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 The most unnecessary thing in marriage preparation, is?

The most unnecessary and wasteful thing in marriage preparation is?
 
Prewedding photoshoot [ 40 ] ** [16.88%]
Gowns and suits rental (can get from taobao) [ 5 ] ** [2.11%]
Grand Banquet in hotel [ 68 ] ** [28.69%]
Decorations [ 10 ] ** [4.22%]
Live band [ 52 ] ** [21.94%]
Videographer [ 10 ] ** [4.22%]
Overseas honeymoon [ 13 ] ** [5.49%]
Dowry [ 32 ] ** [13.50%]
Others [ 7 ] ** [2.95%]
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brutalsoul
post Feb 22 2019, 05:41 PM

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post Feb 22 2019, 05:44 PM

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I feel Decoration.

Waste so much, but at the end just tear and throw away.
at least live band i can enjoy the song
danieln
post Feb 22 2019, 05:45 PM

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post Feb 22 2019, 06:56 PM

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QUOTE(TiF @ Feb 22 2019, 03:38 PM)
oh ya, more stupid thing to waste money on.

I married twice. My first marriage, I burn through my saving, maxed out my credit cards, took a personal loan just so my 'future wife' will be happy, thinking we share a very 'special moment' to remember for life. ptui! thinking back, the whole thing is a fucking waste of time, waste of money, wasting my money to do things to impress ppl that i dont even know, and nobody even talk about it the next day, everybody moved on from this grand wedding. those photo and video? we kept inside a drawer collecting dust, nobody bother to view the photo or video. seriously, nobody really care that you get married except for that 1 day. you spent whole year planning for 1 grand day for what?

the photo/video, who havent view wedding photo before? who havent view another wedding video before. it is just the similar feel, familiar pose. NOBODY fucking care. oh, you took these photo in Korea? my so-so and so friend/relative also took in Korea, bla bla. what so special?

the dinner, most ppl just come to eat, drink then go home sleep. most ppl dont fucking care if you have live band, if you playing your cutesy powerpoint/video showing how adorable you are when you're young or how you met, ppl pay more attention to food and drink.

somemore becoz im chinese, and chinese wedding has some really retarded tradition - play with bridemaids, or play BY bridemaids. seeing my childhood friends got played like idiots really made my blood boiled, they took it for me, they calm me down, but fuck, i almost throw a punch at one of the 'ji mui' fucking ugly face.
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Finally the fact spoken like a real man.
Ultimate stupidity is the games imposed by the bridesmaids - stupid culture macam mat rempit culture, don't know which idiot started this trend, and the rests just more idiot follower.
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post Feb 22 2019, 10:04 PM

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QUOTE(Coup De Grace @ Feb 22 2019, 05:25 PM)
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post Feb 22 2019, 11:16 PM

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QUOTE(adeline84 @ Feb 22 2019, 10:04 PM)
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post Feb 22 2019, 11:19 PM

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QUOTE(Fringern @ Feb 22 2019, 01:40 PM)
Live band. Might as well I play CD via JBL speakers.
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Yep.. especially when the live band sucks so bad. Honest review from >50% of live events.
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post Feb 22 2019, 11:20 PM

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"Others" as in other people.
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post Feb 22 2019, 11:22 PM

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Invitation card

Now can just whatsapp or fb
azbro
post Feb 22 2019, 11:24 PM

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post Feb 22 2019, 11:35 PM

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bridemaids

more kuda than pengantin
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post Feb 23 2019, 07:53 AM

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QUOTE(danieln @ Feb 22 2019, 05:45 PM)
paip until pregnant, everything can come in discounted price tongue.gif
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Inb4 no money don't simply breed.
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post Feb 23 2019, 07:55 AM

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QUOTE(danieln @ Feb 22 2019, 05:45 PM)
paip until pregnant, everything can come in discounted price tongue.gif
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Had an acquaintance who had a wedding dinner when pregnant with second one already. First child already two.
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post Feb 23 2019, 07:59 AM

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Live Band.. Hiring a bunch of wannabe to sing some songs that everybody already heard hundred of times, might as well save the 3-5k to bring your spouse overseas to watch concerts of their favorite artists..
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post Feb 23 2019, 08:07 AM

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QUOTE(buraqdunia @ Feb 22 2019, 01:41 PM)
all the above.
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post Feb 23 2019, 08:08 AM

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All of the above
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post Feb 23 2019, 08:13 AM

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All elements necessary for a happy wedding.
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post Feb 23 2019, 08:15 AM

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Alot of unnecessary stuffs in ur list...

But I have to vote for live band coz it's really super unnecessary..
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post Feb 23 2019, 08:30 AM

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Most are necessary...

I vote for oversea honeymoon.... Save it for a good one another time..

It all depends how big are the families of both sides, their status... Some have big companies... Need to invite staff and certain customers..

If cannot afford, just make it as simple as you want.

If can afford, can have everything... And not collecting angpows.... All your guests will be very happy... 😘👍

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post Feb 23 2019, 08:41 AM

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All of it

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