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post Sep 7 2018, 05:30 AM, updated 8y ago

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Hello guys, kinda need a little bit of advice about this.

My gf and I had sex during the 2nd Sept and her last period is on 22nd Aug. And i think from counting days, maybe the 2nd sept is on her fertile days. Last period cycle last 32 days. After sex, she noticed she got lots of clear vaginal fluid (kinda sticky), which we dont usually experienced before. Usually sometimes she got the bleeding after intercourse, so kinda confused about this.

And yeah..the reason why im asking this coz we're not expecting as of now. Makes me worried coz we planned our engagement on March next year so, don't want to spoil this.. And we did use condom correctly and pulling out also.

So what are the chances this might be the time for ovulation? Anyone can share your experience? Thanks so much.
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post Sep 7 2018, 05:35 AM

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use condom , your chances of your fiancee getting pregnant is 0.01% (99.9% protection)...chill have more fun!
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post Sep 7 2018, 09:29 AM

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QUOTE(marcuspena90 @ Sep 7 2018, 05:30 AM)
Hello guys, kinda need a little bit of advice about this.

My gf and I had sex during the 2nd Sept and her last period is on 22nd Aug. And i think from counting days, maybe the 2nd sept is on her fertile days. Last period cycle last 32 days. After sex, she noticed she got lots of clear vaginal fluid (kinda sticky), which we dont usually experienced before. Usually sometimes she got the bleeding after intercourse, so kinda confused about this.

And yeah..the reason why im asking this coz we're not expecting as of now. Makes me worried coz we planned our engagement on March next year so, don't want to spoil this.. And we did use condom correctly and pulling out also.

So what are the chances this might be the time for ovulation? Anyone can share your experience? Thanks so much.
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ok, how do u count her fertile days?

many people mistakenly count from the last day of period.
You need to count from the 1st day of her last period.

U mentioned here 22nd Aug.
Is this 1st day or last day?
If this is 1st day and cycle is 32, then ovulation around 6th to 11th with 8th,9th and 10th being the most fertile, not 2nd Sept.

if 22nd Aug is last day, lets say she started on 17th Aug, then her ovulation around 1st to 6th, with 3rd, 4th and 5th being the most fertile.

Of course this is just a guideline.

Anyway, what i think is, she got lots of clear vaginal fluid because its her ovulation hormones.
women usually gets more wet around ovulation cycle, and also some libido spike during ovulation.
so i guess its normal.



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post Sep 7 2018, 09:35 AM

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QUOTE(cherrios @ Sep 7 2018, 05:35 AM)
use condom , your chances of your fiancee getting pregnant is 0.01% (99.9% protection)...chill have more fun!
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Thanks for the kind words bro..hopefully everything is okay lah. Kinda distracted these few days.
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post Sep 7 2018, 09:37 AM

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QUOTE(marcuspena90 @ Sep 7 2018, 05:30 AM)
Hello guys, kinda need a little bit of advice about this.

My gf and I had sex during the 2nd Sept and her last period is on 22nd Aug. And i think from counting days, maybe the 2nd sept is on her fertile days. Last period cycle last 32 days. After sex, she noticed she got lots of clear vaginal fluid (kinda sticky), which we dont usually experienced before. Usually sometimes she got the bleeding after intercourse, so kinda confused about this.

And yeah..the reason why im asking this coz we're not expecting as of now. Makes me worried coz we planned our engagement on March next year so, don't want to spoil this.. And we did use condom correctly and pulling out also.

So what are the chances this might be the time for ovulation? Anyone can share your experience? Thanks so much.
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Unless domdom is sabotaged, probability pregnant 0.01%

sticky discharge is normal during fertility period
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post Sep 7 2018, 09:46 AM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 7 2018, 09:29 AM)
ok, how do u count her fertile days?

many people mistakenly count from the last day of period.
You need to count from the 1st day of her last period.

U mentioned here 22nd Aug.
Is this 1st day or last day?
If this is 1st day and cycle is 32, then ovulation around 6th to 11th with 8th,9th and 10th being the most fertile, not 2nd Sept.

if 22nd Aug is last day, lets say she started on 17th Aug, then her  ovulation around 1st to 6th, with 3rd, 4th and 5th being the most fertile.

Of course this is just a guideline.

Anyway, what i think is, she got lots of clear vaginal fluid because its her ovulation hormones.
women usually gets more wet around ovulation cycle, and also some libido spike during ovulation.
so i guess its normal.
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Hi, thanks a lot for the detailed explanation,its really helpful. Yeah 22nd Aug is her first day and ends around 26-27th Aug,so i miscalculate a bit. And she also have irregular cycle sometimes. Not always 28 days, more like 29-30ish days.

And I forgot to mention also, she did have this brownish red blood discharge (she said maybe the old blood from the cycle) during the 1st sept, does this means anything? Indicating she's just starting her ovulation cycle?

Again, thanks for your words. Hopefully i dont messed up anything here. We've been off from sex for about 10 months before, and even i double check the condom to make sure there are no tear.
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post Sep 7 2018, 09:46 AM

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Pregnancy test kit is your new best friend. You can have your gf start testing if her period is a week past her usual timing. Good luck
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post Sep 7 2018, 09:49 AM

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QUOTE(marcuspena90 @ Sep 7 2018, 09:46 AM)
Hi, thanks a lot for the detailed explanation,its really helpful. Yeah 22nd Aug is her first day and ends around 26-27th Aug,so i miscalculate a bit. And she also have irregular cycle sometimes. Not always 28 days, more like 29-30ish days.

And I forgot to mention also, she did have this brownish red blood discharge (she said maybe the old blood from the cycle) during the 1st sept, does this means anything? Indicating she's just starting her ovulation cycle?

Again, thanks for your words. Hopefully i dont messed up anything here. We've been off from sex for about 10 months before, and even i double check the condom to make sure there are no tear.
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maybe she was just too horny, or maybe too horny from 10 months without sex.
gets more wet than normal.

brownish red, indicates not so fresh blood. perhaps from last period.

she has this many times before?
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post Sep 7 2018, 09:51 AM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Sep 7 2018, 09:37 AM)
Unless domdom is sabotaged, probability pregnant 0.01%

sticky discharge is normal during fertility period
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I see. As far as i know, im really careful every time opening the package. Its just..never know we're doing it during the fertile phase.

Should i stop worrying about it now or watch more signs from her?
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post Sep 7 2018, 09:52 AM

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QUOTE(Daddy2be @ Sep 7 2018, 09:46 AM)
Pregnancy test kit is your new best friend. You can have your gf start testing if her period is a week past her usual timing. Good luck
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Okay bro, noted. Thanks for the heads up. Will test it if her period does not come.
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post Sep 7 2018, 09:55 AM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 7 2018, 09:49 AM)
maybe she was just too horny, or maybe too horny from 10 months without sex.
gets more wet than normal.

brownish red, indicates not so fresh blood. perhaps from last period.

she has this many times before?
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Oh okay2. I see. Yeap, she does get this many times before. Not on regular basis, but she did told me sometimes. It came like after 3rd or 4th day after her period stops. Does it ring anything?
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post Sep 7 2018, 10:00 AM

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QUOTE(marcuspena90 @ Sep 7 2018, 09:55 AM)
Oh okay2. I see. Yeap, she does get this many times before. Not on regular basis, but she did told me sometimes. It came like after 3rd or 4th day after her period stops. Does it ring anything?
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normally its nothing. its just the vagina cleaning and flushing the blood out to prepare for ovulation and perhaps pregnancy.
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post Sep 8 2018, 03:02 AM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 7 2018, 10:00 AM)
normally its nothing. its just the vagina cleaning and flushing the blood out to prepare for ovulation and perhaps pregnancy.
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Okay noted. I get the picture now. Will see how it goes during her next cycle. Thank you so much for the help. Really apreciate it.
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post Sep 8 2018, 08:44 AM

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QUOTE(marcuspena90 @ Sep 8 2018, 03:02 AM)
Okay noted. I get the picture now. Will see how it goes during her next cycle. Thank you so much for the help. Really apreciate it.
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go and download the period tracker app.

for whatever reason, just be a responsible partner.

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post Sep 23 2018, 08:05 AM

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Hello everyone, just wanna post a quick updates. And i do appreciate your thoughts since im still new with this (i did some readings too):

1. My gf period was due on 20th Sept, but yesterday (22nd) she had a brown blood, and its quiet a lot she said. Not a spotting blood which a little, but she said usually she'll get this before her period come. Could this be implantation bleeding somehow?

2. Through out this month, she had 2 times brownish bleeding, on 1st Sept (just a little amount she said,not spotting also) before sex on 2nd Sept, and around 8th-9th Sept after she goes to the gym ( this one is a lot). The one that concerned us is she did feel kinda tired like 5-7 days before her due period( before this she said only when her period comes she feel tired), although right now she do feel breast tenderness, no cramping yet.

My questions are, is this a sign of her period already due or still missed? Or there is implantation bleeding? How long should i wait after this to get tested? Thanks a lot.

This post has been edited by marcuspena90: Sep 23 2018, 08:12 AM
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post Sep 23 2018, 09:24 PM

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QUOTE(marcuspena90 @ Sep 23 2018, 08:05 AM)
Hello everyone, just wanna post a quick updates. And i do appreciate your thoughts since im still new with this (i did some readings too):

1. My gf period was due on 20th Sept, but yesterday (22nd) she had a brown blood, and its quiet a lot she said. Not a spotting blood which a little, but she said usually she'll get this before her period come. Could this be implantation bleeding somehow?

2. Through out this month, she had 2 times brownish bleeding, on 1st Sept (just a little amount she said,not spotting also) before sex on 2nd Sept, and around 8th-9th Sept after she goes to the gym ( this one is a lot). The one that concerned us is she did feel kinda tired like 5-7 days before her due period( before this she said only when her period comes she feel tired), although right now she do feel breast tenderness, no cramping yet.

My questions are, is this a sign of her period already due or still missed? Or there is implantation bleeding? How long should i wait after this to get tested? Thanks a lot.
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Why not just test with pregnancy kit with first batch urine in the morning. This can clear all your doubt.
I've never known anyone whose condom fails them.
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post Sep 24 2018, 10:07 AM

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QUOTE(marcuspena90 @ Sep 23 2018, 08:05 AM)
Hello everyone, just wanna post a quick updates. And i do appreciate your thoughts since im still new with this (i did some readings too):

1. My gf period was due on 20th Sept, but yesterday (22nd) she had a brown blood, and its quiet a lot she said. Not a spotting blood which a little, but she said usually she'll get this before her period come. Could this be implantation bleeding somehow?

2. Through out this month, she had 2 times brownish bleeding, on 1st Sept (just a little amount she said,not spotting also) before sex on 2nd Sept, and around 8th-9th Sept after she goes to the gym ( this one is a lot). The one that concerned us is she did feel kinda tired like 5-7 days before her due period( before this she said only when her period comes she feel tired), although right now she do feel breast tenderness, no cramping yet.

My questions are, is this a sign of her period already due or still missed? Or there is implantation bleeding? How long should i wait after this to get tested? Thanks a lot.
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QUOTE(lowlowc @ Sep 23 2018, 09:24 PM)
Why not just test with pregnancy kit with first batch urine in the morning. This can clear all your doubt.
I've never known anyone whose condom fails them.
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agree. just test already.

also, stress can make the period cycle off as well.
some people stress because want to get pregnant, and some stress because they dont want.
both cases also stress affects and will threw the normal cycle away.
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post Sep 24 2018, 03:54 PM

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Not everyone have consistent period cycle eg exact 28 days. Like the rest here said, do the UPT. it will give you clear cut answer.

 

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