QUOTE(virtualgay @ Jun 24 2025, 03:38 PM)
even for my age i still dont know how to use money
dont know is a big word so let me go into detail
1. should i change my car since it is so old and lack of the safety feature yet my old car still usable and hardly give me any problem so until now i never change my car
2. should i renovate my house toilet so it is wheel chair accessible but i am still no on wheel chair and should i continue to wait
3. should i book a Europe trip for my family instead of just travelling within Asia but i yet to explore all of Asia
just 3 simple example saja.. there are more
see i keep finding excuse for myself not to spend money or spend less money
nobody can help me
I think you focused too much about the thing itself like everyone else, just diff spectrum.
its all about what you want then.
1. do you like your car, do you keep complaining your car? for me, of course its good to drive the latest car but i have yet to achieve my retirement numbers, it give me more peace to know i'm working on my future than driving the latest car? safety? there is alway such argument and always a safer car, until what point you need to stop thinking? when you get a tank? for me, safety is more about myself and my driving, everything else is good to have.
2. its not much money, so depends on your feel, mau do now, or later?
3. depends on what you mau and your family. i told my wife, i have no aspiration in life to travel to europe. got then got, no then no. I rather go to thailand.
so...think about what you want, life is simple.
no need do becoz everyone is doing the same thing.
like people told me, with my salary, i could get a what what what car, better, more stylish, more "safe".
i was like bro, you might be happy while you are driving this this car.
but i'm like i'm happy even when i sleep, knowing i can afford the car with cash if i want to.
and i still look back and smile at my 14 years old puny city after all these years.
This post has been edited by cempedaklife: Jun 25 2025, 10:54 AM