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Xzqt
post Apr 21 2019, 08:26 PM

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QUOTE(cc980024 @ Apr 5 2019, 11:05 AM)
Yes, but this word only can come out from the willing girl yah. BF have no say. If she not willing to pay, and the bf say is normal gf share, so pls pay. It either she bye bye the bf or the bf leave if the girl die die don't pay.
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Should be done before become bf gf. Better to filter earlier than be discontented later on. If bye bye then its a good thing also.
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post Apr 22 2019, 12:01 AM

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my advice..perhaps should take turns.
This date you treat next date on hers
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post Apr 22 2019, 04:45 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Apr 21 2019, 04:26 PM)
Kinda agree.

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post Apr 22 2019, 08:11 AM

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QUOTE(Quazacolt @ Apr 22 2019, 04:45 AM)
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cc980024
post Apr 22 2019, 10:03 AM

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QUOTE(Xzqt @ Apr 21 2019, 08:26 PM)
Should be done before become bf gf. Better to filter earlier than be discontented later on. If bye bye then its a good thing also.
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Before become gf bf, hardly filter. As many girls only willing to spend on bf, not on normal friends.

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post Apr 22 2019, 04:51 PM

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What my girlfriend and I do are:
1. We have a couple wallet, which we contribute equally certain amount of money for each month. Everytime we go out for dates, we use the money from the couple wallet for the spending (mostly meals and movies). If the money in the couple wallet finishes off before month end, I will pay for the spending till we top up the wallet again in the begining of next month.

2. We also open a separate bank saving account for our couple saving. Same thing, each month we contribute equally certain amount of money into the bank account. We will use the money for travelling, or if one of us need emergency money.
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post Apr 22 2019, 07:59 PM

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QUOTE(xDingx @ Apr 22 2019, 04:51 PM)
What my girlfriend and I do are:
1. We have a couple wallet, which we contribute equally certain amount of money for each month. Everytime we go out for dates, we use the money from the couple wallet for the spending (mostly meals and movies). If the money in the couple wallet finishes off before month end, I will pay for the spending till we top up the wallet again in the begining of next month.

2. We also open a separate bank saving account for our couple saving. Same thing, each month we contribute equally certain amount of money into the bank account. We will use the money for travelling, or if one of us need emergency money.
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Sounds sweet but awkward if the guy and girl are not really close and casually dating.
Problem also surfaces when break up and need to close the account.
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post Apr 22 2019, 09:02 PM

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QUOTE(Yggdrasil @ Apr 22 2019, 07:59 PM)
Sounds sweet but awkward if the guy and girl are not really close and casually dating.
Problem also surfaces when break up and need to close the account.
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Ya.. this method only works if the couple is committed to a serious relationship..

If break up.. I already expected the girl will take all the money in the saving, but I trust my girlfriend will give me back my portion if break up *touchwood*
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post Apr 22 2019, 09:43 PM

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QUOTE(xDingx @ Apr 22 2019, 09:02 PM)
Ya.. this method only works if the couple is committed to a serious relationship..

If break up.. I already expected the girl will take all the money in the saving, but I trust my girlfriend will give me back my portion if break up *touchwood*
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