Gay is genetic disorder. It is called Gay Spectrum Disorder (GSD).

Mild Gay - a person who like to look at same sex but does not want to have sex with them. Only admiring.
Medium Gay - also known as Bisexual. Mostly already married with different sex but also have same sex outside marriage. We can see this in the news where a married guy caught with having sex with another guy. Also some are gay and then go back to straight. This are just Bisexual.
Severe Gay - only into having sex with same sex

Autism Spectrum Disorder is genetic. Gay Spectrum Disorder also genetic disorder. There's no cure but therapy can be done only to suppress but it will definitely still there.

Medium gay are known to spread gay Gene. It is better for any gay or mid gay not to married so that gay Gene can be stopped from spreading

In the current news we have both brothers gay and pondan. This has proven gay is due to genetic.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sexuality_spectrum

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

Not to that extend. Your gay gene will be diluted with your wife one or might not be transferred.
Possible. Mild gay.
Disorder but high functioning does not need special rights.
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