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Do you support this practice?
 
1. Yes, continue as usual [ 41 ] ** [36.61%]
2. No, please ban it. [ 71 ] ** [63.39%]
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:19 PM

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:39 PM)
This tered is not about how to go abt "blocking roads for private events"  without irritating your neighbours.

The question is : should it be allowed at all?
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Good luck banning that. You'll get a firestorm up your arse.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:24 PM

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If they asked or someone plassaway, sure no problem. If they just set up like nobody business, please lar.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:25 PM

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QUOTE(ReWeR @ Dec 9 2018, 08:42 PM)
calm down first, I don't see the reason you need to suddenly have negative view on something that already practise in malaysia for many years.

in my taman, mostly chinese and indian, we all doing that on special occasion, sometimes it's funeral, or festival gatherings. all open tents until at the center of road and all guests park everywhere nearby the place.

i believe they already apply permit or some sort, sometimes can see rela nearby.

if there is a suitable hall, i believe most of us will already went there instead of dirty our own house right? but the fact distance and cost will affect the decision, so some people do it in their house instead.

of course a polite way is to advance inform your neighbours first b4 the gathering.

when we live in a society, sometimes we will cause nuisance to our neighbours, don't tell me you guys never do renovation and causing noise to neighbours.

most of time we just try to be civil and apologize first, and sometimes we forgot, but we don't need to hate each other because of that.
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It's not me suddenly having a negative view of this practice, most certainly I am against it for a very long time, regardless of the race involved or the nature of the event.

I am certainly shocked by the ktard who said the local council grants permits for such shenanigans ie it may not be illegal.

I am against totally against it n no permits shd be granted at all; just make it illegal to do so. No exceptions.

It's impossible that there's no suitable venue for whatever the event the house owner wants to hold.

If cost or distance is an issue n the house owner die die must do it in his house, then he must scale down the event to suit the size of his house n compound. Not take over a public road n be a nuisance to the neighbourhood.

While I do think it's rude, selfish, moronic and uncivil to do this, the better solution is not to allow it at all in the first place; instead of being "polite" / apologetic whilst still knowingly being a nuisance.

Doing renovations is different - it's on the owner's own property. He's not doing renovations on a public road. I'm pretty sure the owner is not allowed to build his private bathroom in the middle of the road fronting his house.

Mind you, I hate this practice n do think badly of those who do it but it's impossible for me to hate all those who do it right? So pls don't project your thoughts onto me.





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post Dec 9 2018, 09:26 PM

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QUOTE(8cr13mov @ Dec 9 2018, 08:49 PM)
hey ts

reply to this sensible post please

lol
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Takes time to answer one by one.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:28 PM

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 08:29 PM)
As I've stated b4,  I absolutely Hate n abhor the awful practice of setting up tents/gazebo on the road in front of one's house n blocking traffic for the house owner's private event.

Whatever the race involved,  for whatever private event.

Please have your private event at a suitable venue instead of being a nuisance in your neighbourhood.

What reason could there possibly be to justify this practice?

I could hardly believe my eyes when I read one ktard say that the local councils can n will grant permits for this.

edit: to make it clear,  I am against it whether or not there's a permit granted.

In fact,  I think it should be totally illegal to do so.
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I don't know about others or other place, but here under MPSJ jurisdiction you can actually apply for that. and it is not illegal as long you got permit.

Sounds like you have a bad neighborhood.

give and take lah.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:32 PM

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who knows when you go outstation, your neighbor watch out for thieves/robbers for you.. or if their baby is full month, they give some eggs etc etc.. else like they say, if can't share the road/neighborhood, why not just stay apartment?
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:33 PM

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QUOTE(milosusu @ Dec 9 2018, 08:50 PM)
simple answer yes, nampak sangat kau jenis bukan mesra alam tak bergaul dengan jiran. Majlis kenduri, kematian bukan hari-hari blok jalan, duduk taman perumahan di malaysia blok 1 jalan, jalan lain masih boleh guna
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1. Bergaul w jiran is mesra alam ? Hahaha
2. Why must "majlis kenduri, kematian" be done not in the house but on a public road? Regardless of whether it's hari-hari or not?

So far, no reason has been given; only EXCUSES that it's OK since it's not hari-hari.

Btw, did u read the ktard's post who said jiran A did for 2 days, jiran B did for 3 days, jiran C did for 4 days?

So it does add up so it's not only 1 day on 365 days.





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post Dec 9 2018, 09:34 PM

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Kalau pasang khemah pasal ada orang mati/funeral boleh tak?
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:36 PM

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QUOTE(juneboy @ Dec 9 2018, 08:50 PM)
I can accept if they block just their house. Road will be blocked but can use another. Inconvenient but tolerable. But blocking somebody else's house is unacceptable.
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I m against blocking the public road for private event which can n should be done elsewhere.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:39 PM

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QUOTE(koja6049 @ Dec 9 2018, 08:50 PM)
then u also cannot impose your preference on other people. Sure you don't like your opposite neighbours put tent. That doesn't mean u should ban all tents being put up on the next neighbourhood  doh.gif
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It's called civic consciousness for the benefit of everyone.

Not just a personal preference for my own private benefit.

Eg my preference is to berak wherever I please eg on MRT. Can I do that?




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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 09:39 PM)
It's called civic consciousness for the benefit of everyone.

Not just a personal preference for my own private benefit.

Eg my preference is to berak wherever I please eg on MRT.  Can I do that?
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whoa...

since when setup a tent in front of the house is similar to berak in the mrt?
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:41 PM

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get consent lo...
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:42 PM

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QUOTE(Orthodox @ Dec 9 2018, 08:55 PM)
ini adalah contoh orang yang tidak tahu hidup bermasyarakat
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Hidup bermasyarakat means doing things that benefits everyone and not doing things that harm the masyarakat.

Tell me, which category does blocking public roads for private events, fall into?


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post Dec 9 2018, 09:44 PM

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QUOTE(lil_flank @ Dec 9 2018, 08:59 PM)
TS, very funny.. Like we all owe him an answer, lol..

Have u ever heard.. U tak suka, U keluar!
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Then why did you come into this thread n post a reply?

It's a discussion forum. Topics posted for discussion.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:45 PM

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 09:42 PM)
Hidup bermasyarakat means doing things that benefits everyone and not doing things that harm the masyarakat.

Tell me,  which category does blocking public roads for private events, fall into?
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They didn't invite u to makan together is it?

or tapao for u some foods?
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:48 PM

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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Dec 9 2018, 09:33 PM)
1.  Bergaul w jiran is mesra alam ? Hahaha
2.  Why must "majlis kenduri,  kematian"  be done not in the house but on a public road?  Regardless of whether it's hari-hari or not?

So far,  no reason has been given; only EXCUSES  that it's OK since it's not hari-hari.

Btw,  did u read the ktard's post who said jiran A did for 2 days,  jiran B did for 3 days,  jiran C did for 4 days? 

So it does add up so it's not only 1 day on 365 days.
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Link?
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:49 PM

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QUOTE(prince12 @ Dec 9 2018, 09:03 PM)
Better ban the canopy in front of people house
Otherwise people will get triggered and blame the dog
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What are u going on about?

QUOTE(ketupatlazat @ Dec 9 2018, 09:04 PM)
Ini mesti jenis living with neighbors for more than 10 yrs n the common conversation being hey hai wassup with the conversations not even lasting 10 seconds
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I haven't lived in the area for 10 years. So how?

Even if I have lived wherever for 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 .. . . . years I would still be against this road maharajalela crap.


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post Dec 9 2018, 09:50 PM

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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Dec 9 2018, 09:16 PM)
curious, does this happen in developed countries with individualistic cultures?

anyone staying overseas?

or it only happened in Malaysia/Sg or SEA?

bcos i know one expatriate (it happened in Msia) shouted at one local who waited outside his house although with the car engine on.  :thumbsup:

The expatriate shouted at the guy not to block his gate.

The local replied something like 5 minutes only

The expatriate replied back, "i don't care!!, get away"
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Expat staying in a lousy community? Topkek..
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:53 PM

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QUOTE(s@ni @ Dec 9 2018, 09:50 PM)
Expat staying in a lousy community? Topkek..
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It's a high-end posh neighbourhood.
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post Dec 9 2018, 09:54 PM

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QUOTE(DuitNow @ Dec 9 2018, 09:04 PM)
Because its cheaper, here all small houses, people dont have money, so usually we all give and take for kenduri, festival, even parlour etc.
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You haven't heard of Community halls? Rental is nominal n maybe even free for community.

Only can give and take for kenduri, festival n even parlour in a house?

If event done elsewhere suddenly cannot give n take anymore? Suddenly it's not hidup bermasyarakat?


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