PM

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QUOTE(TheOnly1 @ Sep 4 2019, 04:03 PM)
Why can't this post reported? Very explicit sexually
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why would u report this post ? TS asking for help and we're here to help.

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post Sep 4 2019, 04:08 PM

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QUOTE(alcohol @ Sep 4 2019, 04:06 PM)
why would u report this post ? TS asking for help and we're here to help.

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Joking only. I just find it ironic when the warning says no sexually explicit post.
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post Sep 4 2019, 04:13 PM

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hmm use condom with very thick skin haha

no need flavored one but if want , just take rendang hahahahha

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post Sep 4 2019, 05:01 PM

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Treat first round as warm up. Use tongue & finger.

second round will last real long. Get her on top to ride you.

But if you only capable of one round then..... doh.gif doh.gif doh.gif

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post Sep 4 2019, 05:18 PM

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your gf must be very hot...
you can try to use thick condom to last longer.
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post Sep 5 2019, 12:31 AM

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Try counting. 9 shallow, 1 deep thrust. Then 8 shallow, and 2 deep. And so on. After the initial sensation is gone, probably can last longer.
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post Sep 5 2019, 07:33 AM

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Of course sex will be different than masturbate. The physical body will heighten your pre-sex senses and meter. My first few times were much shorter as well when compared to porn.

Instead of masturbating yourself, ask her to do it for you. Once you come, then you can focus on her. Since you're sensitive to woman, I'm pretty sure you will be able to get it up soon. Just play with her slowly to make sure she don't come first before you get it up for 2nd time.

Don't rely on porn as measurement for how long men should last. A good 5-10 minutes penetration is good enough with enough foreplay.

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kbhai
post Sep 5 2019, 10:30 AM

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Control your breathing. once in a while take a deep deep breath & slowly. It will alter your focus on your small head.

Another method is mind to view those things that you don't like. Sure it will last another few minutes 2-5 minutes max...

Usually after fap, will last longer. How many hours after you fap & go to action?


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post Sep 5 2019, 10:40 AM

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it is all in your mind, i can last up to 1 hour++ if i want to, and sometimes was my gf that came and made me stop. but if i need it to be quickie, can get it done within 5 minutes.

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