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TSbryanhwm
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Aug 20 2019, 05:04 PM, updated 5y ago
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So after my "Last Encounter" I actually talk a step back in trying to find a GF. I got lectured by my Best Friend, she said, sometimes, if too aggressive, things will become blurred. You won't know what's right, what's wrong. Because all you care is to impress the lady. The right one will come no matter how. So, I want to ask, how heavy is the statement "The right one will appear when the time is right?" weigh to you? Also, anyone here experiences LDR before? Need to ask something. This post has been edited by bryanhwm: Aug 20 2019, 05:07 PM
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Baconateer
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Aug 20 2019, 05:06 PM
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but when is the time is right?
if u dont put in some effort... waiting wont help you..
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TSbryanhwm
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Aug 20 2019, 05:07 PM
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Getting Started
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QUOTE(Baconateer @ Aug 20 2019, 05:06 PM) but when is the time is right? if u dont put in some effort... waiting wont help you.. Well, I thought, putting effort will show sincerity, but then, it always backfired.
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Baconateer
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Aug 20 2019, 05:08 PM
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QUOTE(bryanhwm @ Aug 20 2019, 05:07 PM) Well, I thought, putting effort will show sincerity, but then, it always backfired. at least u tried... if it doesnt work..just move on.. better than not trying at all..
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ViktorJ
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Aug 20 2019, 05:40 PM
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I think that statement is encouraging but damn vague. A very shotgun sort of statement. Simply tembak eventually right.
As for LDR, try looking through the LDR thread, many experiences there.
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TSbryanhwm
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Aug 20 2019, 06:02 PM
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Getting Started
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QUOTE(ViktorJ @ Aug 20 2019, 05:40 PM) I think that statement is encouraging but damn vague. A very shotgun sort of statement. Simply tembak eventually right. As for LDR, try looking through the LDR thread, many experiences there. Ada Link x?
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Chaud
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Aug 21 2019, 09:18 AM
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QUOTE(bryanhwm @ Aug 20 2019, 05:07 PM) Well, I thought, putting effort will show sincerity, but then, it always backfired. it really depends...some effort will make the girl feel creep out while some may feel impress that is when the "right one will come" comes in handy
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achong09
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Aug 21 2019, 10:00 AM
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QUOTE(bryanhwm @ Aug 20 2019, 05:04 PM) So after my "Last Encounter" I actually talk a step back in trying to find a GF. I got lectured by my Best Friend, she said, sometimes, if too aggressive, things will become blurred. You won't know what's right, what's wrong. Because all you care is to impress the lady. The right one will come no matter how. So, I want to ask, how heavy is the statement "The right one will appear when the time is right?" weigh to you? Also, anyone here experiences LDR before? Need to ask something. sounds like me leh.... you are copy of me ka?? hahaha
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ymc2303
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Aug 21 2019, 12:24 PM
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when you find someone who is not interested in having a relationship, better put effort on those that would reciprocate. if burn out, take a break and redo.
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kkboy
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Aug 29 2019, 08:25 PM
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QUOTE(Baconateer @ Aug 20 2019, 05:06 PM) but when is the time is right? if u dont put in some effort... waiting wont help you.. This lah Surely u dont wait for your dream woman to fall from the sky into your lap
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kkboy
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Aug 29 2019, 08:25 PM
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QUOTE(Baconateer @ Aug 20 2019, 05:06 PM) but when is the time is right? if u dont put in some effort... waiting wont help you.. This lah Surely u dont wait for your dream woman to fall from the sky into your lap
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SUSAwano
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Sep 2 2019, 08:34 PM
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Yes. time will come. no worries
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vinnyming
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Sep 6 2019, 09:33 AM
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Getting Started
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Long distance usually takes a lot of effort from both sides. You'll both be living your own lives away from each other while trying to be together. The challenge is trying to keep it alive when you both are apart.
If it's just few cities away (eg. Kajang - Kepong), it's still manageable to at least meet once a week if not once a month. If it's states away (eg. KL - Sarawak/Johor/Penang), some effort to surprise the other side, at least meeting once a month. Both sides have to be very understanding and mature as not everything will be smooth sailing.
For one, sometimes, schedule may clash, you will have something you need to do, the other said may have to work as well.
It's even harder if it's countries apart (eg. Malaysia - UK(different time zone) as one side will have to sacrifice time and energy to stay connected even if it's just Skype calls. Time zones are the hardest as you might be sleeping when the other is up and going through life.
If it's within the same time zone, it's still manageable but as I said, you will need to sacrifice time and energy to meet up occasionally.
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Spaceman_27
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Sep 8 2019, 12:25 PM
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Is she indicating that she is the "right one" lol
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TSbryanhwm
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Sep 10 2019, 01:40 PM
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QUOTE(Spaceman_27 @ Sep 8 2019, 12:25 PM) Is she indicating that she is the "right one" lol Hahaha. To use "Right One" a bit too much. Since we just started knowing each other. Just she commented we are too far apart to even try.
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starianz
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Sep 11 2019, 04:15 PM
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I have been LDR for two years +, getting married this October.
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