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zephyrus9999
post Aug 5 2019, 07:34 AM

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Confession = auto rejection. We're not in high school anymore. Many guys probably know this yet fail to resist the wussiness and temptation to confess.

Let the girl chase you. You probably can tell if she likes u onot. If no chance then what's the point of confession? If a landwhale confess to u, do u think it adds up chance of ur acceptance?

Only strike when the irons hot. Plan and play the game right. Timing also must be zhun. Create that sexual tension, only then snap with ur crocodile jaw. But from ur description sounds like u 2 are buddy buddy frienzone type
zephyrus9999
post Aug 5 2019, 08:49 AM

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QUOTE(Ukeke @ Aug 5 2019, 08:30 AM)
How can I break out of friendzone
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Make her miss u. Stop replying text in 3seconds. Purposely ignore her for a week. Mingle with other girls. Make urself more alpha. Make her perceive ur social value higher than hers. Stop buying stupid gifts and act as her doormat everytime. Don't be a complete open book, make ur life mysterious. No more Mr nice guy. Get a life

Normally above works when courting early stage. But once friendzoned, usually its quite hard to get out. Women mind don't work like guys. Guys are sexual thinking with dickhead, women more emotional connection. Also if face problem and no money, then can go jump off a cliff
zephyrus9999
post Aug 5 2019, 09:19 AM

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QUOTE(Ukeke @ Aug 5 2019, 08:53 AM)
We chatted, I did not reply her text. She doesn't give a fuck. I ignore her she also ignore me. I mingled with some other girls. She felt glad for me. But I never buy her gifts. I make my life very very mysterious, she never have the interest to know more.
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sounds like how we normally talk to our normal girl friends. Like we don't give a f whether reply or not.

Since it's quite obvious she's not attracted, so it's obvious u can't suicide by confessing. It achieves nothing. It throws u deeper into frenzone instead.

In this case, u need a spark. A catalyst. A well planned date with good external factors. Eg, I used to choose a place with park nearby. Why? After dinner can walk along the park, sit on the bench, talk about stuffs for hours. That's where affection builds up (something we don't do with normal friend). Small playful flirtatious acts like feeding her, grab her hands when car incoming, brush leaves off her hair, etc helps. Of all, being charismatic and humorous.

After the date, don't automatically assume she likes and reciprocates u (common guy mistake) and start suffocating her with attention. One step a time. The journey of getting into her pants is not as simple as how guy think when asking women for hookups, unless u lim gotong son


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