better left on the shelves, dont touch even with a ten foot pole. topkek.

Given any ages of a man. The potential soul mate has to be early 20s. Ever heard of wimmin age like milk? I know this is tough. But it is what it is. Those already past their prime can still resort to finance rewards to sweeten their deal to get little fresh meat. Regardless of what is the reason why they are left on the shelves. Maybe one day time machine is invented. Then they can dial back time 20 years ago and back to the past and ownself give ownself chance. Other than that. Good luck and God bless. No hard feeling for the left over.

Not say I wanna say, a man who know game will not bother to take a second look. Learn game my friend. Less perfect man? Maybe ask themselves in the first place why they end up in this current state? Hint. Expectations. They can lower the expectations but can they turn back time. I m sorry. It is what it is. It sound harsh. I know. There is no second chance if one made this mistake.

I can understand your POV. It is a trade off between expectations and what you get in return from the relationship.

It is a big topic. I can go on and on. But I just wanna cut the long story short.

In the beginning. Our mum and dad Generation. Or even earlier. Marriage is simpler. Because expectation is lower. Now that we are all well educated, financially independent, one would have to ask, why you need a family? Why not trade the family time without your career time. Making more bucks instead of tie down by the family chorus. Raising kids. Etc. Sure. I understand.
To each her own.

Wimmin now are more independent than ever. It is no longer the old time wimmin who die die need to get marry to feel complete in their life. I can tell you. Marriage is for not everyone. True to both man and wimmin.

I frequent many youtuber who talk about feminism, the red pills stuff, the mgtow, and etc. It is more complicated than meet the eyes.

I shall rest my case here. Peace. Sis.