Hi everyone,

Sorry about the midnight rant..
Me and my gf are 25 years old and right now are close to 8 years relationship.. On January, she went to do colonoscopy and found out she was diagnosed with colorectal cancer stage 2 and it’s 3-4 CM from the rectum..

Upon done MRI scan and CT scan, luckily it has not spread to lungs and cervix areas.. Doctor recommend she to do a chemotherapy for 2 months then follow on with surgery.

She will do doing chemo after CNY.. But here’s the risk, possible after chemo, she might not be able to pregnant again in the future as it might destroy the cells in the ovary areas.. Doctor do suggest her to freeze the egg but she is scare to do it.. i am not pressureing her to do it.

If she did freeze the egg and still can’t get pregnant in the future so be it.. I am okay with that.. but again, this is not the current priority as treating the colorectal cancer is the main priority now.. I am confuse now.

Possible any one in the forum has similar situation that can give advice on? Any recommended fertility center in Klang Valley and does it pain? Or should I just ask her to skip the freeze egg part and just focus on chemo first? I am confuse...

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This post has been edited by altism: Jan 25 2019, 04:26 PM

I would personally recommend @ https://www.facebook.com/pg/azaleamaternity/about/

Good luck.