we paid around RM 3500 for a lady who comes in the day time, 9am to 3pm or so. convenient, dont have to arrange a room for her (lack of space). If you are looking, PM me, i'll give the contact.

as for man helping out, i did do some stuff like boil the herbal drink, make dessert to boost milk and mummy's health. not hard at all. Of course confinement lady helped a lot.