May 25 2019, 09:13 AM
QUOTE(manix5 @ May 23 2019, 03:45 PM)
been there TS , and successful bought her back .
after 1st kid , My Wife lost interest in sex , well because of newborn. i didn't bother and gave a good 1 year. during this mostly monthly once , ( note : before 1st kid , we was active in sex for 7 years. )
after i talk to her about my feeling for sex and that i'm not satisfied with only quickly and monthly event, she had alot of reason , mostly tired of work and kids.it is reasonable from my point of view also. i personally do feel sex must be involved with feeling for both and love . if both feel like that , tiredness won't be a reason.
2 more years pass and dropped beautiful daughter for 2nd, clearly talking about this to her just make her go " ok la come we do sex " ...
as u said , it's all my work while she 
so i google this shit out , how to turn the table . what i find is, something so basic and almost 90% people suggest yet most won't even do, is what bring the changes .
all i did is :
- help her on house chores ( i already share the chores , this is extra when she tired or surprise her doing something she hates)
- compliment her for the right things
- as usual , talk more , listen more, get interest and ask about something she share
- take leave on random day and go out , book a hotel on weekend and stay a night out
- avoid send flower to office , buy and give her when fetch or at home.
- massage her legs ( without end up in sex ) , touch her when u cross by.
this all feel might feel like silly young couple things BUT
it only took 2 week , i can see all the changes and she start to ask why all the sudden i do this all .
i just explain that i want to have more passionate relationship ( aka sex for my understanding
) and feel more loved.
she felt she was unfair to me and after all this years i still seek her love more than ever
from that day , everything changed , more sex , at least 2 times per week . we accidentally had 3rd baby because she was too aggressive and i failed to control
now 3 kids , sex life active , we go out , she take care her body , she also bring new ideas for sex .
that is how my table turned and hope it helps . when we was couple before marriage , this is how we used to be. because of kids , marriage responsibility , work and 2 set of parents , things changed her. i realize she doesn't need 6 pack from me , just more attention and helping hand. in the end i get what i want
I do the same too, fetch her from work, hang the laundry, iron my own clothes etc. Also I make it a point to tell her early morning that tonight we will have ‘some’ and it works. We average do it 2-3 times per week and we’ve been married 11 years with 2 kids 😉after 1st kid , My Wife lost interest in sex , well because of newborn. i didn't bother and gave a good 1 year. during this mostly monthly once , ( note : before 1st kid , we was active in sex for 7 years. )
after i talk to her about my feeling for sex and that i'm not satisfied with only quickly and monthly event, she had alot of reason , mostly tired of work and kids.it is reasonable from my point of view also. i personally do feel sex must be involved with feeling for both and love . if both feel like that , tiredness won't be a reason.
2 more years pass and dropped beautiful daughter for 2nd, clearly talking about this to her just make her go " ok la come we do sex " ...
as u said , it's all my work while she so i google this shit out , how to turn the table . what i find is, something so basic and almost 90% people suggest yet most won't even do, is what bring the changes .
all i did is :
- help her on house chores ( i already share the chores , this is extra when she tired or surprise her doing something she hates)
- compliment her for the right things
- as usual , talk more , listen more, get interest and ask about something she share
- take leave on random day and go out , book a hotel on weekend and stay a night out
- avoid send flower to office , buy and give her when fetch or at home.
- massage her legs ( without end up in sex ) , touch her when u cross by.
this all feel might feel like silly young couple things BUT
it only took 2 week , i can see all the changes and she start to ask why all the sudden i do this all .
i just explain that i want to have more passionate relationship ( aka sex for my understanding
) and feel more loved. she felt she was unfair to me and after all this years i still seek her love more than ever
from that day , everything changed , more sex , at least 2 times per week . we accidentally had 3rd baby because she was too aggressive and i failed to control
now 3 kids , sex life active , we go out , she take care her body , she also bring new ideas for sex .
that is how my table turned and hope it helps . when we was couple before marriage , this is how we used to be. because of kids , marriage responsibility , work and 2 set of parents , things changed her. i realize she doesn't need 6 pack from me , just more attention and helping hand. in the end i get what i want
It’s all bout giving some and take some
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