Those kind women although they are professional but i think their thinking is not far enough.
Last time my aunty worked in hair studio, got 1 construction lampazhi guy gothere cut hair, nobody want to cut him. My aunty cut him.Soon they married. 20 years later, that lampazhi guy is a multi millionaire :big boss laa.
My aunty said sometimes you don't know if the man gonna succeed or not , dont ever judge the man successful or not when he is young , you never know in the end. My aunty did the right thing. Then again this is back in 50s.
So back the topic for those late 30s or 40s professional. If they are single part of the reason is their fault.