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Do you support this practice?
 
1. Yes, continue as usual [ 41 ] ** [36.61%]
2. No, please ban it. [ 71 ] ** [63.39%]
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SUSEdBaaBaa
post Dec 9 2018, 08:29 PM, updated 8y ago

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As I've stated b4, I absolutely Hate n abhor the awful practice of setting up tents/gazebo on the road in front of one's house n blocking traffic for the house owner's private event.

Whatever the race involved, for whatever private event.

Please have your private event at a suitable venue instead of being a nuisance in your neighbourhood.

What reason could there possibly be to justify this practice?

I could hardly believe my eyes when I read one ktard say that the local councils can n will grant permits for this.

edit: to make it clear, I am against it whether or not there's a permit granted.

In fact, I think it should be totally illegal to do so.




This post has been edited by EdBaaBaa: Dec 9 2018, 08:36 PM
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:30 PM

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Get a hall or a room or anything


Just don't block the damn road
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:31 PM

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Just bloody inform politely or get consent from your neighbours or those you might be blocking before setting up. That is the best thing to avoid all this shit.
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:32 PM

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:29 PM)
As I've stated b4,  I absolutely Hate n abhor the awful practice of setting up tents/gazebo on the road in front of one's house n blocking traffic for the house owner's private event.

Whatever the race involved,  for whatever private event.

Please have your private event at a suitable venue instead of being a nuisance in your neighbourhood.

What reason could there possibly be to justify this practice?

I could hardly believe my eyes when I read one ktard say that the local councils can n will grant permits for this.
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If your neighbour came and apologised for the inconvenient, then just let it go.
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:32 PM

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If you vote to continue this "road blocking" nuisance, pls kindly state why you support it.

Basically, give me reasons to change my mind about it.


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post Dec 9 2018, 08:33 PM

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ada mulut bagitau jangan pasang khemah depan rumah jangan jadi macam isu taman medan dah la kikiki
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:34 PM

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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ Dec 9 2018, 08:32 PM)
If your neighbour came and apologised for the inconvenient, then just let it go.
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If he didn't do it in the first place, there wouldn't be any need to apologise.

Please, tell me why it's a good practice that should be continued.


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post Dec 9 2018, 08:34 PM

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Well, all races in my area do it, its just give and take.
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:34 PM

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mother father road?
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:34 PM)
If he didn't do it in the first place,  there wouldn't be any need to apologise.

Please, tell me why it's a good practice that should be continued.
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Oh well, I wouldn't say I hate it, nor love it. I just considered it a favour for my neighbour. It's just for 2-3 days at most even if it's a funeral.
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:38 PM


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I ask cement truck to pour cement into car that block path.
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:39 PM

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QUOTE(ZeroSOFInfinity @ Dec 9 2018, 08:31 PM)
Just bloody inform politely or get consent from your neighbours or those you might be blocking before setting up. That is the best thing to avoid all this shit.
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This tered is not about how to go abt "blocking roads for private events" without irritating your neighbours.

The question is : should it be allowed at all?


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post Dec 9 2018, 08:40 PM

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rumah end of the road

hang nak komplen apa?
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:42 PM

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:32 PM)
If you vote to continue this "road  blocking"  nuisance,  pls kindly state why you support it.

Basically,  give me reasons to change my mind about it.
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calm down first, I don't see the reason you need to suddenly have negative view on something that already practise in malaysia for many years.

in my taman, mostly chinese and indian, we all doing that on special occasion, sometimes it's funeral, or festival gatherings. all open tents until at the center of road and all guests park everywhere nearby the place.

i believe they already apply permit or some sort, sometimes can see rela nearby.

if there is a suitable hall, i believe most of us will already went there instead of dirty our own house right? but the fact distance and cost will affect the decision, so some people do it in their house instead.

of course a polite way is to advance inform your neighbours first b4 the gathering.

when we live in a society, sometimes we will cause nuisance to our neighbours, don't tell me you guys never do renovation and causing noise to neighbours.

most of time we just try to be civil and apologize first, and sometimes we forgot, but we don't need to hate each other because of that.




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post Dec 9 2018, 08:42 PM

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:39 PM)
This tered is not about how to go abt "blocking roads for private events"  without irritating your neighbours.

The question is : should it be allowed at all?
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baru duduk malaysia? lel
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:43 PM

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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ Dec 9 2018, 08:38 PM)
Oh well, I wouldn't say I hate it, nor love it. I just considered it a favour for my neighbour. It's just for 2-3 days at most even if it's a funeral.
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Well, I fg HATE it.

There's no need for any such favours.

Why have a funeral in the house and not a funeral parlour or religious premises?

What's the benefit of doing so?





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post Dec 9 2018, 08:43 PM

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just get consent la, no need to become extremist ban this ban that. Unless u wanna become like PAS behaviour biggrin.gif
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:44 PM

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QUOTE(milosusu @ Dec 9 2018, 08:42 PM)
baru duduk malaysia? lel
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Why do you ask such a thing? What's the relevance?

If it's something bad, should it be continued?
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:48 PM

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post Dec 9 2018, 08:49 PM

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QUOTE(koja6049 @ Dec 9 2018, 08:43 PM)
just get consent la, no need to become extremist ban this ban that. Unless u wanna become like PAS behaviour biggrin.gif
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What if someone does not consent?

Or the dungus don't even bother to apply for a permit? Probably don't even know a permit is required.

If there's no permit, will the authorities come n dismantle the whole get up? N hopefully put the house owner into the lokap?

PAS tries to impose its religious beliefs onto everyone. This has nothing to do with religion or race.


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post Dec 9 2018, 08:49 PM

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Oi making a poll here wont make a difference lah

Go create a petition instead
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:50 PM

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:44 PM)
Why do you ask such a thing? What's the relevance?

If it's something bad,  should it be continued?
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simple answer yes, nampak sangat kau jenis bukan mesra alam tak bergaul dengan jiran. Majlis kenduri, kematian bukan hari-hari blok jalan, duduk taman perumahan di malaysia blok 1 jalan, jalan lain masih boleh guna
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:49 PM)
What if someone does not consent?

Or the dungus don't even bother to apply for a permit? Probably don't even know a permit is required.

If there's no permit,  will the authorities come n dismantle the whole get up?  N hopefully put the house owner into the lokap?

PAS tries to impose its religious beliefs onto everyone. This has nothing to do with religion or race.
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then u also cannot impose your preference on other people. Sure you don't like your opposite neighbours put tent. That doesn't mean u should ban all tents being put up on the next neighbourhood doh.gif
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post Dec 9 2018, 08:52 PM

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QUOTE(Mummy Shark @ Dec 9 2018, 08:33 PM)
yes, the event have to submit plan to reroute traffic, for approval. bukan suka-suka pacak anytime berasa murah hati.

on the other hand, benda ni bukan tiba-tiba rancang. makan berbulan. advance notice. be a good neighbour, raikan bersama instead of komplen memanjang.

ingat kes rusuhan taman medan.
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Eh, cannot "raikan bersama" if the event is held at a proper venue ke?

Please tell me why it must be held on a road in front of the house?

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post Dec 9 2018, 08:56 PM

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QUOTE(milosusu @ Dec 9 2018, 08:33 PM)
ada mulut bagitau jangan pasang khemah depan rumah jangan jadi macam isu taman medan dah la kikiki
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You mean you can tell your neighbour not to put a tent in front of his own house when currently the local council will allow it?

what I'm saying is to disallow EVERYONE n anyone from doing it.



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post Dec 9 2018, 08:59 PM

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TS, very funny.. Like we all owe him an answer, lol..

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post Dec 9 2018, 09:01 PM

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QUOTE(DuitNow @ Dec 9 2018, 08:34 PM)
Well, all races in my area do it, its just give and take.
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Doesn't matter whatever race, why not everyone of whatever race NOT do it?

I cannot understand why it's OK because someone else does it.

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post Dec 9 2018, 09:02 PM

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QUOTE(Phoenix_KL @ Dec 9 2018, 08:34 PM)
mother father road?
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If it's mother father road then nobody can object, go ahead.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:03 PM

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QUOTE(slimey @ Dec 9 2018, 08:38 PM)
I ask cement truck to pour cement into car that block path.
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I think this is out of topic.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:03 PM

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Better ban the canopy in front of people house
Otherwise people will get triggered and blame the dog
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Ini mesti jenis living with neighbors for more than 10 yrs n the common conversation being hey hai wassup with the conversations not even lasting 10 seconds
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 09:01 PM)
Doesn't matter whatever race,  why not everyone of whatever race NOT do it?

I cannot understand why it's OK because someone else does it.
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Because its cheaper, here all small houses, people dont have money, so usually we all give and take for kenduri, festival, even parlour etc.

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QUOTE(Zanei Gundan @ Dec 9 2018, 08:40 PM)
rumah end of the road

hang nak komplen apa?
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If it's disallowed then :

Uniformity.

Law applies to all.

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post Dec 9 2018, 09:07 PM

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You don’t like go report in proper channels. Not come Kopitiam rant and don’t do anything in reality. Btw by the time you report the event also over already
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Plot twist: TS actually the "uncle" in the video. ohmy.gif
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:10 PM

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> one house held put up tent
> block whole road
> kenduri
> bunch of party goers park their car in front of other people's house front gate
> one neighbor got agitated he got blocked so honk none stop
> suddenly a few neighbours join in the fun, get in their car and honk none stop as well
> kenduri stopped blasting music and people start to go back
> ayyy lmao
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QUOTE(MEngineer @ Dec 9 2018, 09:07 PM)
You don’t like go report in proper channels. Not come Kopitiam rant and don’t do anything in reality. Btw by the time you report the event also over already
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Usually when the celebration over, they quickly remove it, usually in the middle of the night.

QUOTE(darthboyzzee @ Dec 9 2018, 09:07 PM)
Plot twist: TS actually the "uncle" in the video. ohmy.gif
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What video? blink.gif

QUOTE(JonSpark @ Dec 9 2018, 09:10 PM)
> one house held put up tent
> block whole road
> kenduri
> bunch of party goers park their car in front of other people's house front gate
> one neighbor got agitated he got blocked so honk none stop
> suddenly a few neighbours join in the fun, get in their car and honk none stop as well
> kenduri stopped blasting music and people start to go back
> ayyy lmao
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Later my area people honk in the middle of the night, all cannot sleep. doh.gif

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post Dec 9 2018, 09:15 PM

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post Dec 9 2018, 09:15 PM

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That’s why best don’t talk to such neighbors.

Always thinking when is the best time to take advantage.

Should just beat their mother and burn those tents etc. Set it on faiya and watch them burn.

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post Dec 9 2018, 09:16 PM

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curious, does this happen in developed countries with individualistic cultures?

anyone staying overseas?

or it only happened in Malaysia/Sg or SEA?

bcos i know one expatriate (it happened in Msia) shouted at one local who waited outside his house although with the car engine on. thumbsup.gif

The expatriate shouted at the guy not to block his gate.

The local replied something like 5 minutes only

The expatriate replied back, "i don't care!!, get away"

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post Dec 9 2018, 09:19 PM

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:39 PM)
This tered is not about how to go abt "blocking roads for private events"  without irritating your neighbours.

The question is : should it be allowed at all?
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Good luck banning that. You'll get a firestorm up your arse.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:24 PM

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If they asked or someone plassaway, sure no problem. If they just set up like nobody business, please lar.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:25 PM

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QUOTE(ReWeR @ Dec 9 2018, 08:42 PM)
calm down first, I don't see the reason you need to suddenly have negative view on something that already practise in malaysia for many years.

in my taman, mostly chinese and indian, we all doing that on special occasion, sometimes it's funeral, or festival gatherings. all open tents until at the center of road and all guests park everywhere nearby the place.

i believe they already apply permit or some sort, sometimes can see rela nearby.

if there is a suitable hall, i believe most of us will already went there instead of dirty our own house right? but the fact distance and cost will affect the decision, so some people do it in their house instead.

of course a polite way is to advance inform your neighbours first b4 the gathering.

when we live in a society, sometimes we will cause nuisance to our neighbours, don't tell me you guys never do renovation and causing noise to neighbours.

most of time we just try to be civil and apologize first, and sometimes we forgot, but we don't need to hate each other because of that.
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It's not me suddenly having a negative view of this practice, most certainly I am against it for a very long time, regardless of the race involved or the nature of the event.

I am certainly shocked by the ktard who said the local council grants permits for such shenanigans ie it may not be illegal.

I am against totally against it n no permits shd be granted at all; just make it illegal to do so. No exceptions.

It's impossible that there's no suitable venue for whatever the event the house owner wants to hold.

If cost or distance is an issue n the house owner die die must do it in his house, then he must scale down the event to suit the size of his house n compound. Not take over a public road n be a nuisance to the neighbourhood.

While I do think it's rude, selfish, moronic and uncivil to do this, the better solution is not to allow it at all in the first place; instead of being "polite" / apologetic whilst still knowingly being a nuisance.

Doing renovations is different - it's on the owner's own property. He's not doing renovations on a public road. I'm pretty sure the owner is not allowed to build his private bathroom in the middle of the road fronting his house.

Mind you, I hate this practice n do think badly of those who do it but it's impossible for me to hate all those who do it right? So pls don't project your thoughts onto me.





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post Dec 9 2018, 09:26 PM

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QUOTE(8cr13mov @ Dec 9 2018, 08:49 PM)
hey ts

reply to this sensible post please

lol
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:29 PM)
As I've stated b4,  I absolutely Hate n abhor the awful practice of setting up tents/gazebo on the road in front of one's house n blocking traffic for the house owner's private event.

Whatever the race involved,  for whatever private event.

Please have your private event at a suitable venue instead of being a nuisance in your neighbourhood.

What reason could there possibly be to justify this practice?

I could hardly believe my eyes when I read one ktard say that the local councils can n will grant permits for this.

edit: to make it clear,  I am against it whether or not there's a permit granted.

In fact,  I think it should be totally illegal to do so.
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I don't know about others or other place, but here under MPSJ jurisdiction you can actually apply for that. and it is not illegal as long you got permit.

Sounds like you have a bad neighborhood.

give and take lah.
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who knows when you go outstation, your neighbor watch out for thieves/robbers for you.. or if their baby is full month, they give some eggs etc etc.. else like they say, if can't share the road/neighborhood, why not just stay apartment?
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QUOTE(milosusu @ Dec 9 2018, 08:50 PM)
simple answer yes, nampak sangat kau jenis bukan mesra alam tak bergaul dengan jiran. Majlis kenduri, kematian bukan hari-hari blok jalan, duduk taman perumahan di malaysia blok 1 jalan, jalan lain masih boleh guna
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1. Bergaul w jiran is mesra alam ? Hahaha
2. Why must "majlis kenduri, kematian" be done not in the house but on a public road? Regardless of whether it's hari-hari or not?

So far, no reason has been given; only EXCUSES that it's OK since it's not hari-hari.

Btw, did u read the ktard's post who said jiran A did for 2 days, jiran B did for 3 days, jiran C did for 4 days?

So it does add up so it's not only 1 day on 365 days.





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Kalau pasang khemah pasal ada orang mati/funeral boleh tak?
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QUOTE(juneboy @ Dec 9 2018, 08:50 PM)
I can accept if they block just their house. Road will be blocked but can use another. Inconvenient but tolerable. But blocking somebody else's house is unacceptable.
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I m against blocking the public road for private event which can n should be done elsewhere.
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QUOTE(koja6049 @ Dec 9 2018, 08:50 PM)
then u also cannot impose your preference on other people. Sure you don't like your opposite neighbours put tent. That doesn't mean u should ban all tents being put up on the next neighbourhood  doh.gif
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It's called civic consciousness for the benefit of everyone.

Not just a personal preference for my own private benefit.

Eg my preference is to berak wherever I please eg on MRT. Can I do that?




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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 09:39 PM)
It's called civic consciousness for the benefit of everyone.

Not just a personal preference for my own private benefit.

Eg my preference is to berak wherever I please eg on MRT.  Can I do that?
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whoa...

since when setup a tent in front of the house is similar to berak in the mrt?
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QUOTE(Orthodox @ Dec 9 2018, 08:55 PM)
ini adalah contoh orang yang tidak tahu hidup bermasyarakat
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Hidup bermasyarakat means doing things that benefits everyone and not doing things that harm the masyarakat.

Tell me, which category does blocking public roads for private events, fall into?


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QUOTE(lil_flank @ Dec 9 2018, 08:59 PM)
TS, very funny.. Like we all owe him an answer, lol..

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Then why did you come into this thread n post a reply?

It's a discussion forum. Topics posted for discussion.
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 09:42 PM)
Hidup bermasyarakat means doing things that benefits everyone and not doing things that harm the masyarakat.

Tell me,  which category does blocking public roads for private events, fall into?
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They didn't invite u to makan together is it?

or tapao for u some foods?
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 09:33 PM)
1.  Bergaul w jiran is mesra alam ? Hahaha
2.  Why must "majlis kenduri,  kematian"  be done not in the house but on a public road?  Regardless of whether it's hari-hari or not?

So far,  no reason has been given; only EXCUSES  that it's OK since it's not hari-hari.

Btw,  did u read the ktard's post who said jiran A did for 2 days,  jiran B did for 3 days,  jiran C did for 4 days? 

So it does add up so it's not only 1 day on 365 days.
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QUOTE(prince12 @ Dec 9 2018, 09:03 PM)
Better ban the canopy in front of people house
Otherwise people will get triggered and blame the dog
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What are u going on about?

QUOTE(ketupatlazat @ Dec 9 2018, 09:04 PM)
Ini mesti jenis living with neighbors for more than 10 yrs n the common conversation being hey hai wassup with the conversations not even lasting 10 seconds
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I haven't lived in the area for 10 years. So how?

Even if I have lived wherever for 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 .. . . . years I would still be against this road maharajalela crap.


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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Dec 9 2018, 09:16 PM)
curious, does this happen in developed countries with individualistic cultures?

anyone staying overseas?

or it only happened in Malaysia/Sg or SEA?

bcos i know one expatriate (it happened in Msia) shouted at one local who waited outside his house although with the car engine on.  :thumbsup:

The expatriate shouted at the guy not to block his gate.

The local replied something like 5 minutes only

The expatriate replied back, "i don't care!!, get away"
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QUOTE(s@ni @ Dec 9 2018, 09:50 PM)
Expat staying in a lousy community? Topkek..
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It's a high-end posh neighbourhood.
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QUOTE(DuitNow @ Dec 9 2018, 09:04 PM)
Because its cheaper, here all small houses, people dont have money, so usually we all give and take for kenduri, festival, even parlour etc.
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You haven't heard of Community halls? Rental is nominal n maybe even free for community.

Only can give and take for kenduri, festival n even parlour in a house?

If event done elsewhere suddenly cannot give n take anymore? Suddenly it's not hidup bermasyarakat?

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:32 PM)
If you vote to continue this "road  blocking"  nuisance,  pls kindly state why you support it.

Basically,  give me reasons to change my mind about it.
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So you dont care even if the law allows it when he got a permit? Who are you for us to need your consent? Are you above the law?
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 09:25 PM)
It's not me suddenly having a negative view of this practice,  most certainly I am against it for a very long time, regardless of the race involved or the nature of the event.

I am certainly shocked by the ktard who said the local council grants permits for such shenanigans ie it may not be illegal.

I am against totally against it n no permits shd be granted at all; just make it illegal to do so. No exceptions.

It's impossible that there's no suitable venue for whatever the event the house owner wants to hold.

If cost or distance is an issue n the house owner die die must do it in his house,  then he must scale down the event to suit the size of his house n compound.  Not take over a public road n be a nuisance to the neighbourhood.

While I do think it's rude,  selfish,  moronic and  uncivil to do this,  the better solution is not to allow it at all in the first place; instead of being "polite" /  apologetic whilst still knowingly being a nuisance.

Doing renovations is different -  it's on the owner's own property.  He's not doing renovations on a public road.  I'm pretty sure the owner is not allowed to build his private bathroom in the middle of the road fronting his house.

Mind you,  I hate this practice n do think badly of those who do it but it's impossible for me to hate all those who do it right? So pls don't project your thoughts onto me.
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Bersangka baik. Mungkin dewan semua penuh and no other alternative.
Biasanya kalau kenduri kawin org melayu, only pasang khemah awal, kereta masih boleh lalu. Neighbour pun mesti dapat kad jemputan kenduri juga.
Kata la hari majlis tu dari 12pm to 3pm, biasanya diaorg akan blok jalan awal sebelum pemasangan kerusi dan meja. Dan juga mereka akan angkat kerusi meja sebaik tamat majlis.
Khemah biasanya last sekali sebab yg blok jalan ialah kerusi dan meja, bukan khemah.
Kalau kenduri bangsa lain aku tak tau.
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 09:54 PM)
You haven't heard of Community halls? Rental is nominal n maybe even free for community.

Only can give and take for kenduri,  festival n even parlour in a house?

If event done elsewhere suddenly cannot give n take anymore?  Suddenly it's not hidup bermasyarakat?
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Not many places got community hall.
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QUOTE(Balanced @ Dec 9 2018, 09:54 PM)
So you dont care even if the law allows it when he got a permit? Who are you for us to need your consent? Are you above the law?
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QUOTE(MEngineer @ Dec 9 2018, 09:07 PM)
You don’t like go report in proper channels. Not come Kopitiam rant and don’t do anything in reality. Btw by the time you report the event also over already
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Even if you complain to authorities about "no permit" events, I doubt they will do anything n gv replies like "give n take ka" not hari-hari, u not tolerant, u racist BS.

If it's made illegal n authorities do take action even for a few of these roads blocking gangster events eg robohkan during event , I'm pretty sure no one will do it anymore .
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Confirm jenis duk depan komputer 24 jam. Tak reti hidup dalam masyarakat.
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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Dec 9 2018, 09:53 PM)
It's a high-end posh neighbourhood.
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highly likely is elite scum la. those of wall-street kind.

kampung folk are nicer and simpler. biggrin.gif
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Aku tak nak berjiran kan TS
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QUOTE(Timemuffin @ Dec 9 2018, 09:15 PM)
ok lar once in awhile biar org je
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Then if someone double parks n blocks your car, why kecoh. Doesn't the "ok lar once in awhile biar org je" principle apply?
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 10:00 PM)
Even if you complain to authorities about "no permit" events,  I doubt they will do anything n gv replies like "give n take ka"  not hari-hari,  u not tolerant,  u racist  BS.

If it's made illegal n authorities do take action even for a few of these roads blocking gangster events eg robohkan during event ,  I'm pretty sure no one will do it anymore .
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QUOTE(Cookie101 @ Dec 9 2018, 09:15 PM)
That’s why best don’t talk to such neighbors.

Always thinking when is the best time to take advantage.

Should just beat their mother and burn those tents etc. Set it on faiya and watch them burn.

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 10:04 PM)
Then if someone double parks n blocks your car,  why kecoh.  Doesn't the "ok lar once in awhile biar org je"  principle apply?
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Kenduri or death even does not totally disrupt your daily lives la. You can still move out and carry on your own business albeit maybe a bit slower by 1-3 minutes.
U block car, then terus cannot use car. Bagi example also macam bodoh lol
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QUOTE(dingbing @ Dec 9 2018, 09:16 PM)
Some versions of Daoism believe that the spirit of the deceased returns to the place of death 7 days afterwards.

But fuck religious beliefs, it's all superstition anyway. I say disallow funeral tents too. The spirit can fuck off for all I care. The only important thing is I don't get disturbed.
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I support banning all such road blocking for private events, this includes for funerals.



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Inform lah dulu, talk to your jiran first.

Bagi lah duit kopi sikit.

Have some manners.
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QUOTE(DuitNow @ Dec 9 2018, 09:48 PM)
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 09:25 PM)
It's not me suddenly having a negative view of this practice,  most certainly I am against it for a very long time, regardless of the race involved or the nature of the event.

I am certainly shocked by the ktard who said the local council grants permits for such shenanigans ie it may not be illegal.

I am against totally against it n no permits shd be granted at all; just make it illegal to do so. No exceptions.

It's impossible that there's no suitable venue for whatever the event the house owner wants to hold.

If cost or distance is an issue n the house owner die die must do it in his house,  then he must scale down the event to suit the size of his house n compound.  Not take over a public road n be a nuisance to the neighbourhood.

While I do think it's rude,  selfish,  moronic and  uncivil to do this,  the better solution is not to allow it at all in the first place; instead of being "polite" /  apologetic whilst still knowingly being a nuisance.

Doing renovations is different -  it's on the owner's own property.  He's not doing renovations on a public road.  I'm pretty sure the owner is not allowed to build his private bathroom in the middle of the road fronting his house.

Mind you,  I hate this practice n do think badly of those who do it but it's impossible for me to hate all those who do it right? So pls don't project your thoughts onto me.
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so what you mean in Malaysia, no one should utilize public road that will block private properties for private purpose (even after apply permit)?

including rally, event, and celebration?

then I'm sure you hate Bersih rally very much? Since it blocked a lot of roads, making all business has to close down on that day, which is "rude, selfish, and moronic" according to your definition. and Bersih have no permit to use public road as well.

No, no country in this world totally block people from utilizing public road for event/rally/celebration.

If whole world are doing it, I don't see why Malaysians cannot do it.

My advise if you can't accept this is not to have any neighbours then.

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Apa ranjio ini isu pon nak bising. My taman got cina, india. Every single time want to setup tent or blocking road. They usually will tell in advance. So we can park our car somewhere. Then they will get the permit from majlis.

Pity to who got such poor neighborhood attitude.
Cant easily tolerate. Me Malay, got Chinese, india neighbor all really ngam.
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Gonna sleep. Read n reply later

Currently 64.63% wan this horrible practice banned.
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post Dec 9 2018, 10:23 PM

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This is something tolerable if ppl can be nice when doing it.

Simple.


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My area usually before kenduri will inform and even invite us , so no problem with that manner.
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Kasi chance la

U tot everybody can kawen kat hotel hall meh...

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QUOTE(Lyu @ Dec 9 2018, 10:33 PM)
Kasi chance la

U tot everybody can kawen kat hotel hall meh...

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newer housing estates due to security reasons started to do a one-in one-out road for the row of houses except for the mainroad connecting the OIOU roads......if do this and block the road sure jam
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after living in my current neighborhood of 500+ people for more than 8 years, i've only seen twice where they did put up tents on the small road in front of my house and blocking it, and one is wedding and another is funeral.

since i cant drive my car through the small road back to my home, i just park my car further away near the main road and walk the rest of the way to my home.

and in the morning, just take a walk to the main road and drive my car to work.

i think its no problem at all, because wedding, funeral or any occasion that needs to put up tents that stretch from the house to the road in front of the house are very rare.
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QUOTE(milosusu @ Dec 9 2018, 09:33 PM)
ada mulut bagitau jangan pasang khemah depan rumah jangan jadi macam isu taman medan dah la kikiki
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Personally I don't mind if it was discussed or at the very least have the neighbors informed ahead of time and all parties is in agreement.

But ya, better done at a public hall. Better parking some more.
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:43 PM)
Well,  I fg HATE it.

There's no need for any such favours.

Why have a funeral in the house and not a funeral parlour or religious premises?

What's the benefit of doing so?
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Hard to give a discreet answer to this. Some elderly prefer it this way.

What I got to say is that nowadays neighbours probably means very little to guys like you for example. For my grandma, they literally knew who's who from their street and the adjacent one, and so on. Thus when she passed away and held the funeral in her house, it's easier for the neighbours to pay their last respect. Besides it's been the tradition to be sent away from home if possible. Most of the ones that did it outside either lives in condo or the young one who passed away before their parents do. Of course there are those that chooses to do it away from home as well, but probably just a small number of them.

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