QUOTE(wheelcartcathy @ Dec 18 2018, 09:22 AM)
Girl, block and ignore him. And don't buy into his shit of "let's be friends" stuffs. You need a break.The case of the ex-bf
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Dec 18 2018, 11:20 AM
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Dec 18 2018, 02:00 PM
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QUOTE(laith @ Dec 18 2018, 11:56 AM) that's defeating the purpose means TS has to inconvenient herself just for ex bf sakeAlso its for TS own self esteem restoration by cutting off from ex bf please cut off your FB from ex bf, make sure it stop transmitting all his progress on fb. |
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Dec 18 2018, 09:50 PM
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QUOTE(hanii @ Dec 18 2018, 11:20 AM) Girl, block and ignore him. And don't buy into his shit of "let's be friends" stuffs. You need a break. Ya, am trying very hard to not give in to him being sweetQUOTE(pandera999 @ Dec 18 2018, 09:27 AM) sweet talker... no wonder... nuff said... feel like, u might end up hurt ur ownself by uncertainty signal and hope that he gave... Sweet talker and also knows how be sweet to me. My car battery died once and he came all the way to help me change my battery. Then another time I was about to look around for a plumber to fix my clogged sink and he insisted that I shouldn't waste my money on calling a plumber when he can fix it up for me. And no, he didnt ask for any sexual favours in return... |
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Dec 18 2018, 10:18 PM
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QUOTE(wheelcartcathy @ Dec 18 2018, 09:50 PM) Ya, am trying very hard to not give in to him being sweet Hi there, single and ready to mingle?Sweet talker and also knows how be sweet to me. My car battery died once and he came all the way to help me change my battery. Then another time I was about to look around for a plumber to fix my clogged sink and he insisted that I shouldn't waste my money on calling a plumber when he can fix it up for me. And no, he didnt ask for any sexual favours in return... |
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Dec 19 2018, 01:04 AM
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QUOTE(wheelcartcathy @ Dec 18 2018, 09:50 PM) Ya, am trying very hard to not give in to him being sweet Does it sound right to you when he got a gf but still being sweet to you? Does his gf knows about this?Sweet talker and also knows how be sweet to me. My car battery died once and he came all the way to help me change my battery. Then another time I was about to look around for a plumber to fix my clogged sink and he insisted that I shouldn't waste my money on calling a plumber when he can fix it up for me. And no, he didnt ask for any sexual favours in return... Maybe he doesn’t ask for anything in return but you could be his plan B or a “long term investment”? He knows exactly where is your weakness. Let me ask you this question. Before you broke up with him and you found out that he is being sweet to other girl. How would you feel? Is this that kind of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with? |
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Dec 19 2018, 01:30 PM
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don't crawl back to the mess that you had previously crawl out.. whatever the reason that made both of you break up also mean both of you won't want to get back into the relationship.
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Dec 19 2018, 03:08 PM
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Dec 20 2018, 01:05 AM
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QUOTE(wheelcartcathy @ Dec 17 2018, 10:55 AM) my ex-bf has already found a new gf but yet he still tries ways to keep in touch with me. He just makes small chit chat but he will try to make it a "double meaning" if there is a chance. When I ask for a simple meet-up then he comes up with a 1001 excuses to not meet up... "I'm tired" la... "I need to take my parents to the clinic for follow-up" la.... "My gf will kill me" la... Best if you just be upfront with him and tell him that what he's doing is bothering you. It sounds like he's just trying to keep you on the hook and it's very unfair for you.If he has no interest in me then why does he still tries so hard to keep in touch with me? I have already tried to ignore him, his messages but he keeps on trying. Maybe I am too soft by giving in to replying to his messages after 100 times but why is he doing this? |
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Dec 20 2018, 01:43 PM
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The question is
Are you still single? |
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Dec 20 2018, 06:39 PM
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QUOTE(wheelcartcathy @ Dec 17 2018, 11:55 AM) my ex-bf has already found a new gf but yet he still tries ways to keep in touch with me. He just makes small chit chat but he will try to make it a "double meaning" if there is a chance. When I ask for a simple meet-up then he comes up with a 1001 excuses to not meet up... "I'm tired" la... "I need to take my parents to the clinic for follow-up" la.... "My gf will kill me" la... No no no...the question is why haven't you blocked him off completely on ur phone & social media?If he has no interest in me then why does he still tries so hard to keep in touch with me? I have already tried to ignore him, his messages but he keeps on trying. Maybe I am too soft by giving in to replying to his messages after 100 times but why is he doing this? Therein lies the answer. |
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Dec 27 2018, 06:15 PM
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ex bf found gf why you still hoping on him? If he can do that with her? What makes you think he wont do the same with you.
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Jan 8 2019, 04:25 AM
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Of course he'd still like to keep in touch with you. After breaking up, you're immediately strangers? You shared fond memories together. Why would it be hard to still be friends?
You admit you still have feelings for him, albeit a little. It's okay. And he's not wrong mentioning what his gf would think. He's considerate of what she would be thinking. If you were with someone, wouldn't you want your other half to behave the same? Why does he need to behave like the creeps people see on TV? Just because he helps around doesn't mean he has intentions of taking advantage of you. You're lucky to have a friend who does it without asking anything in return. Just don't hope you will suddenly get back together with him. Reading the thread, he's vilified for being a good friend. We're not teenagers anymore. |
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Jan 10 2019, 02:31 PM
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QUOTE(wheelcartcathy @ Dec 17 2018, 10:55 AM) my ex-bf has already found a new gf but yet he still tries ways to keep in touch with me. He just makes small chit chat but he will try to make it a "double meaning" if there is a chance. When I ask for a simple meet-up then he comes up with a 1001 excuses to not meet up... "I'm tired" la... "I need to take my parents to the clinic for follow-up" la.... "My gf will kill me" la... Regardless of what his real intentions are, I think if you really want to get over him, you should just block him. There's no point of continuing or being soft-hearted when he has already moved on with another girl. He's not worth your time, and you deserve better.If he has no interest in me then why does he still tries so hard to keep in touch with me? I have already tried to ignore him, his messages but he keeps on trying. Maybe I am too soft by giving in to replying to his messages after 100 times but why is he doing this? |
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Jan 11 2019, 09:40 AM
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QUOTE(rauma @ Jan 8 2019, 04:25 AM) Of course he'd still like to keep in touch with you. After breaking up, you're immediately strangers? You shared fond memories together. Why would it be hard to still be friends? THISYou admit you still have feelings for him, albeit a little. It's okay. And he's not wrong mentioning what his gf would think. He's considerate of what she would be thinking. If you were with someone, wouldn't you want your other half to behave the same? Why does he need to behave like the creeps people see on TV? Just because he helps around doesn't mean he has intentions of taking advantage of you. You're lucky to have a friend who does it without asking anything in return. Just don't hope you will suddenly get back together with him. Reading the thread, he's vilified for being a good friend. We're not teenagers anymore. I read some replies, block this, block that. Come on...are you all still teenagers? |
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