QUOTE(Ukeke @ Aug 5 2019, 08:53 AM)
We chatted, I did not reply her text. She doesn't give a fuck. I ignore her she also ignore me. I mingled with some other girls. She felt glad for me. But I never buy her gifts. I make my life very very mysterious, she never have the interest to know more.
sounds like how we normally talk to our normal girl friends. Like we don't give a f whether reply or not.
Since it's quite obvious she's not attracted, so it's obvious u can't suicide by confessing. It achieves nothing. It throws u deeper into frenzone instead.
In this case, u need a spark. A catalyst. A well planned date with good external factors. Eg, I used to choose a place with park nearby. Why? After dinner can walk along the park, sit on the bench, talk about stuffs for hours. That's where affection builds up (something we don't do with normal friend). Small playful flirtatious acts like feeding her, grab her hands when car incoming, brush leaves off her hair, etc helps. Of all, being charismatic and humorous.
After the date, don't automatically assume she likes and reciprocates u (common guy mistake) and start suffocating her with attention. One step a time. The journey of getting into her pants is not as simple as how guy think when asking women for hookups, unless u lim gotong son