Advice Wanted falling for a girl in office, but dont have guts to said
Advice Wanted falling for a girl in office, but dont have guts to said
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Oct 5 2018, 10:48 AM, updated 6y ago
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after 3 years working.. sitting in front her almost all working days.. just from observation i think i`m falling for her .. but dont have the balls to say anything .. occasionally chat on some non sense subject or work related.. i like to bury this feeling as rite now i`m on another relationship.. but the urges its super strong.. like a feeling of diarrhea strong this relationship is impossible but at the same time i cant ignore it... any suggestion.. This post has been edited by bukechi: Oct 5 2018, 10:49 AM |
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Oct 5 2018, 10:54 AM
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QUOTE(bukechi @ Oct 5 2018, 10:48 AM) after 3 years working.. sitting in front her almost all working days.. just from observation i think i`m falling for her .. but dont have the balls to say anything .. occasionally chat on some non sense subject or work related.. You said you are having another relationship while you falling for her?i like to bury this feeling as rite now i`m on another relationship.. but the urges its super strong.. like a feeling of diarrhea strong this relationship is impossible but at the same time i cant ignore it... any suggestion.. 1. End your current relationship and go for her. 2. Forget about your colleague and start working! |
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Oct 5 2018, 10:55 AM
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Don't be a jerk. If already in an relationship, either give up your current relationship or just give up her. Else eventually all 3 parties will be suffer due to your diarrhea
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Oct 5 2018, 10:57 AM
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Don't have guts then continue diarrhea and focus on your other relationship.
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Oct 5 2018, 12:35 PM
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QUOTE(bukechi @ Oct 5 2018, 10:48 AM) after 3 years working.. sitting in front her almost all working days.. just from observation i think i`m falling for her .. but dont have the balls to say anything .. occasionally chat on some non sense subject or work related.. There's something deeper to be learn in this eventi like to bury this feeling as rite now i`m on another relationship.. but the urges its super strong.. like a feeling of diarrhea strong this relationship is impossible but at the same time i cant ignore it... any suggestion.. |
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Oct 5 2018, 04:56 PM
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well .. thanks for the input guys..
i`m only just cant bury the felling.. as i`m sure she dont have feeling for me... better give up now before bad things happen let natures take it course ... i heard that , once the girl reject you.. they will not look you the same ever again ps: better find a ghost as a girlfriend better |
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Oct 5 2018, 09:11 PM
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quit your job..you sure can forget about her
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Oct 7 2018, 09:09 AM
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QUOTE(bukechi @ Oct 5 2018, 10:48 AM) after 3 years working.. sitting in front her almost all working days.. just from observation i think i`m falling for her .. but dont have the balls to say anything .. occasionally chat on some non sense subject or work related.. Your current relationship invisible kah? Apa ni? Gatal betul.i like to bury this feeling as rite now i`m on another relationship.. but the urges its super strong.. like a feeling of diarrhea strong this relationship is impossible but at the same time i cant ignore it... any suggestion.. |
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Oct 7 2018, 09:49 PM
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in a relationship pun horny lagi kah
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Oct 7 2018, 10:49 PM
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Its a good test to test your loyalty
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Oct 8 2018, 02:53 AM
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you said you'd fall for her by observation, but are you sure you are her cup of tea?
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Oct 8 2018, 08:13 AM
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you are in another relationship. if current relationship got no problem, stop observing her. do your job properly
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Oct 8 2018, 10:10 AM
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QUOTE(butterjiken @ Oct 7 2018, 09:49 PM) statically and proven survey showed that all in relationship will have opportunity and chances given at least once or more to prove and choose love which seem best... well i guess i somehow got that chances yo or am i? QUOTE(ymc2303 @ Oct 8 2018, 02:53 AM) to think about it, yes you might be true... i also wonder , if i do success in a relationship with her.. how bout the near distant future .. might i fall love to another person again... then again.. lust or love.. internal question to all man i guess QUOTE(soulz69 @ Oct 8 2018, 08:13 AM) you are in another relationship. if current relationship got no problem, stop observing her. do your job properly haha.. guess you right.. empty head lead to a devil playground... so brazen |
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Oct 8 2018, 10:58 AM
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Actually office romance happen more often than people think. Because it is always kept a secret so people think it happens rarely.
She is probably not even your cup of tea because it has taken 3 years for you to fall in love. You are sitting in front of her for 3 years and the close proximity is what I think cause you to fall for her. If you change your siting to another place I am sure you will lose interest in her within a month. Distance from her is all you need if you want to forget about her. I guess you just want a little drama or escape from your work day. |
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Oct 8 2018, 11:15 AM
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I think you're feeling physical attraction. It's okay to have such feelings but be responsible and mature about how you act on them. If anything, limit it to just eyecandy.
Dating a workplace colleague is very tricky and can screw you over if it goes poorly. |
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Oct 8 2018, 11:20 AM
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Just because someone made ur balls tingling, doesnt mean you're spiderman, and doesnt mean she's the one....
Calm your balls... |
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Oct 9 2018, 08:36 AM
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dont shit where you eat
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Oct 10 2018, 04:33 PM
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QUOTE(royalben @ Oct 8 2018, 10:58 AM) Actually office romance happen more often than people think. Because it is always kept a secret so people think it happens rarely. today i follow your suggestion.. i tried to sit somewhere else... for half an hour.. i feel a bit different, no more imgaining stuff... i will try again tomorrow ... hope this will be a quick fix for me.. tqvm She is probably not even your cup of tea because it has taken 3 years for you to fall in love. You are sitting in front of her for 3 years and the close proximity is what I think cause you to fall for her. If you change your siting to another place I am sure you will lose interest in her within a month. Distance from her is all you need if you want to forget about her. I guess you just want a little drama or escape from your work day. |
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Oct 10 2018, 05:41 PM
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Lust is the problem, it will kill you. wake up !! before too late. want eat also eat far far.
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Oct 10 2018, 05:50 PM
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TS, it is obviously a one sided attraction.
It is often sad to see adults still having such problems especially those who are already in a relationship. From the way you describe it, you barely have any relationship with this woman. There was another forumer who was attracted to his married female colleague but the woman was a teaser and she told the guy about her marital problems. So he was under the impression that they had something gong on but he was apparently mistaken when she suddenly turned cold. But you only have a hi and bye sort of relationship so what you are currently feeling is definitely not health. Work on your current issues with your partner. Perhaps you might also want to consider taking to a professional such as counsellor or psychologist to help any underlying issues that you are facing. |
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