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TSxinmay
post Aug 3 2019, 05:08 PM, updated 5y ago

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Would like to ask during confinement should bb sleep with me or the confinement lady? She will have her own room.
And also will baby sleep in the baby cot or on the bed we're sleeping in?
Appreciate insights on this, thanks!
anakkk
post Aug 3 2019, 05:16 PM

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hmm usually confinement lady and new mom sleep together one, it is better to sleep with you.
ctys2012
post Aug 3 2019, 05:23 PM

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sleep with CL so you can rest
sleep with you easier to breast feed if you want, but waking up frequently means u no good sleep
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post Aug 4 2019, 03:17 PM

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Not much differences if u direct latching, if bottle feed then different.
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post Aug 5 2019, 10:32 AM

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Since we're bottle feeding, what we're planning to do is, give CL & baby a room, while dad & mum sleep in another room so mummy can get sufficient rest during confinement period.
TSxinmay
post Aug 5 2019, 11:17 AM

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QUOTE(anakkk @ Aug 3 2019, 05:16 PM)
hmm usually confinement lady and new mom sleep together one, it is better to sleep with you.
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No space for CL to sleep with me sweat.gif

QUOTE(ctys2012 @ Aug 3 2019, 05:23 PM)
sleep with CL so you can rest
sleep with you easier to breast feed if you want, but waking up frequently means u no good sleep
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So baby co-sleep on the same bed or sleep separately in baby cot?
anakkk
post Aug 5 2019, 12:32 PM

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better sleep on baby cot, if sleep together, later on the baby will rely on you a lot
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post Aug 12 2019, 11:25 PM

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Baby sleep with CL. Mother needs to get rest during confinement.
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post Aug 15 2019, 10:11 AM

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my baby sleep with CL during my confinement.
lowlowc
post Aug 16 2019, 01:22 PM

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QUOTE(xinmay @ Aug 3 2019, 05:08 PM)
Would like to ask during confinement should bb sleep with me or the confinement lady? She will have her own room.
And also will baby sleep in the baby cot or on the bed we're sleeping in?
Appreciate insights on this, thanks!
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Baby must always sleep in baby cot, cannot co-sleep.
You're in confinement and bound to be tired, co-sleeping is dangerous.

My friend's arrangement was she insists the CL must go to room and sleep by 9pm. My friend and hubby awake till 12 midnight, bf for last time and put baby into her room in baby cot, then CL will jaga and feed baby for the rest of the night.

Day time, other than cooking time, CL is allowed to nap while baby is sleeping.

This post has been edited by lowlowc: Aug 16 2019, 01:25 PM
Champinidan
post Aug 20 2019, 01:47 AM

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As you wish. My friend is sleeping with her child, and her husband is sitting in another room. Friend is afraid to leave the baby in bed. She sleeps next to him, and when he wants to eat, she does not need to get up and go to the crib.
My other friends have a baby sleeping in a crib. They sleep in the same room with the baby.

 

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