AlamakLor: Are you saying that my lens has a defect if the DOF is spread 2/3rds behind the subject and 1/3rds towards the camera? It's a normal characteristic of depth of field.
Lay a ruler on a table, 0cm mark towards you, and shoot it from 45 degrees. Point at the 10cm mark and shoot with a 50mm lens wide open. Notice that the 5cm point and the 20cm point are equally in focus.
(At this point, you'd also find out if you have a front-focusing problem or not.)
Then, look at the DOF markings on the 50mm lens. Notice how the distance doubles for an equivalent turn.
More AF points does not make it any easier. I could use the center point all day. I like where my Sony A100 puts the 9 points; all along the rule-of-thirds (which, incidentally, setting a focus point along the rule of thirds will help with hyperfocal focusing).
Even if you had a D200, you might be cursing its other, less sensitive AF points. At that point a Pentax K10D with 9 out of 11 points being cross-type sensors will appeal.

If there's no front-focusing, then cjtune's theory of it refocusing might be true. You could also focus at a distance, then outstretch your left hand in front of the camera.