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 The most unnecessary thing in marriage preparation, is?

The most unnecessary and wasteful thing in marriage preparation is?
 
Prewedding photoshoot [ 40 ] ** [16.88%]
Gowns and suits rental (can get from taobao) [ 5 ] ** [2.11%]
Grand Banquet in hotel [ 68 ] ** [28.69%]
Decorations [ 10 ] ** [4.22%]
Live band [ 52 ] ** [21.94%]
Videographer [ 10 ] ** [4.22%]
Overseas honeymoon [ 13 ] ** [5.49%]
Dowry [ 32 ] ** [13.50%]
Others [ 7 ] ** [2.95%]
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myasiahobby
post Feb 22 2019, 01:58 PM

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all the above. once you register you already husband and wife in the name of law
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post Feb 22 2019, 02:02 PM

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Videographer. Still images good enough already. Keep in album.


My wedding video, nobody watch till now. And i don't even know where we kept it.
skinny-dipper
post Feb 22 2019, 02:04 PM

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Live band
Videographer
Overseas honeymoon

this 3 can keep la, video for memory ma
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post Feb 22 2019, 02:06 PM

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Having a baby.
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post Feb 22 2019, 02:07 PM

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QUOTE(buraqdunia @ Feb 22 2019, 01:41 PM)
all the above.
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post Feb 22 2019, 02:10 PM

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Once I officiate a ROM of a chinese couples. After ROM, I ask any event after ROM. They simply reply,

"Aiyahh, no lah. No need. This ROM is enough"

Such a wonderful couple.

This post has been edited by frossonice: Feb 22 2019, 02:11 PM
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post Feb 22 2019, 02:20 PM

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all was needed for my wedding though...

so couldnt find anything unnecessay in your list
hanii
post Feb 22 2019, 02:21 PM

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Everything you listed and bridesmaid groomsmen thing.

Also food. An average Malay wedding orders at least 1000pax for catering. Like, you sure that many people will come? Membazir amalan syaitan, tahu tak?
Roman Catholic
post Feb 22 2019, 02:24 PM

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QUOTE(Rusty Nail @ Feb 22 2019, 01:47 PM)
don't need live band
have karaoke stand enough liao
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This I cannot tahan man. When Ali, Chong, Muthu, Mas, Ah Mei, Rani dll. do their thing especially the non-professionals is the worst man. Limpeh real torture.

Good thing no cheap and cheap thing no good, really man.
TAZIO.N
post Feb 22 2019, 02:24 PM

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Depends on how deep is your pocket...
Zoopdiidoo
post Feb 22 2019, 02:27 PM

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all no need to do..just register and go Europe for overseas honeymoon
hiro2016
post Feb 22 2019, 02:29 PM

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QUOTE(acbc @ Feb 22 2019, 01:45 PM)
Why can't have a simple garden wedding?

Why always need to show off to relatives and friends?

Most of my friends rented expensive cars for photos and ceremony.

Parents need to change their mindset.
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garden wedding is no cheap.. depending on your budget.. haha
acbc
post Feb 22 2019, 02:30 PM

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Years ago, a friend married his colleague from Japan. She only wanted a simple tea ceremony. His parents unhappy at first but he told them off.

They eventually had a traditional Japanese ceremony in Japan together with his parents. After a while, their mindset changed for the better and no more showing off what u don't have to relatives.
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post Feb 22 2019, 02:32 PM

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QUOTE(hiro2016 @ Feb 22 2019, 02:29 PM)
garden wedding is no cheap.. depending on your budget.. haha
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More lively than restaurant or hotel ceremonies. However, only certain venues due to harsh climate.
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post Feb 22 2019, 02:32 PM

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Wedding photo is forever, take them. But not too expensive

Ditto gowns and suits, decor

Don't need grand banquet but usually this is paid by guests and family

Live band only if you can get cheap cheap, otherwise canned music is great

Videographer most unnecessary, charge heaven and earth for editing crap video

Honeymoon overseas depends on destination
Rusty Nail
post Feb 22 2019, 02:35 PM

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QUOTE(Roman Catholic @ Feb 22 2019, 02:24 PM)
This I cannot tahan man. When Ali, Chong, Muthu, Mas, Ah Mei, Rani dll. do their thing especially the non-professionals is the worst man. Limpeh real torture.

Good thing no cheap and cheap thing no good, really man.
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At relatives got something to talk about laugh.gif
annoymous1234
post Feb 22 2019, 02:37 PM

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Good luck convincing your parents in law that u don't want to have any of the above
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post Feb 22 2019, 02:38 PM

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QUOTE(annoymous1234 @ Feb 22 2019, 02:37 PM)
Good luck convincing your parents in law that u don't want to have any of the above
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post Feb 22 2019, 02:39 PM

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Too bad human face is very important

This kind of restaurant banquet your guests won't have filling stomach. Plus, expensive like shit.

Better rent a banglo with pool, make buffet style dishes (chinese, western). If your guests drunk, can rest inside.

Restaurant dinner is cheap. Why one table RM2k is the lantiao rental for space.

Projector, power point slides, lighting all can DIY.

People like to sit, stand and walk around than just sitting.

Also, some people smokes. Easier for them

And, what for hire emcee? Big mistake

backdrop decoration, emcee, live band, banquet area and etc. you do the math.


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post Feb 22 2019, 02:41 PM

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QUOTE(Fringern @ Feb 22 2019, 01:40 PM)
Live band. Might as well I play CD via JBL speakers.
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