QUOTE(yhtan @ Jun 4 2019, 03:50 PM)
For sure got naughty naughty outside, but didn't overnight at somewhere else

You would be surprised. There are some unbelievable outliers out there. So unbelievable that I had to see it before my very eyes in order to conclude: yup, that bloody outlier actually does exist!
In 2012, I was in Dalian, China to do some business opportunities research. The person entertaining my party was one of Dalian's richest men (his name and company elude me... I was too freaking small timer to get his card and details, and I was a minion bringing up the rear of the entourage anyway). That guy was involved in a lot of property development and several factories; he was building entire townships on the outskirts of Dalian.
He was the one and only Chinese businessman I have ever met that does not have a single one of the following vices, and I seriously mean not ONE of the following vices:
1) He does not smoke.
2) He does not drink.
3) He does not womanize.
4) He does not gamble.
Like literally. He was a complete tee-totaler. He brought my ex-boss' entourage out for dinner at a banquet restaurant after our tour of his township developments. We were accompanied by some of the Commie officials from Dalian (tax bureau, Public Security Bureau, etc.).
Almost everyone at the table was chugging down shots of RMB50,000 mao tai or smoking expensive packs of cigarettes by the pack! I never saw this man touch a single cigarette, and we were clearly warned beforehand not to toast him because he absolutely refuses to drink, and can tell off top city Commie officials for that too.
He was also the only "boss" who did not show off an "accompanying wife" or gave us an offer for "further entertainment" in all the China taukes / taikors that I have met.
I remember one of my bodoh ex-seniors trying to toast him with the expensive maotai. He answered my colleague's toast with Chinese tea, LOL!!! Refused to take the maotai or the beer proffered to him.
This is the guy who gave me the inspiration and the courage to quit this kind of business and work. I saw how much damage all these kind of "entertainment" and substances were inflicting onto my ex-boss and ex-colleagues.... (none of them were healthy at all!!!) and told myself: "OK, I've had enough of this... I'm getting out before I kill some organ in my own body as well." Also gave me the guts to finally stand on my principles and look people right in the eye and tell them: "Sorry, I don't drink alcohol." Before that, I used to be brainwashed that if I want to do business, I must drink and drink a lot too in order to entertain, and I hated that very much. Thankfully now I am doing stuff that does not require me to engage in all those activities, LOL!
So even among the list of tycoons or billionaires, you would find the odd cuckoo here and there who does not care about women or pleasures of the flesh