QUOTE(Princess_Alicia @ Feb 12 2020, 10:41 PM)
Even so, girl has no obligation to lower down their expectation to accept lower quality man just because ‘time’ is running out. Sometime we feel happier without any serious relationship, the freedom is there.
You don’t understand the feeling when you need your man to be leader, but he ended up being naive and inexperience. You wish your man can provide the finance but he ended up borrow money from you. You wish to get advise from your man but he ended up complete clueless about future. With this kind of quality, may as well stay single.
I can understand your POV. It is a trade off between expectations and what you get in return from the relationship.
It is a big topic. I can go on and on. But I just wanna cut the long story short.
In the beginning. Our mum and dad Generation. Or even earlier. Marriage is simpler. Because expectation is lower. Now that we are all well educated, financially independent, one would have to ask, why you need a family? Why not trade the family time without your career time. Making more bucks instead of tie down by the family chorus. Raising kids. Etc. Sure. I understand.
To each her own.
Wimmin now are more independent than ever. It is no longer the old time wimmin who die die need to get marry to feel complete in their life. I can tell you. Marriage is for not everyone. True to both man and wimmin.
I frequent many youtuber who talk about feminism, the red pills stuff, the mgtow, and etc. It is more complicated than meet the eyes.
I shall rest my case here. Peace. Sis.