QUOTE(freeman1 @ Aug 22 2019, 06:47 PM)
Checkmate end up being checkmated...
Dont worry, ur boyfriend will come back to u when he cooling down...
Apparently he's still mad, but he's ok to talk to me. I will try and fix things up, thanks a lot!!
QUOTE(yoonyin @ Aug 22 2019, 06:59 PM)
Well, all i can say your BF also very immature, and i feel that he never do appreciate the relationship too.
For a first timer, throwing the Break up boom, but you are brave to admit your fault and willing to ask for forgiveness which need tons of courage.
If your bf really do appreciate you, no matter how wrong you are, he will still forgive you as long you willing to change or do better. If he live by his principle, then join the army. Love is about accommodate.
So, i think you deserve a better one. Move on and go hang out with your friend and family to past the time.
Thanks for your opinion, although it was my first time saying that 'we're over' doesn't mean that I can take it for granted. I really need to be careful of my words and respect him. Perhaps he was really hurt from my words and couldn't take me being like that. Anyway, we're good now. Thanks a lot!!
QUOTE(sinbad2k @ Aug 22 2019, 07:16 PM)
"so I think we're over" is the last thing you should ever say in a fight or if the relationship definitely doesn't work out or worth salvaging. Your bf is probably tired of putting up with your "tantrums" all these while maybe that now he's considering quitting?I hope not.
But I think the best now, is to look for him in person and apologise face 2 face and you've gotta get hold of yourself next time if you think your act is immature.
Yea, you're right. I really shouldn't say this if I don't mean it. We were good before this and it was my first time being cold to him, it was my fault either way. It felt really frustrating when you said something that you didn't mean and it causes you a huge regret, can't express it in words but I would never do that again, not only to him of course. I need to learn how to improve myself.
Texted him random stuff yesterday although I wasn't hoping for anything and he did reply. I know I don't deserve his reply but I will definitely try to fix things up. Thanks again for the advise and I will learn from this!
QUOTE(FutureBuilder @ Aug 22 2019, 08:33 PM)
If you're irreplaceable, he would change his principle for you. You really need to control your temperament, otherwise, you won't go far in any relationship. Good luck.
Not sure am I his exception but I did ask him to trust me again, for the first and last time. Yea, my friend said the same thing and I am definitely going to improve myself. Big thanks!!
QUOTE(herzeleid @ Aug 23 2019, 08:23 AM)
so how is it TS? bf came back crawling?
Texted him yesterday and he replied nicely. Not completely ok because thing is kinda awkward now but I will fix things up. Anything that guys would love the gfs do to make them happy? (within my capabilities, haha)