QUOTE(Frust guy @ Oct 8 2018, 01:24 AM)
Honestly, dunno how long i can continue this relationship.
Seriously almost losing every inch of love and care for her. Not because of third party/other external party, but seems like we're really showing how incompatible we are. Almost every week will fight. And most of the time she said want to divorce. To the extend thay im already sick of hearing that word.
Only thing that makes me not agreeing to her demand is coz of our 1 yr old daughter. Dont want her to grow up without father/mother. And i dont wanna lose my daughter too
Looks like im stuck in this toxic relationship. Fml
It's sad to hear this... because it's not just about the both of you, it's also about your daughter.
I'll recommend family counselling for both of you to find some common grounds. Rather than to say you're losing love for her, it could be due to all these fighting. What you both need is time for your ownself, as well as to reciprocate and share all the tasks. Life changes when you have a child; you are no longer the bachelor you used to be and she's also a mother. Both your priorities change. You'll need to understand each other better emotionally and give each other space at the same time.
As usual, there's 2 sides to a coin. I'm sure there's a reason why she's bringing up divorce and it's likely to be stress induced. Seek a counselor and try to mend your relationship because if both of you still have hope, and are willing to put in the effort, nothing is impossible. Reignite the spark you think you've lost. Having a child is tiring and life will never return to how it used to be... but it's a commitment and your child is your "life". So value her and do the best
for her.
All the best to both of you.