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Would you consider this an affair with married man
Would you consider this an affair with married man
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Aug 3 2019, 06:55 PM, updated 3y ago
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Aug 3 2019, 07:01 PM
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More thn heating up..
seems like this affair has been going on for some time |
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Aug 3 2019, 07:07 PM
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Aug 3 2019, 07:09 PM
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Aug 3 2019, 07:13 PM
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QUOTE(gamuur @ Aug 3 2019, 07:09 PM) Then I would for once be very judgemental, say that she seriously lacks imagination and he should dump her on that basis.But uh yeah, I am guessing "husband" just says it is normal? Or something? |
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Aug 3 2019, 11:48 PM
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You are obviously very into this married man, and well I'd say you're playing with fire. You should forget him and just move on before you get urself hurt.
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Aug 4 2019, 12:33 AM
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QUOTE(tinkerbel @ Aug 3 2019, 11:48 PM) You are obviously very into this married man, and well I'd say you're playing with fire. You should forget him and just move on before you get urself hurt. LOL its not me. Just a friend of mine. So I was wondering whether i should just keep quiet or do something about it |
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Aug 4 2019, 02:32 PM
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QUOTE(gamuur @ Aug 4 2019, 12:33 AM) LOL its not me. Just a friend of mine. So I was wondering whether i should just keep quiet or do something about it don't poke your nose where it don't belongs.usually this kind of case is self destruct.. but most destructive on the married man's wife and their marriage. its not something that outsider can advice or scold and suddenly there is nothing between them. |
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Aug 4 2019, 05:43 PM
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Aug 5 2019, 08:26 AM
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Letter like this still consider no affair? Then the girl really got mental issue writing such to other ppl's hubby.
If there is nothing happen between the man & the writer (yet), i f I being: <the writer> - I am all out to rampas ppl's hubby ady. But yucks.. I am not that itchy. <the husband> - if the girl not bad, now whole body itch ady.. want her garu ady <the wife> - if I see this, I will copy it exactly and give it to my hubby. See what he gonna do! If the man & the writer already in affair, if I being: <the writer> - I won't write this piece if I want to keep this man with me. <the husband> - I think I may break the relationship as she is posing a risk to break my marriage (unless I don't want my family anymore) ... just wild guess from a woman trying to think like a man <the wife> - I will copy exactly this same thing and give to my hubby and see his reaction. * If I am friend of the girl, I will tell her that I know her behavior and gonna stay away from her.. scare if ppl's wife come belasah her, I kena also. * If I am the friend of the guy, I will warn him.. curi makan, let be smart.. don't let mistress write such message increasing the risk of wife find out. |
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Aug 5 2019, 12:04 PM
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having a relationship with married man/women is wrong, there is no need to open thread and ask anymore.
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Aug 6 2019, 12:36 AM
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Yes I am considering that as wrong and an attempted affair.
It is an affair if the married man replied to this message positively |
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Aug 6 2019, 01:20 PM
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Aug 6 2019, 04:57 PM
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a lady in love is like a moth flying into a fire
its no use hinting or trying to talk some sense into your friend talk to the married man involved direct on the point may have a better/higher chance of preventing things going to the worst |
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Aug 7 2019, 09:42 AM
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TS, who is actually your friend? The mistress, the man or the wife?
If you are not close friend to any of them, stay away. It won't do you any good and ppl won't thank you no matter what happen. If you are really a close friend and think must do something... depends you are friend of whom. If you are the mistress's friend, she can write such letter already tak mau muka.. just leave it. If the man is your friend, do remind him that he is putting his current marriage at risk and unless he don't want his family. But don't be too proactive trying to help ppl sustain marriage, they may have their own problem even no mistress. If you are the friend of the wife, the only thing u can do is tell her to give more attention to her man. Tats all. |
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Aug 8 2019, 09:40 AM
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so wrong
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Aug 8 2019, 12:04 PM
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QUOTE(cc980024 @ Aug 7 2019, 09:42 AM) TS, who is actually your friend? The mistress, the man or the wife? 'mistress' friendIf you are not close friend to any of them, stay away. It won't do you any good and ppl won't thank you no matter what happen. If you are really a close friend and think must do something... depends you are friend of whom. If you are the mistress's friend, she can write such letter already tak mau muka.. just leave it. If the man is your friend, do remind him that he is putting his current marriage at risk and unless he don't want his family. But don't be too proactive trying to help ppl sustain marriage, they may have their own problem even no mistress. If you are the friend of the wife, the only thing u can do is tell her to give more attention to her man. Tats all. |
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Aug 16 2019, 08:37 PM
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QUOTE(gamuur @ Aug 4 2019, 12:33 AM) LOL its not me. Just a friend of mine. So I was wondering whether i should just keep quiet or do something about it Just give hints to your friend. Being the 3rd party is not a joke and she is skating on very thin ice.What if the wife is somebody with power and money.... Seriously if the married man is serious to be with your friend, settled the marriage before starting the relationship. |
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