I wish a sexy lady can discipline me.

I don't enjoy if I'm the victim 
'kena rotan' does not make me horny 

swinging shall not be confused for orgy...

Yeah.. Do prepare. Don't suddenly surprised your partner with any form of unconventional sex. Not many person likes something kinky. Some of them just become kayu and let you do all the job.

Try putting some haagen daz at your own "adik" and ask your partner to lick it. Top up more if needed.
Tried once, addicted to it twice.

I like black, strappy leather... I particularly like strapping black leather to a guy to the bed.... and doing some delicious thing with feathers, whip, ice cubes, *beep* and *beep* that torments the guy to kingdom come...

hmmm.. but only in my dreams and my romance novel.. haha....

lol.. admitting my dominatrix strike here... but its interesting how the concept of human sexuality came... I don't particularly mind kinky, it was a very interesting topic of psychology discussion anyway.

some advice.. Guys who are interested in kinky stuff with the girl... just send the girls some novels from Ellora's cave... maybe they'll be easier to nudge into the slight idea itself.

ahaha... i'm an aspiring ero-romance writer now, trying to get an editor but man... people are so close-minded... I used to write vampire romance novels in my high school day but somehow I've stumbled into another set of genre. lol... even normal romance are smut in some ways... it take curiosity and a very very imaginative mind....    knowledge is dangerous anyway...

ahem... actually, there's a lot who like kinky or the idea of sex in some uncommon ways, even in US, unconventional sex is always a taboo but as long as practice safe sex and have some moral limits, its ok.

The big picture is... As long as you don't discriminate or judging before thinking, its ok to question people's preferences and review your own. I don't force people to accept the idea anyway. I do have some problem with girls when talking about sex (yes... girls do talk about sex, guys.)  and I don't actually burst out that I like torturing people for pleasure...  can I? Plus, sexual preference are not gender bias. In the end, it depends on what you like. I talk as I like anyway, it doesn't begs any difference. I am a girl and ok with kinky. hmmm... definitely not a big deal. (but it does intimidate some of guys.. lol.. I know...) And this IS a GIRLs section... duh...

my partner like to have xxx with me while im wearing formal/office wear... is tat kinky sex as well? 

but i like it too... 

I'm not mad.. don't worry.

all of us are self-conscious about these kind of thing. Accepting new things is a part that matures you in the end. Sexual knowledge are still a taboo in our society.

Girls are naturally sexually denial. Like the case where one of my friend, proclaim she will marry but not have sex because someone told her sex is painful.  sometimes anyway... even in our country, female orgasm are still unknown even among married woman. Its a true stats anyway.

Although normally, I don't really refer bondage play as kinky.  kinky is a milder form, you know.