When there is love, there is sex. That is human natural. However, as I grew up, I realize that many people can actually separate between love and sex. Meaning sex only, no love. Or pure love with less sex. These things taught by my married colleague. I was shocked when I found out they have been cheong ing behind their wives back and still dare to tell their wives they love their wives very much and smile.
Are guys always like this? Meaning can fuck behind wives back but act lovey dovey in front of wives? I can't understand why our emotions and desire can be divided.
Joined: Jul 2005
From: shah alam - skudai - shah alam
Bahasa Melayu distinguishes the difference between love (sayang) and in love (cinta).
You can love your cat, doesn't mean you have to have sex with it. Which also mean you can sleep with other women, doesn't mean you stop loving your cat.
love can be friendly. like i love my pets but i dont have sex with them.
when you talk about wives that "dont mind". the reality is :
1. they really dont mind 2. they really mind but they already accepted that men have needs 3. they already gave up and just doing what they can to keep the family together 4. they're also fucking around
my opinion on the matter: u got wife, dont cheong. if you're too horny and one woman not enough, dont marry
Bahasa Melayu distinguishes the difference between love (sayang) and in love (cinta).
You can love your cat, doesn't mean you have to have sex with it. Which also mean you can sleep with other women, doesn't mean you stop loving your cat.
When there is love, there is sex. That is human natural. However, as I grew up, I realize that many people can actually separate between love and sex. Meaning sex only, no love. Or pure love with less sex. These things taught by my married colleague. I was shocked when I found out they have been cheong ing behind their wives back and still dare to tell their wives they love their wives very much and smile.
Are guys always like this? Meaning can fuck behind wives back but act lovey dovey in front of wives? I can't understand why our emotions and desire can be divided.
I'd give an analogy Sex with love = get full by eating expensive delicious food. Eg. An RM 200 worth of wagyu steak.
When there is love, there is sex. That is human natural. However, as I grew up, I realize that many people can actually separate between love and sex. Meaning sex only, no love. Or pure love with less sex. These things taught by my married colleague. I was shocked when I found out they have been cheong ing behind their wives back and still dare to tell their wives they love their wives very much and smile.
Are guys always like this? Meaning can fuck behind wives back but act lovey dovey in front of wives? I can't understand why our emotions and desire can be divided.
how about org kito? do they love and sex before marriage?
When there is love, there is sex. That is human natural. However, as I grew up, I realize that many people can actually separate between love and sex. Meaning sex only, no love. Or pure love with less sex. These things taught by my married colleague. I was shocked when I found out they have been cheong ing behind their wives back and still dare to tell their wives they love their wives very much and smile.
Are guys always like this? Meaning can fuck behind wives back but act lovey dovey in front of wives? I can't understand why our emotions and desire can be divided.
when there is love--> there is sex
this is where you are wrong.
Absolutely common for sexless love AND loveless sex.
Cheonging and loving your wife is totally different matter eh sohai
Cheong- paid for sex service rendered by a professional Love- is a emotional feeling you give like your wife without her telling u to do it which u can do it willing from your heart