QUOTE(fearless_kiki @ Apr 29 2019, 07:44 PM)
"guy's best interest" is already a very bias view. Shouldn't it be finding an answer that both sides can compromise and accept?
Everyone knows lyn forum members are majority guys. So it is not easy to get a female response, let alone a good one. I think it's important to have views of both gender in order to have an objective view. One need to consider both sides of the coin (pov) before having a conclusion. Ignoring one side will give a bias answer.
Personally, I enjoy cc980024 (who is a mom) replies. There are other females too but I can't remember or they post too little too have a big impact. But yeah, there are good females advices.
And to further answer this topic, sometimes a broken hearted person is easy to get into a new relationship because of things other than true love (needing to be loved or care for) and when the person wakes up, it will be a different story.
Everyone knows lyn forum members are majority guys. So it is not easy to get a female response, let alone a good one. I think it's important to have views of both gender in order to have an objective view. One need to consider both sides of the coin (pov) before having a conclusion. Ignoring one side will give a bias answer.
Personally, I enjoy cc980024 (who is a mom) replies. There are other females too but I can't remember or they post too little too have a big impact. But yeah, there are good females advices.
And to further answer this topic, sometimes a broken hearted person is easy to get into a new relationship because of things other than true love (needing to be loved or care for) and when the person wakes up, it will be a different story.
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guy's best interest" is already a very bias view. Shouldn't it be finding an answer that both sides can compromise and accept?
guy's best interest" is already a very bias view. Shouldn't it be finding an answer that both sides can compromise and accept?
Not during the dating stage.
Women always give advices like:-
"Always be there for her, wait for her, pamper her, be her shoulder to cry on bla bla bla " which is of course doesn't work and the advises obviously are in the girls best interest.
In this case the guy is investing 100% and the girl's investment is at 1% and that is what you females constantly advice guys to do. All these advice are to women's best interest.
or perhaps
"if you love her, you will just be nice to her without expecting anything"
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Personally, I enjoy cc980024 (who is a mom) replies.
Of course you enjoy cc980024 replies because it is to the womens best interest. LOL
Something for you to ponder, just use your logic for a moment.
Players,playboys who do not listen to women's advises are successful with girls, but the guys who listened to female advises are not (and hence they come to this forum looking for female opinion). Surely if women are more accurate, then the guys who listen to female advice would be more successful right? But that is not the case. Why?
This post has been edited by Drian: Apr 29 2019, 08:26 PM