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TSNoobmaster.69
post Jun 18 2019, 02:38 AM, updated 5y ago

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Am i stupid that i am still waiting for someone who doesnt love me? my life goes on but there is a part in me that doesnt move but still waiting.
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post Jun 18 2019, 07:57 AM

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Yes, it is stupid to wait but well you are human. Unless if you dont like that person much or at all then you wont feel like waiting.

With time (god knows how long) eventually you will let go and move on, maybe

And it is the better thing to do really - for you and for her
veron4best
post Jun 18 2019, 10:29 AM

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QUOTE(Noobmaster.69 @ Jun 18 2019, 02:38 AM)
Am i stupid that i am still waiting for someone who doesnt love me? my life goes on but there is a part in me that doesnt move but still waiting.
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it may sound stupid, but in fact it isnt. thats what love is.

there is a hole in ur heart that u only wanted "he/she" to fill the emptiness. the only way to solve it u find someone to fill that empty space and move on. time will tell the difference.


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post Jun 18 2019, 12:16 PM

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Without any information on whether she's your good friend, or a close colleague or someone you hang out frequently with, my answer would be a god damn yes, STUPID. For all we know, you have an infatuation on someone who don't even know you.
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post Jun 18 2019, 03:27 PM

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It’s just stupid to wait for someone who doesn’t even care/love even worse doesn’t know you existed. You will find the right one as you move on in life and that girl would be worth to invest your time with. Goodluck
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post Jun 18 2019, 03:30 PM

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Be logical, while you are here waiting, that person could be having the time of his/her life and feeling happy and blissful with someone he/she love. Why torture yourself?
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post Jun 18 2019, 05:21 PM

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Yes is stupid, because you love someone too much and you thought that person is unreplaceable in your heart.

While waiting you should also open your heart for other to enter. When the right person appear in your life, you will stop waiting.
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post Jun 19 2019, 11:52 AM

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its just a matter of time before the void within you are replaced by someone/something else.
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post Jun 19 2019, 05:05 PM

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TS while you are waiting

the other person already happy go lucky progressing far far away from you

Stop waiting for someone who doesn't care about you


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post Jun 19 2019, 05:11 PM

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Can't blame TS. Well, I have been in that position before... but time will heal....
well, ur will never be fully cured but ur just got to move on....
mafioso
post Jun 20 2019, 05:18 PM

 
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know how you feel

waited for someone for 6 years

and you know what i realized?

if she doesnt like you, means she doesnt like you

eventually after 6 years of waiting for this girl (got date others in between as sometimes i do feel like giving up.. but end up still stupidly fall back for her)

i finally gave up after 6 years.. gave myself about a year++ before i go out and meet others and find again.

guess what, i finally found a girl who likes me back. and now we're together.

so my advise to you is, just continue your journey to go out with others girls if the girl you're currently seeing does not like you back

because in reality, there is no such thing as "RIGHT PERSON AT THE RIGHT TIME"

if she likes you then she likes you.

This post has been edited by mafioso: Jun 20 2019, 05:21 PM
soulz69
post Jun 23 2019, 12:08 AM

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it depends.
but waiting without trying is no no.
fat_fai
post Jun 23 2019, 11:45 PM

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move on..
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post Jun 24 2019, 09:56 AM

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Well, I would think a fair number of people have done "stupid" things for love. It's more about what we can do to prevent harm or losses to ourselves.
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post Jun 30 2019, 10:31 AM

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Find other girl
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post Jul 1 2019, 01:17 PM

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QUOTE(mafioso @ Jun 20 2019, 05:18 PM)
know how you feel

waited for someone for 6 years

and you know what i realized?

if she doesnt like you, means she doesnt like you

eventually after 6 years of waiting for this girl (got date others in between as sometimes i do feel like giving up.. but end up still stupidly fall back for her)

i finally gave up after 6 years.. gave myself about a year++ before i go out and meet others and find again.

guess what, i finally found a girl who likes me back. and now we're together.

so my advise to you is, just continue your journey to go out with others girls if the girl you're currently seeing does not like you back

because in reality, there is no such thing as "RIGHT PERSON AT THE RIGHT TIME"

if she likes you then she likes you.
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Wow, it's amazed me that someone had the same story as me. I also wait her for about 6 years while living in miserably. Now i gotta admitted that move on is the best answer.

The thing is, she is living with her life at de best possible and i'm not. So i had to move on, now i will get married later this year.

So to TS, u need to do the same.

SUSPitiuran
post Jul 3 2019, 01:14 PM

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Yes

You suffer in agony in wait

while she joy joy with another man and forgotten you ever existed
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post Jul 3 2019, 01:15 PM

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QUOTE(soulz69 @ Jun 23 2019, 12:08 AM)
it depends.
but waiting without trying is no no.
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but sometime you want to move on

after many years also cannot find a gf.

so how?

is that consider moving on?
veron4best
post Jul 5 2019, 09:53 PM

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QUOTE(Pitiuran @ Jul 3 2019, 01:15 PM)
but sometime you want to move on

after many years also cannot find a gf.

so how?

is that consider moving on?
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that's not move on.
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post Jul 6 2019, 03:23 PM

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QUOTE(Noobmaster.69 @ Jun 18 2019, 02:38 AM)
Am i stupid that i am still waiting for someone who doesnt love me? my life goes on but there is a part in me that doesnt move but still waiting.
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I hate to be the person to tell you this but I believe that the other party have already move on and you should too. It’s no point harping after lost love as it is not being reciprocated.

Move on with your life. Forget everything about this person and instead go traveling to clear your mind.

I was once also in the same situation as you were. Took me years to forget her. But when I finally did, it was liberating.

 

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